Video gaming might be easier to find females in since they can be a casual gamer, but I just thought getting them into table top gaming might be a bit of a challenge for a first date.
"Hey, want to play a game with me about big, stompy robots?"
"Uhhhh, sure."
"Great! Okay here are the rules" [Brings out the six volume set of BattleTech rules] "But first, let me give you a little back ground..." [Spend the next six hours going over BT lore while ignoring the fact that your date has gone glassy eyed, yawned, played on her phone, counted the holes in the acoustic ceiling tiles, rethought the choices in her life that got her to this room, and considered becoming a nun] "And here's the pieces we use. I painted them all myself... [Break out the minis in their protective cases and the thousands of dollars of terrain]