It's not enough to just live as a woman.
They want to be seen as a woman, believed to be a woman, and move within woman's spaces and be counted among women too. It doesn't matter how big or how small the circumstances are.
I can't really get too specific without power-leveling but recently I was at some dumb community sporting event with my trooned out brother who placed among the top three female participants.
In pursuit of an unconditional respect they can't have because it's not possible to realistic to expect perfect strangers to give a fuck who you are, they will invade and plunder what is meant for women, because if they can't get it by request, they'll get it by any other means and hijack whatever game or process they can that has to accept them as female.
I think most of them realize unconditional respect isn't going to be a reality and that they can't just compel human behavior without some kind of force, whether that means taking advantage of the fact most people don't want to be confrontational or tipping the heavy hand of the state to make it illegal.
It's really tiring. If anyone fails to understand that what is being asked for is a fantasy world, it's their supporters. I talked to someone about how unreasonable it is and it somehow came down to whether or not it's rude for some random person you encounter in the day to refuse to play a tranny's language game. I told them 'yeah, it might be rude. so what?' and they didn't have a response. They haven't thought it through because they're still in love with the utopian idea, but they're not as invested as the troon, so they're happy enough to entertain the perfect vision without having to consider how to force it since they're not the ones suffering a break with reality if someone accidentally tells the truth about what they are.