What a rambling mess. Narc damage control. In a nutshell:
Amber's ramble corroberated MammaGoob's DMs - except instead of her admitting that she pushed the dietician to contact the surgeon, she's implying that the dietician is deciding to contact the surgeon without any prompting from Amber. Also keep in mind that this conversation with the dietician was FRIDAY, so the Amberverse is still quite out of sync with our reality.
Amber can't understand how her spoiled brat response to be tolding not yet makes her seem like a spoiled brat. That unhinged response shows how much she wants it!
Blood work results: Hulthy but big (low vitamin D is the only thing Amber mentioned).
She blames her diagnosis of OCPD from 'over 5 years ago' (Summer of 2019 - less than 4 years, Amber), and OCD a couple years ago (1 year ago, according to the HAES psychologist) for why she NEEDS TO KNOW THE EXACT DATE OF THE SURGERY !!!NOW!!!! It's no one's obligation to cater to your toxic PERSONALITY DISORDER.
No, Amber. The metaphor of you hanging a picture and needing one more tool (the nail) does not explain, nor justify acting like a spoiled brat when you were told "later" about WLS and not knowing the exact date that it would be scheduled. That's like saying that you can't hang a picture on the wall unless you are given the date of when the picture will be hanging on the wall. The answer to both scenarios would be the same: it will happen when you complete all of the necessary steps to make it happen.
"I can't get to a healthy body weight without the surgery". They aren't asking for that: they are asking for no binging - which you said you don't do... so... what's the issue?
It wasn't a tantrum - it was frustration that she couldn't turn to food to deal with her issues, as eating her feelings was 'taken' from her. Yeah.... basically, a tantrum. And the reason why she isn't ready.
People are confused about her BED diagnosis story - yeah, because it isn't making sense. Amber starts with an attempt to explain, but redirects to shitting on her terrible audience who are always accusing her of lying. She feels she needs to make an entire video to explain timelines and things, as she can't understand how people get confused.
Don't bother. Here's the TL;DW: She spent YEARS insisting she was diagnosed unofficially for it (after she had to admit she wasn't officially diagnosed - as the first time was before the disorder was recognized, and the second was by BetterHelp who can't diagnose). Then she spent a good amount of time saying she self-diagnosed herself (from late 2020 to early 2021-ish?), but that BED is very easy to self-diagnose. Then she 'officially' got her diagnosis from a HAES specialist in March 2022 so she could do 'outpatient' for her weight while continuing to eat whatever she wanted. She spent that year incessantly going on about her uncontrolled binging ... until the weight loss clinic contacted her mid-December. Then, her binging magically disappeared.... You know, if you ignore the multiple candy bar 'binges' and times she 'didn't say no to food' in January and February 2023. Then she moved the goal-post on what 'binging' was (by misunderstanding her WLS psychologist) to 3x what she would normally eat in a sitting, to declare herself binge-free to qualify for surgery. Unfortunately, that BED diagnosis from 2022 that she spent a lot of time and money to try and obtain bit her in the ass, and now the clinic is (rightfully) pumping the breaks a bit.
By the way Amber... in a sense, multiplication IS division.... it's just changing the angle of approach to the equation. X(Y)=450. This is a multiplication equation, but to isolate one variable, division will be needed.
