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Troon Draugur said:
As a lifestyle? Absolutely. As a temporary diversion? Not really. Not everything has to be super serious all the time. :)
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If you care about the human race in the slightest you will take everything reproduction related extremely seriously.

Settle down before it's too late, never date a nigger.
 
Melktert said:
If you care about the human race in the slightest you will take everything reproduction related extremely seriously.

Settle down before it's too late, never date a nigger.
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And you are presumably aware that some of us have sex for fun and mutual enjoyment, rather than to reproduce? Not everything revolves around filling a crotch-fruit quota. Also, "before it's too late"? Doomposting, much?
 
Troon Draugur said:
And you are presumably aware that some of us have sex for fun and mutual enjoyment, rather than to reproduce? Not everything revolves around filling a crotch-fruit quota. Also, "before it's too late"? Doomposting, much?
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i mean sure, fuck for fun, but do it with a long term partner

also have kids if you're white
 
Crankenstein said:
Problem one, using tinder. That's no way to find someone mature and well adjusted.
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That's exactly Tinder's problem - the people who are actually mature and sane enough to sustain long-term relationships either aren't using it (because they are sane) or have already been snapped up.
 
Troon Draugur said:
As a lifestyle? Absolutely. As a temporary diversion? Not really. Not everything has to be super serious all the time. :)
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As you may have noticed from other posts I've made in this thread, I've had more than a bit of immodest fun. I can agree it is fun in the moment, but I can also say now that I've settled down, those days have brought me quite a bit of guilt. Looking back, it was empty and meaningless. Fun stories for strangers on the internet, sure. Maybe I'm just a huge faggot for caring at all but I feel like I've given parts of me away I can never get back. Not to mention, when my lady found out about it she had a shitfit and was grossed out. I blame it on media making the past few generations worship at the alter of genitals instead of... I dunno, anything else?
Sports, clubs, hobbies, skills, hell even faith. All things which will make you a better person, a more interesting person, a more useful person, and above all, not a slave to hormones.
 
Crankenstein said:
As you may have noticed from other posts I've made in this thread, I've had more than a bit of immodest fun. I can agree it is fun in the moment, but I can also say now that I've settled down, those days have brought me quite a bit of guilt. Looking back, it was empty and meaningless. Fun stories for strangers on the internet, sure. Maybe I'm just a huge faggot for caring at all but I feel like I've given parts of me away I can never get back. Not to mention, when my lady found out about it she had a shitfit and was grossed out. I blame it on media making the past few generations worship at the alter of genitals instead of... I dunno, anything else?
Sports, clubs, hobbies, skills, hell even faith. All things which will make you a better person, a more interesting person, a more useful person, and above all, not a slave to hormones.
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DGMW, I'm not advocating for promiscuity, far from it. Or, for that matter, abstinence/tradlife. There is a middle ground between the two that whilst it can be, as you note, meaningless and/or empty, isn't per se necessarily a bad thing in and of itself.

Nothing wrong with regretting past decisions, as long as you learn from them. The folk who keep making those same mistakes, what they're getting is truly empty and meaningless because they refuse to learn from it.
Every failed relationship is a part of yourself gone, never to return; it doesn't mean that the loss is definitively a bad thing. For everything you lose, you gain something else; experience, wisdom, a hard lesson, a clearer idea of what you actually do want, etc. At least, that's been my experience, YMMV.

Those who, as you put it, worship at the altar of genitals (what a mental picture... :| ) would only substitute that worship for something equally unfulfilling, given its absence. The behaviour is a symptom, not a root issue.
 
Troon Draugur said:
DGMW, I'm not advocating for promiscuity, far from it. Or, for that matter, abstinence/tradlife. There is a middle ground between the two that whilst it can be, as you note, meaningless and/or empty, isn't per se necessarily a bad thing in and of itself.

Nothing wrong with regretting past decisions, as long as you learn from them. The folk who keep making those same mistakes, what they're getting is truly empty and meaningless because they refuse to learn from it.
Every failed relationship is a part of yourself gone, never to return; it doesn't mean that the loss is definitively a bad thing. For everything you lose, you gain something else; experience, wisdom, a hard lesson, a clearer idea of what you actually do want, etc. At least, that's been my experience, YMMV.

Those who, as you put it, worship at the altar of genitals (what a mental picture... :| ) would only substitute that worship for something equally unfulfilling, given its absence. The behaviour is a symptom, not a root issue.
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Fair point(s). I suppose live and learn is a way to go, but I'd say an ounce of prevention is worth a ton of cure. It's foolish to think anyone here would read my sperging and go for tradlife, but a guy can dream. Plus, I think folks put too much stock in sex overall. I don't think such things should be dealt with so casually at young ages though. Plus, doing such things so early into knowing someone spoils a relationship. Not 100% of the time, but I would say the majority of sub 10 year long relationships started with banging within the first 2 months.
Also, I recall a chart that correlated a person's sexual partners prior to a marriage and the divorce rates there of. The higher partner counts had higher divorce rates. Now, correlation is not causation, but it is something to keep in mind.
 
Crankenstein said:
Fair point(s). I suppose live and learn is a way to go, but I'd say an ounce of prevention is worth a ton of cure. It's foolish to think anyone here would read my sperging and go for tradlife, but a guy can dream. Plus, I think folks put too much stock in sex overall. I don't think such things should be dealt with so casually at young ages though. Plus, doing such things so early into knowing someone spoils a relationship. Not 100% of the time, but I would say the majority of sub 10 year long relationships started with banging within the first 2 months.
Also, I recall a chart that correlated a person's sexual partners prior to a marriage and the divorce rates there of. The higher partner counts had higher divorce rates. Now, correlation is not causation, but it is something to keep in mind.
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Heh, happy 100th anniversary of women getting to vote to you too, Crankenstein.

You know what I like in a man?

Has a car and an apartment.
 
Crankenstein said:
Apartments are for college kids, poor families, or folks who just don't care. Literally a trailer in the middle of nowhere is better than an apartment complex.
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Currently thinking of moving my mother-in-law into a nice double wide on the back 40. No joke.
 
KooksandFreaks said:
Fucks sake. Those pumps need work all the time.

Do your pipes ever freeze in the winter?
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I've had to change a filter once on it in the past 12 years, and that's when I first got the place. Also, no, they do not freeze.
 
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