I've been to Filipino parties, and by god...its like walking into the fucking retirement home. I'm not kidding when I say you'll see a range of women aged 20-70, and 90% of them have Boomer husbands. At least the older women have been married for decades, so its not as bad. The only time the age ranges match nearly exactly is if its the rare Filipino married to another Filipino who was rich enough to come here without needing a Boomers citizenship.
But it makes me wonder...some of those Boomers I saw had their only kids by these women. These type of men don't have success back home, and may never have had kids without doing what they did...who knows? I can empathize with being a middle-aged man who has no kids, no wife, and wondering 'whats the point?' Don't get me wrong, it puts a bad taste in my mouth, but I can rationalize it. Even if these girls live in environments far more abundant than back home, who is really taking advantage of who?