During the 90s and especially post No Child Left Behind, teachers went out of their way to make sure that kids were taught that the spazzy kids needed a little extra understanding. Their goal wasn't to glorify mental illness, but when little Joshua gets to go on a snack break because he's causing problems that would get you sent to detention because he's got the golden ticket of ADHD/autism/whatever, then all of a sudden, mental illness starts looking pretty good. Even better, there's no actual way to diagnose it. Most of the illnesses in the DSM were literally voted into existence, so all you have to do is pretend and you get your get-out-of-responsibility free card. Sure, the meds might be following the same line of thinking as the lobotomy (just without the physical surgery) and cause a host of problems down the road, but most kids (or people in general) don't think that long-term.
Fast forward, and as movements like the civil rights groups or, especially, feminism start to morph into catchall SJW types that seek to ensure no one's feelings get hurt, and oppression becomes the new way to win at life. It's like
Mojo Jojo's cries about oppression or that one
Scream movie
where the girl wanted to frame herself as a victim of Ghost Face because then she'll be considered a hero and famous despite not having to do anything. Being the most oppressed person in the room no longer means you have to experience real oppression - you just have to convince enough people that you feel the oppression and you suddenly become the loudest, most authoritative voice in the room.
Any fetish you want to parade around in public is shielded by your oppression, and decent people don't want to be oppressors; they want to be allies (who probably then troon out or whatever to become the oppressed).
And for those saying, "Yeah, but some people actually feel dysphoria about their bodies!" I reply, "Yeah, but we don't encourage people to think of their bodies and wrong. Letting someone troon/poon out is a terrible way to promote acceptance of yourself!"
Identities and oppression are the tools pervs can use now to attack common sense policies about keeping NSFW crap away from the general public, or to uphold sexism because acting like a slutty bimbo is how some degenerate experiences womanhood (and you're not slut-shaming, are you?).
We need to stop letting people use their identities and made-up past traumas as a way to bring
Brave New World into the real world.