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Do you have any thoughts on why so many of these people may be scared of Big Al? I struggle to see what Destiny could be so afraid of when she could just cancel her phone plan, get a new number, and block AL on all forms of social media. Boom, you're done with the whole mess. Even with Eric, Ricky, and Becky, you serve her with a notice to leave and then in 30 days change the locks and dump her shit outside. I understand living in an abusive environment is really, really difficult, but with this new information, the 3 of them need to band together for their sanity.
What could Destiny be worried about? At this point, I struggle to see what kind of dirt could make you hesitant to kick someone to the curb that lives multiple states away. Big Al can't drive down to Florida to fuck with Destiny, outside of someone roping Becky into it or something, so just tell her to fuck off. Who gives a shit what she says to her ~50k subscriber base, just cut her off from every channel and it's not your problem anymore.
It's also pretty clear from these screen shots that Amber is very much aware of how she behaves and what she does. As many people have suspected, she's a classic narcissist, who doesn't do things for others, make things always about herself, and verbally beats people into submission so they don't have to deal with her rage. Imagine that southern accent coming down on your ass while her fleshy appendage collides into your face. You wake up, only to hear incessant screaming for Ben and Jerry's and Lays potato chips.
How in the fuck do you "volunteer" at a place with HIPA protection that you're not supposed to be at? Did no supervisors at this place just say, hey, you don't work here, you're not supposed to be here, get the fuck out?! Of course, abusers are very good at dodging landmines like that, so, who knows what she did to be able to track Destiny.
"Loud and verbally abusive." Amber must have a talent for just breaking people down mentally and keeping them under her thumb and generally abusers seek out people they know they can control. Becky doesn't have a lot of self esteem, wants to be surrounded by people no matter what the cost, and just doesn't seem like that strong of a person to begin with. That's like a full pot of soup to AL, she can't wait to dig her spoon in.
She doesn't shower. CONFIRMED. Again, no surprising, but it's good to get confirmation on what we all suspected. Who would shower regularly if it was a fucking event every time you had to do it? Becky needs to be there, Becky needs to lift up the folds, AL needs to scrub. Well, Big Al probably does a lot less than her fair share while Becky gets in there and scrubs away. At her size, it's not safe or hygienic for her to shower herself because she can't reach anything. You can get infections in your folds and stuff (WingsOfRedemption got a MRSA infection in one of his folds from not bathing properly.) "Smelly vag and ass," please for the love of fucking Christ someone hold me.
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GOD, the shit about her asking to be paid back after buying food for people makes my blood boil. One of the coolest things in life is being able to share food with people. It's such a simple gesture, but it means a lot. We're all here, at this place to commiserate and enjoy each other's company, take a load off from life, then BOOM, this behemoth records it than says, "Ya'll are paying me back for those riblets, right? *chin dab*"
As I said earlier, the most perplexing part about this for me is how Amber is so successful in what she does.
We see people on my 600 lb life who are very good at brow beating people into submission and making everything about them. Granted, when you weigh that much, it must be difficult to not make things about you and your limited mobility, but STILL.
We know Amber has a process.
Step 1 : Seek out someone who you feel like you can manipulate (Destiny, Becky)
Step 2 : Create dependence through a variety of needs, whether they are financial, emotional, or something else. (Becky quitting her job, Amber paying for the car, Destiny being in "love" with her)
Step 3 : Destroy the person's self esteem and self worth until they begin to believe the bull shit you feed them (think we see this most clearly in the most recent video where Becky says she's tired of filming)
Step 4 : If person challenges you, threaten them with "dirt" (Destiny) or become loud and abusive to the point where they cave to just not deal with it anymore (Becky)
Step 5 : Rinse, wash, & repeat with as many people as you're able, to build your empire of dirt.
I hope that Becky has an awakening soon, but I see no signs of that happening. As stated earlier, the only way for them to get Al out of the house is for them to be a united front. I would not be surprised to learn that Ricky and Eric are having private conversations with Becky about this kind of stuff, but she probably shuts it down saying AL loves her and all type of that shit.
Reality is indeed stranger than fiction. Not only are we watching someone kill themselves with food in real time, we're watching them abuse their "significant other"
Edit : There's generally a single occurrence when people get sick of being stomped on. Like a light bulb switching on and they just say, you know what? I'm sick of this shit. I'm really curious what that would be for Becky, to just go scorched earth and cut Big Al out of her life overnight.
