Amberlynn Reid - 600 pound pathological liar and U-Haul lesbian moving in with her next live-in maid/nurse/girlfriend.

[ET 599]

Amber doesn't seem to care that much about the food, she wants the feeling of being full, or in her case, over stuffed.

I would love to know what her disorderd eating stems from and what void she's trying to fill. God, it'd be so interesting for her to actually see a therapist and be a fly on the wall.

 

[FitBitch]

I would love to know what her disorderd eating stems from and what void she's trying to fill. God, it'd be so interesting for her to actually see a therapist and be a fly on the wall.

It's not that deep, she had a troubled foster child upbringing and never learned how to take care of herself, so instead of getting a job and taking responsibility for anything she expects to be taken care of like an overgrown child. The human mind wasn't meant to cope with meaninglessness on a scale like Amber's lifestyle so she fills the void with tacky Wal-Mart shit, wax melts and food, mostly food. Girl needs a routine that keeps her attentions occupied.

 

[ET 599]

It's not that deep, she had a troubled foster child upbringing and never learned how to take care of herself, so instead of getting a job and taking responsibility for anything she expects to be taken care of like an overgrown child. The human mind wasn't meant to cope with meaninglessness on a scale like Amber's lifestyle so she fills the void with tacky Wal-Mart shit, wax melts and food, mostly food. Girl needs a routine that keeps her attentions occupied.

True and succinct, thanks. Amber will never have a eureka moment.

 

[497]

When your body is sore from muscles you're not used to using after 9000 steps that's not something to be proud of, that should be a wake-up call.

It's like she's been bedridden 90% of the time. She got that fitbit in January, I wonder how many steps she had walking around Walmart and grocery shopping. Like it has been said she must of been using a scooter alot more than she let on. She could of got to 9000 steps just taking Twinkie out for a walk regularly.

 

[Malibougie]

I would love to know what her disorderd eating stems from and what void she's trying to fill. God, it'd be so interesting for her to actually see a therapist and be a fly on the wall.

About 90% of the my 600lb lifers had some sort of sexual abuse happen to them. They put on weight in one part to make them less attractive they have said. Unresolved issues with the abuse or act also cause them to eat because the un-dealt with trauma makes them uncomfortable, food gives them the dopamine release so they feel good and comforted by food.

I love to speculate and the only idea I can come up with on what AL has on Dustiny is that they probably have hooked up post-Dana. We know AL still has a boner for D, and Dustiny has never been one to be faithful.

 

[Oh Hamburgers]

Amber doesn't seem to care that much about the food, she wants the feeling of being full, or in her case, over stuffed.

I have to disagree. The only times I've truly seen her happy, bordering on ecstatic is when she's eating. Trust me, she is obsessed with the taste and even the texture of food.

 

[666EVE666]

@666EVE666

Do you have any thoughts on why so many of these people may be scared of Big Al? I struggle to see what Destiny could be so afraid of when she could just cancel her phone plan, get a new number, and block AL on all forms of social media. Boom, you're done with the whole mess. Even with Eric, Ricky, and Becky, you serve her with a notice to leave and then in 30 days change the locks and dump her shit outside. I understand living in an abusive environment is really, really difficult, but with this new information, the 3 of them need to band together for their sanity.

What could Destiny be worried about? At this point, I struggle to see what kind of dirt could make you hesitant to kick someone to the curb that lives multiple states away. Big Al can't drive down to Florida to fuck with Destiny, outside of someone roping Becky into it or something, so just tell her to fuck off. Who gives a shit what she says to her ~50k subscriber base, just cut her off from every channel and it's not your problem anymore.

I really have no idea, Destiny might owe her money or feel like she owes Amber something because of how much money she spent on her. I know the "source" said it's to avoid drama, but that doesn't make sense to me. Most people would be on Cora/Destiny's side in this, and Amber can only screech so hard from Kentucky.

It's also pretty clear from these screen shots that Amber is very much aware of how she behaves and what she does. As many people have suspected, she's a classic narcissist, who doesn't do things for others, make things always about herself, and verbally beats people into submission so they don't have to deal with her rage. Imagine that southern accent coming down on your ass while her fleshy appendage collides into your face. You wake up, only to hear incessant screaming for Ben and Jerry's and Lays potato chips.

