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Suppose your gf wanted to do dating anniversary gifts, so you did, and she had some legit financial problems at the time so the idea of getting it after was promised. Fast forward and things have improved and she has also definitely forgotten about the gift. Is it petty to remind her or just let it go?
 
If I were in charge, you’d all have to pick one outfit and then have an entire wardrobe of only that, like a cartoon character.
If I can negotiate it up to half a dozen outfits, from Eva Green’s wardrobe, mayyybe.
Suppose your gf wanted to do dating anniversary gifts, so you did, and she had some legit financial problems at the time so the idea of getting it after was promised. Fast forward and things have improved and she has also definitely forgotten about the gift. Is it petty to remind her or just let it go?
let it go. This is an argument that doesn’t need to happen. If it’s a thing you wanted to do, then that’s ok to bring up (hey are you still up for that trip to… maybe we could do that this summer!)
Umm are you into guys that know how to play piano?
Yes. But you have to actually be able to play it. I used to date a guy who was an extremely talented player and it was really nice to listen to him play. I liked it a lot. It’s nice to watch (or listen) to someone you love do something they’re good at.
 
Suppose your gf wanted to do dating anniversary gifts, so you did, and she had some legit financial problems at the time so the idea of getting it after was promised. Fast forward and things have improved and she has also definitely forgotten about the gift. Is it petty to remind her or just let it go?
As Otterly said, I wouldn't actively bring it up. If the anniversary is a recurring thing, there's a reasonable shot that she'll remember at that point and try to make up for it then, without requiring you to say anything.
 
That was moreso for TV's Adam West to gauge the ring question, but I also understand you.

1st relationship lasted 3 yrs, next one 3 months. And outside of a few dates here and there, it's been a dry spell on my end too.

You've been stringing this woman along for 5 years and still don't know who she is? What her colour, style and metal preferences are? Whether she likes jewellry at all? :stress:

The female mindset™ is that we want to be with someone who actually makes the effort of getting to know us. To be loved is to be seen.

how do people get over multi-year relationship breakups? As someone who had 2 college relationships that lasted abt 4-5 months each (and is still reeling from the last breakup in Jan) it's one of my biggest fears. The thought of everything eventually collapsing years in scares me to the point where I question even trying, though I say this jaded at dating in general atm (zoomers are soo fucked). I assume this means having planned things together, like coliving, at that point how do you just... move on?
 
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how do people get over multi-year relationship breakups? As someone who had 2 relationships that lasted abt 4-5 months each (and is still reeling from the last breakup in Jan) it's one of my biggest fears. The thought of everything eventually collapsing years in scares me to the point where I question even trying, though I say this jaded at dating in general atm (zoomers are soo fucked)
Having irl friends to do stuff with helps take the mind off of the breakup. Hobbies and going to church will help too.
 
Every relationship ends in heartbreak (unless you are both in the car crash lol). Don't let the fear of the end stop you from starting a good relationship.
The heartbreak is different from end to end. A spouse who becomes widowed has a different heartbreak than the amicable breakup who has a different heartbreak from ending a relationship when finding out one side has an affair while out of town.
 
how do people get over multi-year relationship breakups? As someone who had 2 college relationships that lasted abt 4-5 months each (and is still reeling from the last breakup in Jan) it's one of my biggest fears. The thought of everything eventually collapsing years in scares me to the point where I question even trying, though I say this jaded at dating in general atm (zoomers are soo fucked). I assume this means having planned things together, like coliving, at that point how do you just... move on?
It's also one of the things that scare me a lot. I'm already veyr reticent to date for being a retard in general, but beyond that there are also a lot of things regarding failure that i don't look forward to and the heartbreak for failing someone i formed a deep bond with is one of them.

Plus, being a loner would make it much harder to cope with the aftermath.
 
The heartbreak is different from end to end. A spouse who becomes widowed has a different heartbreak than the amicable breakup who has a different heartbreak from ending a relationship when finding out one side has an affair while out of town.
But you don't know which ending you'll get if you never have a beginning.

It doesn't just apply to romance. I love having pets, but unless I get a turtle I'm most likely going to outlive my beloved critters and have to mourn their loss. I choose the heartbreak because my time with them is worth it.

Except when they won't stop puking on the damn carpet.
 
But you don't know which ending you'll get if you never have a beginning.

It doesn't just apply to romance. I love having pets, but unless I get a turtle I'm most likely going to outlive my beloved critters and have to mourn their loss. I choose the heartbreak because my time with them is worth it.

Except when they won't stop puking on the damn carpet.
I agree with you. I was just clarifying the heartbreak stuff.

And yes, it is also worth it with pets, even if their love back is digging their claws in your shoulder as they snuggle with you as well as the 3AM vomiting.
 
Help, there are some really attractive women on the bus to and from work. I don't want to sound like a creep and say shit like "you look cute" in public but I would like to make their acquaintance. Some at work as well and they always sit in groups. I'll be the retarded creep if I go up to them out of the blue.
 
Great relationship advice, Kiwifarms. I will be sure to implement it.
how do people get over multi-year relationship breakups? As someone who had 2 college relationships that lasted abt 4-5 months each (and is still reeling from the last breakup in Jan) it's one of my biggest fears. The thought of everything eventually collapsing years in scares me to the point where I question even trying, though I say this jaded at dating in general atm (zoomers are soo fucked). I assume this means having planned things together, like coliving, at that point how do you just... move on?
"Boo hoo, I have had two girlfriends, and they broke up with me. Now I'm sad. "Feel pity for me; it's so hard being Chad. "That's what you sound like. Be grateful you get to go to college and have a girlfriend; I don't get to do that, and many other people don't have girlfriends, and you're crying because they broke up with you. Maybe just don't be a crybaby, and they won't leave you. You give off a negative aura. I bet your girlfriends wore the pants in the relationship and got sick of a beta male crying about NOT BEING ABANDONED.
 
Help, there are some really attractive women on the bus to and from work. I don't want to sound like a creep and say shit like "you look cute" in public but I would like to make their acquaintance. Some at work as well and they always sit in groups. I'll be the retarded creep if I go up to them out of the blue.
Man to man, here's what you need to do:
1. Develop a gravelly Brooklyn accent-chicks dig that
2. Call women chicks- they love being demeaned like that. Ho and bitch also work in chick's steady.
3. Hand them your number and a crisp Hamilton-lets them know you're for real,have confidence, and have disposable cash, while the Hamilton lets her know we're in a recession and she's understandable about that.

Boom, instant chick-magnet.
 
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