I think that Amber is trying to change the narrative. Amber probably wrote all these questions. "Valentine" never existed except in Amber's imagination, but it created an inconvenience since any other prospective Target drivers would think that she was not single. Thus, the break up, and of course being hurt by "Valentine". Now, she can do as many thirst traps on TikTok.
There was a woman in Milwaukee that Amber thought would be a good catch, but that woman had a job, friends, and perhaps family in Milwaukee and was not going to uproot herself to live in OKC. That is the problem for Amber, any woman in her 30's is not going to move across country after a few DMs. She should look for a local one and start to hit the bars or better lesbian get-together.
I will qualify your statement a little bit. Both Amber and Chantal said that the would like to lose weight if it was not too inconvenient. They do not want to put any effort in losing weight. For me, it is clear when Amber sets a new diet with no goal, or at least a realistic one. Even the Semaglutide is too inconvenient.