- Before she starts the 2017 story she wants to clarify that when Amberlynn and Destiny's mom got into an altercation, Amberlynn did NOT hit Destiny's mom. Destiny's mom was the aggressor, Amberlynn fell to the floor and just took it.
- They were getting Redbox movies too often and paying a lot of money for them.
- Amberlynn did a DVD-haul. Destiny doesn't have any of the DVDs.
- Amberlynn showed the Married with children collection, they got that cheap at Ollie's.
- The only DVD collection Destiny has is Avatar: The Last Airbender because she is a big fan.
- Cute dog deflection: the animal in question is wearing a belly band since he tries to mark. Destiny thinks the dog might be trying to assert his dominance.
- Amberlynn shows a lot of soups, Destiny never ate those.
- Amberlynn talked a lot about them watching DVDs. Destiny doesn't really rent DVDs anymore because she has basically every streaming service and YouTube Premium.
- Amberlynn made a video about wanting to see Trisha Paytas, Amberlynn was obsessed with Trisha and watched her a lot.
- Amberlynn mentions Destiny being called an "it" at a restaurant again, this did not happen. Amberlynn says Destiny wasn't there to hear it so Destiny questions that it actually happened.
- Amberlynn started to read a lot Snapchats and didn't want to have a vlogging schedule.
- Amberlynn starts discussing a lot of the hate she was getting.
- Amberlynn talked about date nights they were doing, Destiny wouldn't call it date nights, she would call it Amberlynn making a plan for the day and them doing it.
- Amberlynn said her favorite date night was to stay in bed and cuddle, Destiny says that 90% of the time they didn't do that. They were alway on the go somewhere.
- Amberlynn says something about them paying for the U-Haul when they moved to Kentucky, Destiny clarifies that they did
not do that, Amberlynn's foster mom did.
- There is a video of Destiny trying to knock down icicles, it zooms in when Destiny misses. She blames this on´only being 5'.
- At this point in time Destiny had started to make a couple of friends at work.
- Destiny would make funny faces on camera because it was Amberlynn suddenly being filmed while minding her own business.
- Amberlynn talks about liking Destiny's long hair when Destiny was getting a haircut. Destiny never got it as short as she has it now. Amberlynn showing the haircut in the video made Destiny notice they messed up a spot in the back.
- Amberlynn showed them eating at Olive Garden with Sharla and Jolissa. She showed Sharla making cheese balls.
- Amberlynn made a soup and counted the calories in it.
- Amberlynn starts talking about her poems and her writing.
- When they were at PF Chang's with Sharla and Jolissa they read their fortune cookies, Destiny's said "new change coming soon", Destiny wrote down in her notes "dumping Amberlynn" because at that point things had been rocky for some time.
- Amberlynn talks about the story she had been writing for some time, it was over 200 pages.
- Amberlynn vlogged a purse that she then ended up buying.
- Destiny was over Walmart.
Destiny went to Walmart yesterday for the first time in a long time and it wasn't that bad. It was very hot in the store though.
- Amberlynn talks about getting rid of necklaces just to buy more.
- Amberlynn started to talk about having anxiety attacks at work, Destiny only remembers Amberlynn having a few.
- Destiny never understood Amberlynn quitting the job, they moved to the new building and Amberlynn was not having it. Destiny thinks Amberlynn just didn't want to work.
- Destiny thought the job would be perfect for Amberlynn because it didn't require a lot of work and it was easy money.
- Amberlynn talks about Destiny encouraging her to quit her job and just do YouTube. Destiny denies telling her that, only that it's Amberlynn's choice.
- Amberlynn was making decent money on YouTube already.
- Destiny went to the ER, they told her the issues were stress induced, Amberlynn talks about Destiny having follow ups but Destiny didn't have health insurance at that point.
- Amberlynn was not fired from her job, she just never went back. She had Destiny take her home, they stayed home for a day and then Amberlynn never went back. The boss called and tried to talk to Amberlynn but no avail, she had made up her mind.
- After Amberlynn had quit she wanted Destiny to sit in her car and call Amberlynn and talk to her on the 30 minute lunch break. Amberlynn made Destiny do this, no ifs and or buts.
- Destiny had friends at work she wanted to hang out with but Amberlynn wanted Destiny to either sit with Sharla or be in her car and talk to Amberlynn. That was it.
- Amberlynn started to do a lot of weigh-ins because she had a new scale.
- At this point in time Destiny and Dana had not spoken since before Thanksgiving and were still not talking yet.
- Amberlynn hits 30,000 subscribers.
- Sharla started to hang out with Amberlynn a lot.
- Amberlynn blamed her weight gain on mental illnesses, Destiny agrees that "mentals" play a part but so does willpower.
