In my experience, they’re pretty quick to realize you’re right, or if they don’t agree, agree to disagree and forgive you for wrongthink.
My best friend is a little less “transphobic” than me and will use preferred pronouns (although I can tell it’s often a struggle for her and there’s always a little pause before the “she” or “he” that accompanies swapping a word that comes naturally with one that does not) but agrees with me in theory that (they)WNBAW and that there are many more MTF predators and pervs than we’ll be shown by the MSM.*
I started the conversation by showing her screenshots of an MTF in our town calling actual women “roasties” and “bleeders” and “cunts” on Facebook for not helping trans people enough (and an actual girl getting dogpiled in the comments for taking issue in the kindest and most pozzed way possible).
Obviously, she thought that was fucky, and then you can go from there and show just how much of it boils down to shit sexist stereotypes and how the ideology hurts kids.
It’s then not that hard to bring them around because my side (GC feminists, which I recognize many/most farmers are not) objectively just makes more sense and there is so much proof out there showing just why that is.
All my friends are female and left-leaning if not fully libtarded (including myself) and these conversations have all gone very well, even if they don’t come around to being as zealous about it as I am
(and you can’t blame them for that when their hobbies do not, in fact, include following this community pretty closely—like, without really digging into it oneself, some of these issues and tropes and official party lines do come off as hard to believe without firsthand knowledge, since they’re often so absurd.
For example, my dad has no loyalty to these people whatsoever and I still had to show him hard proof of predatory dudes being placed in women’s prisons because it sounds so unbelievable.)
*notably, I asked one of my other good and old friends if she thinks TWAW the first time we ever talked about it or anything related to it and she gave a hard “No.” and had reasons how they hate us cause they ain’t us, in a nutshell, so that was fun
But really, if you have good left-leaning friends who know you well and understand you wouldn’t feel a type of way that does come off bigoted to those leftists not in the know without dang good reason and hard evidence to prove your concerns are valid, it shouldn’t really be an issue, but it is scary the first time you bring it up.