been looking for information relating to immigration for spouse from iran and figured what the hell lets ask the forum XD

If you did manage to get her to the states she could say, “I ran from Iran”.
 
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Kel1 shi1 said:
Company I worked for back in the day sent our senior operations director to audit the companies office in Hong Kong. Older guy in his 50's, married 20 years+ with a kid. He meets this woman while he's out there, probably 10-15 years younger at a guess. He gets the yellow fever hard, speed runs divorcing his wife and wifeing up the noodle and getting her a green card. Eyebrows were raised in the office but there wasn't much gossip about it as this guy didn't interact much with us lower ranking staff so we didn't know anything but the basics.

Roll forward about 3 years and I get to go out for some work at the Hong Kong office. I'm working with a couple of guys that were in that office during that directors trip when he met this woman. They told me they all (Woman included) went to this bar (and it would have been a high end one) and the barman working recognised this woman and says to her in Cantonese "Oh Hi Miss Ping!"(or whatever her name was) he continued "Wow I've not seen you in here for a long time, you used to be in all the time" the woman then SHHHed him hard.

Those Hong Kong guys knew what was up and heard and understood everything. Gweilo sugar daddy was blissfully unaware. This guys then explained to me that women like that make it their "Job" to find rich foreigners to marry, that's their entire life go to the right bars every night fishing. They are not straight up prostitutes as they play the long game. He basically married a sugar baby masquerading as true love. Anyway, I don't know what happened with them as I left that company a long time ago but I imagine she's rinsed him dry.

Now you know that there are women that operate like this you can sniff them out either by meeting them or by listening to the guy talk about them how they met and stuff. When you see it, you see it.
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of course that kinda stuff happens all the time. of course its something to watch out for but a far cry from my situation. about four years ago i got this app called hello talk to help connect me with native speakers to help with my farsi and my chinese and to practice my spanish sometimes. i made a good few friends on there and about 6 of which have become close friends over the years. some female some male. this girl and i started as langauge partners. obviously it could be a start to a grift, but if its a grift its a very long term one for not much payout. i grew to know this woman quite well for almost two years before anything became more than platonic. i also have another very close female friend from tehran. both of these women are master's degree holders and professionals in their fields. i also have a good friend from china who just got her masters in the usa on a foreign exchange visa and went back to china. shes having some serious culture shock adjusting and her mom actually got fucked up by a shitty anesthesiologist and now cant walk or talk after going in for routine knee surgery, curtosy of the CCP's corruption dude is still in his post and nothing happened to him. all this to say i would like to think im pretty good at this point in my life weeding out anything sketchy. Ive done and will continue to do due dilligance.
 
Riverfagg1599 said:
wisdom of the crowds XD. he who casts a wide net catches many fish. figured might as well, who knows, maybe theres some dude here who had to get a wife to the country from a totalitarian islamic theocracy XD.
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The totality of that saying is "He who casts a wide net catches many fish, but also catches much garbage".

Your best bet is to marry her in to get her to a country that allows people from Iran to visit, then get married in that country, and then have her say that as a result of her marrying you her life is in imminent danger if she goes back, so she wants to apply for political asylum. Brace yourself for years of crap getting it all straightened out, but, depending on the country, you might have a decent chance.

Also, don't just focus on South American and Iran. Don't forget about the European countries, such as Switzerland.
 
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