Chris always, and I would like to stress this, always showed interest in female hobbies, girly attitudes, female clothing and feminine point of views in life.
I don't follow Chris, but what you say here has always baffled me in some way. I'll add that I'm probably on the minority in Kiwifarms, and I actually don't mind using your preferred pronouns if you are respectful to me.
So this thing you bring up are just stereotypes to my way of thinking. What is a "feminine point of view in life", and how does it differ from what a man can feel? Like for example, having a child and care for it with your life, arguably what people call "motherly sense" or similar; this is something a father can also feel, to an equal and sometimes even superior level than the mother, although traditionally/in the past (and generally) the child would spend more time with the mother, strengthening that bond, which is circumstantial.
Is it something like "wanting to settle down"? Like what I used to hear, "men are afraid of commitment" or "men are more superficial" nonsense. This is again just a stereotype that isn't even remotely true in my experience.
It really can be any trait, but I've seen men and women with all types of personalities and points of views, reducing it to what some people are doing (like what you're hinting at) seems like the actual closed-mindedness way of thinking.
It's like you think that women act like they're in a Barbie movie. What is a "girly attitude"? I don't know where you people live, but around here the topics of conversations and how people express themselves are not very different between men and women. Like if you hear the conversation of what some university students are talking about, between a group of boys and girls, the only difference in general would be their voice pitch, other than that is up to the uniqueness of the convo, making irrelevant the sex of the participants.
Things like hobbies and such things are in part determined by their conditioning when growing up and environment, there are no inherent "female hobbies" to me.
This is why the idea of "gender" (identity) for me is nonsense, because in my view every person is a unique individual with their own traits and personality, which is what will dictate how they are (more than what sex they have, making this not even worth considering), and of course their education and evironment.
To me
sex is reserved to sexual chromosomes,
identity is literally personality, an infinite gradient, which some people have reduced and bastardized with the idea of "gender".