No you've got it the wrong way round. Using the food analogy, Chris loves tomatoes. He knows this as when he puts them in his mouth his body tells him so. Unfortunately Chris comes from a place where tomatoes are loathed and people who eat them are evil. Chris learns this loathing and, because he's a weak willed person begins to apply it to himself. His body still loves tomatoes, it craves them, the sight of a bottle of ketchup drives him mad, but the hatred he feels for himself wins out and, because he has been taught to hate it so much, it explodes in a huge display of Fear and disgust. Eventually, Chris finds an outlet and starts eating tomato flavoured crisps. It's enough tomato to satisfy his craving but importantly enough he isn't eating any actual tomato.
