The only courtesy that Chris-chan gets is basic legal protections and HIS time in court. CWC is entitled to not be assaulted, but he is not entitled to any further courtesy including having his pronouns respected. I spit in his direction. Not only will I refer to him as a him I will also refer to him as a piece of shit who deserves to be locked away for everyone's safety.
Say what you will about Barb, she was not a good woman and did not live a good life, but she did not deserve to be turned into a sex doll for that sick fuck.
These people are so selfish making a tragedy all about them and their feelings about being misgendered. This is not something that should be about you.