How in the fuck do you "volunteer" at a place with HIPA protection that you're not supposed to be at? Did no supervisors at this place just say, hey, you don't work here, you're not supposed to be here, get the fuck out?! Of course, abusers are very good at dodging landmines like that, so, who knows what she did to be able to track Destiny.

I'm not sure, the more I think about the situation the more weird it seems. I'm leaning towards Amber's manipulation tactics, and maybe Destiny telling her employers that she's worried about leaving Amber home alone because of her size or emotional instability or something.

We know Amber has a process.
Step 1 : Seek out someone who you feel like you can manipulate (Destiny, Becky)
Step 2 : Create dependence through a variety of needs, whether they are financial, emotional, or something else. (Becky quitting her job, Amber paying for the car, Destiny being in "love" with her)
Step 3 : Destroy the person's self esteem and self worth until they begin to believe the bull shit you feed them (think we see this most clearly in the most recent video where Becky says she's tired of filming)
Step 4 : If person challenges you, threaten them with "dirt" (Destiny) or become loud and abusive to the point where they cave to just not deal with it anymore (Becky)
Step 5 : Rinse, wash, & repeat with as many people as you're able, to build your empire of dirt.

I hope that Becky has an awakening soon, but I see no signs of that happening. As stated earlier, the only way for them to get Al out of the house is for them to be a united front. I would not be surprised to learn that Ricky and Eric are having private conversations with Becky about this kind of stuff, but she probably shuts it down saying AL loves her and all type of that shit.

You've hit the nail on the head with this. In my opinion, Becky is far too co-dependent and insecure to leave Amber. She thinks Amber is as good as it's gonna get at this point in life. I think you're assessment of the situation is totally accurate, and Becky is too blinded by the occasional love bombing and her own insecurities to understand that Amber is manipulative and at the very least, emotionally abusive.

 

[angelicbitch]

I have to disagree. The only times I've truly seen her happy, bordering on ecstatic is when she's eating. Trust me, she is obsessed with the taste and even the texture of food.

Yes. This exactly.

Her little "thumbs up" is a tell whenever she's eating.
She's obsessed with eating out because restaurants actually season their food unlike her.
Amber fails at her "healthy diet food" lifestyle change because she can't cook, and that's why she ends up eating out so often.
She's definitely obsessed with flavor.

 

[AL's Hot Cheetos]

I have to disagree. The only times I've truly seen her happy, bordering on ecstatic is when she's eating. Trust me, she is obsessed with the taste and even the texture of food.

I mean, I'd think you'd HAVE to be obsessed with food if you're that size. I would think that that's why she seasons it with so much Mrs. Dash and whatever else, she puts in a half assed attempt at dieting using Pam spray and whatever else, throws on a crap ton of seasoning to make it taste edible, and, when the diet food doesnt satisfy her, portion wise or taste buds (because she's used to eating inhuman amounts of sugar and salt), she binges. Strong flavors AND the sense of fullness are what she seeks, they go hand in hand. I can guarantee she's not blacking out during a binge because that's literally not possible, she's definitely cognizant the whole time because of the flavor, but she's just a zombie inhaling the food and trying to taste it all.

 

[angelicbitch]

when the diet food doesnt satisfy her, portion wise or taste buds (because she's used to eating inhuman amounts of sugar and salt), she binges.

Most likely taste buds.
Those with food addiction have higher dopamine activity when they're eating something flavorful, which then leads them to eat boatloads of it because they find it so satisfying (that's why they become obese).

Her diet food has been pretty much proven to be bland, which is why she resorts to binging late at night - cause of the dopamine rush she gets when she eats ice cream and chips instead of disgusting soup and dry chicken. And she keeps eating until she's stuffed because that's when she feels her happiest.

There's likely no way Amber doesn't have an obsession with flavor, which yes, does go hand-in-hand with her stuffing herself with junk

 

[AL's Hot Cheetos]

Most likely taste buds.
Those with food addiction have higher dopamine activity when they're eating something flavorful, which then leads them to eat boatloads of it because they find it so satisfying (that's why they become obese).