- Amberlynn talks about her childhood, living in a trailer and breaking her ankle. Destiny doesn't really remember that story but she remembers Amberlynn telling her she wore her mother's heals a lot. Amberlynn had a cast but refused to use crutches so she stayed out of school and her parents helped her move around.
- Amberlynn and Destiny broke up 13 days into January. The night they broke up Destiny wanted to eat lunch with two of her friends at work (not Dana). Amberlynn wanted Destiny to call her, Destiny lied and said they were doing announcements at work during lunch and that those were important so she couldn't call Amberlynn. She lied because to Amberlynn it was a issue if Destiny just wanted to hang out with her friends. Amberlynn then texts Sharla about these announcements and Sharla didn't know what Amberlynn was talking about. Amberlynn starts going off on Destiny, this is towards the end of the lunch break. Destiny went back to work and on the 30 minute drive home they were screaming at each other on the phone. Destiny was tired of arguing with Amberlynn and that she was so controlling so she broke up with Amberlynn and hung up the phone.
- Destiny then met Sharla, Jolissa's cousin and a friend she had lunch with earlier at Walmart, then they went to eat. Destiny didn't want t go home. Destiny felt like Sharla was trying to be sneaky we will see in the stories of the upcoming months.
- Destiny go home super late, Amberlynn tryid to argue more but Destiny just explained that Amberlynn wasn't changing and that their relationship was just a hassle.
- They finally went to sleep, in the same bed.
- Destiny went to her mom's the next day.
- On Sunday Destiny hung out with Sharla, they had lunch, went to Goodwill. Destiny tried to stay out of the house for the day.
- On that Sunday Destiny changed all her social media to single, she didn't want to fix the relationship and she knew Amberlynn would not change.
- Amberlynn still made Destiny sleep in the bed with her, Amberlynn blamed it on her attachment issues and anxiety. Destiny gave in to not hear it and also because there was stuff on the bed in the guest room.
- At this point Dana had a boyfriend.
- One of the girls that Destiny had lunch with on the breakup day she was thinking about messing around with, as a rebound thing. Destiny hadn't talked to Dana yet and she didn't want anything serious.
- The day Destiny changed all her social media Dana texted her. Destiny explained what happened and that was that. Destiny was trying to hook up with that other girl.
- Destiny asked that other girl out for a date but the girl wasn't really interested, however they stayed friends.
- Destiny then saw on Facebook that Dana had broken up with her boyfriend. So Destiny texted Dana, they talked. They texted the next day and Destiny asked Dana what her feelings towards her were. Destiny wanted to know because she had clicked with Dana, that is what she means by emotionally cheating on Amberlynn, there were not flirting before that though.
- Dana didn't text Destiny back for 3 days. Destiny took that as a rejection. Destiny didn't really know if Dana was bisexual at this time but she had heard so.
- On the 3rd day Dana finally texted Destiny back and said that she had feelings for Destiny since November. That was the reason Dana had quit talking to Destiny.
- Destiny told Dana she had feelings for her too and that when they got to know each other in November she wanted to get to know her better as a friend but now they had the opportunity to be more than that.
- November 2016 is when it started to get rocky with Destiny and Amberlynn so Destiny had tried to talk to Dana because she felt she needed a friend to talk to.
- The above mentioned feelings is what Destiny means by emotionally cheating. There was no flirting, she didn't act on her thoughts.
- After Destiny and Dana admitted to having feeling towards each other they started talking and went on their first date early morning January 28th after work. This was a Friday. The date was at a truck stop, they had some food and talked to 4 a.m.
- They had previously planned to hang out on Saturday but Dana had a busy day, she had to make up hours at work then help her best friend for winter ball so when Destiny finally came over to Dana's place Dana was very tierd and all they did was watch movies.
- Destiny ended staying the night. Amberlynn kept texting Destiny asking when Destiny was going to be home. Destiny didn't respond to Amberlynn's texts.
- Destiny woke up just at dawn because Dana's neighbor had chickens that started to cock-a-doodle. That scared Destiny.
- Things progressed between Destiny and Dana from that.
- Destiny went home around lunch time on Sunday and Amberlynn had Destiny drive her all around Lexington doing what Amberlynn wanted to do. They went to the movies.
- Dana and Sharla had been best friends at some point and Dana told Destiny that Sharla doesn't let her friends have other friends. Destiny said that is how Amberlynn is and thought that might be why they get along so well. When Dana got a boyfriend Sharla started to pick fights with Dana and they ended up not being friends anymore. So when Destiny started to hang out with Dana more Sharla tried to start drama between Destiny and Amberlynn with Dana. Sharla would basically spy on Destiny and text Amberlynn what Destiny was doing.
- This was January 2017. Destiny is going to try to get to current date with all stories.

- The tea is coming.
- The only time Destiny ever really cheated cheated was on that other girl and on her she cheated with Amberlynn.
- Destiny is not a gaslighter, Amberlynn was always very controlling and only did what she wanted to do.