Emily is a horrifying creep, she has a child who she doesn't give a fuck about whilst triapsing with braphogs like Amber- Willingly making drama and scandalizing her own name for fun. Also, she's a *nurse*, and she literally encouraged her ex to eat herself to death. Aided and abetted it, even, as she was her carer and actively fetishizing her ill health. Amber could not possibly abuse Emily if she wanted to. What the hell kind of abuse do you think Amber is administering to her?
As for DeeDee, she's a sorry old woman who's ideal of love was jealously hating another woman while doing copious amounts of drugs just to spite the other woman (She regretted winning in the end, as all jealous losers do) also she made Chantal eat her pussy when she didn't want to. DeeDee also willingly INSERTED herself into Nader and Chantal's lives. Yeah, nobody deserves being hit, but DeeDee deserves none of anyone's respect.