Her diet food has been pretty much proven to be bland, which is why she resorts to binging late at night - cause of the dopamine rush she gets when she eats ice cream and chips instead of disgusting soup and dry chicken. And she keeps eating until she's stuffed because that's when she feels her happiest.

There's likely no way Amber doesn't have an obsession with flavor, which yes, does go hand-in-hand with her stuffing herself with junk

Absolutely. And I say this from personal experience because I had an eating disorder for a long time too. Mine was restricting, then binging and purging. And I was OBSESSED with, what is the lowest calories I can eat? How can I make things I like lower calorie? And basically eating bland rubbery diet food with, yes, Pam spray. Then I would binge and eat salty foods, be happy, then guilty, then purge. It was terrible. I was obsessed with strong flavor and being empty, or rather, being as full as possible under the restrictions i put on myself. I dont want to give her more ammo to say, oh I have an eating disorder it's fine, because I can't fathom treating someone like crap because I want binge food. Thats just being a shitty person. BUT, I do understand the food addiction. When you're sick like that, whether it be undereating or overeating, you're obsessed with food. And it completely takes over your life. Luckily im fine now and worst i've been was slightly overweight, but thats mostly because being AL's weight is just not an option whatsoever lol

 

[hungryhippo]

Absolutely. And I say this from personal experience because I had an eating disorder for a long time too. Mine was restricting, then binging and purging. And I was OBSESSED with, what is the lowest calories I can eat? How can I make things I like lower calorie? And basically eating bland rubbery diet food with, yes, Pam spray. Then I would binge and eat salty foods, be happy, then guilty, then purge. It was terrible. I was obsessed with strong flavor and being empty, or rather, being as full as possible under the restrictions i put on myself. I dont want to give her more ammo to say, oh I have an eating disorder it's fine, because I can't fathom treating someone like crap because I want binge food. Thats just being a shitty person. BUT, I do understand the food addiction. When you're sick like that, whether it be undereating or overeating, you're obsessed with food. And it completely takes over your life. Luckily im fine now and worst i've been was slightly overweight, but thats mostly because being AL's weight is just not an option whatsoever lol

Stop, you're giving her more info to regurgitate in her next video (also, sorry that you had to go through that, I did too and it sucks)

 

[497]

Yes. This exactly.

Her little "thumbs up" is a tell whenever she's eating.
She's obsessed with eating out because restaurants actually season their food unlike her.
Amber fails at her "healthy diet food" lifestyle change because she can't cook, and that's why she ends up eating out so often.
She's definitely obsessed with flavor.

I thought she didn't care about the taste of food either since she still eats those protein cookies even though she said they tasted bad. But that makes sense... she's eating something she thinks is healthy and tastes like crap but then later still craves the real thing.

I wonder how she got Destiny and Dana to hang out with her when they were still in Kentucky. Like on Valentine's Day she said Dusty called to hang out.... makes one wonder what she really said to make Destiny hang out. And Becky was planning on just spending last VDay with AL, lol.

 

[Xenomorph]

Makes you wonder wtf she was doing in the bathroom if she was showering. I mean she cant possibly shit for two hours could she?

 

[UrFavePoet]

Makes you wonder wtf she was doing in the bathroom if she was showering. I mean she cant possibly shit for two hours could she?

she probably waits for the smell to go away. at least, as much as it can go away...

 

[Strong Tomato]

Makes you wonder wtf she was doing in the bathroom if she was showering. I mean she cant possibly shit for two hours could she?

I mean if no one wants to help her wipe her ass shes gonna have to figure out some way to do it, and sadly it probably takes her forever to properly clean herself, if she even can

 

[Null]

okay I got fooled by this but I feel it's funny enough to post it. not her actual account.

 

[Xenomorph]

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okay I got fooled by this but I feel it's funny enough to post it. not her actual account.

That account has fooled me a few times, they type just like Amber

 

[Entertained409]

Okay, what’s with this increase in power leveling lately (you know who you are)...

Please stop. We don’t come here to read about your weight loss journeys or daily struggles with food.

 

[formerfatcow]

If AL sent Destiny provactive (were they nude?) pictures before they met in person, maybe Destiny sent some in return. AL isn't very good at respecting other people's privacy, and Becky posted Nena's dirty underwear on Facebook. Maybe Destiny and her family are worried about those pictures getting out, assuming they exist.