Culture Bridgerton’ sparks discussion about ‘mixed weight’ couples on screen – and not everyone is happy about it - Dear feeder

By Lisa Respers France, CNN
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Updated 2:48 PM EDT, Wed July 3, 2024
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Luke Newton as Colin Bridgerton, Nicola Coughlan as Penelope Featherington in "Bridgerton." Liam Daniel/Netflix

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The fictional romance between Penelope Featherington (Nicola Coughlan) and Colin Bridgerton (Luke Newton) on Netflix’s “Bridgerton” continues to be the talk of TV, but not all of the discussion has pleased viewers.

A recent Forbes piece about the series, penned by author and activist Virgie Tovar, has caused a stir for referring to the pairing as “mixed-weight,” putting focus on the characters’ different body types in a way some have found sexist.

Known by fans as “Polin,” the duo’s romance this season has been eagerly awaited since the show first premiered in 2020, given that fans of the series (and the Julia Quinn novels that inspired the hit Netflix franchise) know that Penelope has secretly yearned to catch Colin’s eye from the beginning.

As celebrated as the pair is, Tovar’s article acknowledges the problematic discussion the characters’ romantic relationship has spurred.

“For some, this romance is unsettling because it forces them to consider that humans are simply not governed by tidy, predictable rules,” Tovar writes. “If this romance upsets you, it says more about how deeply you’ve internalized fatphobia than it says about the bodies of the actors playing Penelope and Colin.”



The article has drawn mixed reaction, with some celebrating the discussion and others decrying terminology used therein.

Writer and critic Zoë Rose Bryant shared on X, “I find it interesting how there are countless fictional couples in film and television where the man weighs more than the woman but people didn’t start writing articles about whatever the f—k a ‘mixed-weight romance’ is until it was the other way around.”

Tovar said to CNN in a statement, “I think this conversation is really important, as difficult as it might be.”

“As someone who’s watched ‘Bridgerton’ from Season 1, I genuinely and instantly saw myself in Penelope. That isn’t an emotion that can be contrived, and I wrote the piece from that place,” she continued. “I think there needs to be room for both the plus-size person who didn’t see themselves reflected in Penelope and those of us who did. Neither of us is wrong. I think it’s important to hear from the people who don’t agree with me.”

Coughlan has said she was aware of the conversations being had about her plus-sized body after the first two seasons and “specifically asked for certain lines and moments to be included” in the new season, which features racy sex scenes between her character and Newton’s.

“There’s one scene where I’m very naked on camera, and that was my idea, my choice,” Coughlan added at the time. It just felt like the biggest ‘f—k you’ to all the conversation surrounding my body; it was amazingly empowering.”
 
author and activist Virgie Tovar

OK, she's dumb and very fat, btw. We have a thread on her here in Deathfats, I believe. She has a really obnoxious personality. She could lose a person's-worth of weight and she would remain forever alone. She likes to pretend it's just fatphobia that keeps people away. No, it's you, Virgie.
 
okay and this is worth "celebrating" because like 300 people watch the show?

at least there's arguable artistic merit to watching something like Downton Abbey or Mrs Marple. this just looks like fancy goyslop.
 
Why does everything have to be a "discussion" or a "conversation" or a "we need to talk about"? Why can't some things- a lot of things- just be a thing that sometimes happens and sometimes does not, and it is up to the individual if he wants to do to that thing or not. Why can't we just be left alone?

Also Bridgerton must suck even more than the typical DIE Netflix faggotry because the brand tie-ins and "look at my OnlyFans" type "articles" around it are relentless. I reached into the grocery fridge to get a bottle of coffee creamer the other day and they had a whole line of Bridgerton branded creamer flavors. WTF.
 
Being a woman or being rich can mitigate the effects of being fat to some extent.

I reached into the grocery fridge to get a bottle of coffee creamer the other day and they had a whole line of Bridgerton branded creamer flavors. WTF.
"If you want this body, buy lots of our creamer".

Also, if the brand is Coffee Mate, branding is their thing:
Notice the "Mean Girls" creamer.
 
Stop normalizing this shit. Humans have spent millions of years developing mate selection criteria, and someone whose cause of death will be documented as "Buffet" doesn't fit those criteria. The only people genuinely attracted to morbid obesity are mentally ill, and these faggots are desperate to convince society at large that everyone should share their mental illness.
 
Bridgerton is ahistorical pornography for bored, understimulated housewives and it makes me deeply uncomfortable when other moms in my peer group want to discuss it. It’s dressed-up smut. Of course it features wish-fulfillment storylines like “fatty magoo gets the hot man.”
Before anyone get too excited, the books are emotional pornography, LOL.

Julia Quinn doesn't do long, explicit sex scenes - she is known for romantic comedies featuring mostly bland, milquetoast handsome dukes or earls falling for klutzy and quirky plain Jane heroines. Her characters are clearly described as white, and it's Shonda Rimes that bought the rights to make her own fanfiction version of the whole thing.
 
Writer and critic Zoë Rose Bryant shared on X, “I find it interesting how there are countless fictional couples in film and television where the man weighs more than the woman but people didn’t start writing articles about whatever the f—k a ‘mixed-weight romance’ is until it was the other way around.”
Zoe sounds too retarded to grasp what it's all about.
Media is there to sell a fantasy. Fat men like the fantasy of some reasonably attractive 7 having interest in them, so movies and TV sell that to them.

No one has to "imagine" some thinner guy banging a fat chick, the only thing they're selling is that it would be a handsome guy. The reality is that most women above a 2 or 3 won't touch a fat man (unless he has money) and most men who aren't black or don't look like skinny methheads will only touch fat women for an occasional regret filled one night stand. There are still a few exceptions, it's outlandish how many dudes I've known who have settled down with a chunker just because they cooked well and did the house shit etc, but those are a rarer breed.
 
Zoe sounds too retarded to grasp what it's all about.
Media is there to sell a fantasy. Fat men like the fantasy of some reasonably attractive 7 having interest in them, so movies and TV sell that to them.

No one has to "imagine" some thinner guy banging a fat chick, the only thing they're selling is that it would be a handsome guy. The reality is that most women above a 2 or 3 won't touch a fat man (unless he has money) and most men who aren't black or don't look like skinny methheads will only touch fat women for an occasional regret filled one night stand. There are still a few exceptions, it's outlandish how many dudes I've known who have settled down with a chunker just because they cooked well and did the house shit etc, but those are a rarer breed.

Zoe also misses the point of romance novels and shows. Sure, looks matter but the female fantasy is more than just looks. It's looks AND wealth AND power. That's why the hero is always wealthy, hot, and has some kind of authority (a military man, a nobleman, a ruler, the most powerful warrior, etc). Very few middle-class heroes around, and even then, such heroes are portrayed as very well off with a big house and everyone just in awe of him (the ripped and hansome loner with a mansion in the middle of the woods trope you will find in countless Hallmark small town rom coms).

The other fantasy is the bad boy, but that operates on a different context. Even then, said bad boy needs to be at least hot and charismatic and said to be super duper smart and best in everything, not pathetic or begging for money.

So yes, a woman will grudgingly accept a fat hero in the romantic fantasy if the hero is handsome and wealthy with some authority. It still flicks their beans.
 
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