Debate user "RurkerHivemind" on if he deserves a virgin tradwife and being a nonce.

[Broken Pussy]

Other than my drawing skills as well as an autistic knowledge on mecha and toys my friends keep saying I am a great guy who hasn't found that person yet. This is coming from a friend who tried to set me up for a date with a friend of her's only for some guy to get in the way.

Most people have friends who tell them they are great. It’s like how everyone’s mom thinks they have the smartest, prettiest, most talented children. If someone thinks you’re a bad person, they aren’t going to befriend you, and vice versa.

Does the woman who told you that you’re a great guy who just hasn’t met the right person yet know you’re only interested in young girls with no sexual experience? Was that what she tried to procure for you?

 

[Smolrolls]

She hasn’t even used faggot once. I’m disregarding everything that she says.

What about nigger you uncultured profiligate.

 

[RurkerHivemind]

No no no, you don't get to decide what you are, we do. So you lost your virginity to her in April of 2018, and then in a couple of months, she failed across the state and was coming back. When she called you, what did she say to you?

She wanted to apologize saying how I was overreacting to her treating me like a fuck boi when I really was head over heels over her in spite of the red flags and flaws.

 

[Prophetic Spirit]

That's the thing. There are no ways unless if I get into an opposites attract relationship with someone. Common interests works more with friends than lovers. A man only has to know how to talk enough to charm a woman and not have to necessarily be interested in a woman's interests.

Wrong.
And i'm not gonna explain to you. You're just a waste of time. Don't be a coward and pull the trigger.

 

[lolnah]

She wanted to apologize saying how I was overreacting to her treating me like a fuck boi when I really was head over heels over her in spite of the red flags and flaws.

Ok, and then what happened? Do you still talk to her? Does she still live nearby? Give me a quick rundown of the last 3 years between then and now.

 

[RurkerHivemind]

Most people have friends who tell them they are great. It’s like how everyone’s mom thinks they have the smartest, prettiest, most talented children. If someone thinks you’re a bad person, they aren’t going to befriend you, and vice versa.

Does the woman who told you that you’re a great guy who just hasn’t met the right person yet know you’re only interested in young girls with no sexual experience? Was that what she tried to procure for you?

They actually said I was not a pedophile since I never wanted to harm my 16-year-old co-worker or even have her know of my baggage or get that close.

That and she said I have issues with even basic physical contact like hugs. Her boyfriend even questioned me being a nonce due to having an aversion to physical contact even before having sex with Alex.

 

[Broken Pussy]

A man only has to know how to talk enough to charm a woman and not have to necessarily be interested in a woman's interests.

And this, right here, is why no one will fuck you. You can’t even pretend to care about what exists outside the vagina.

 

[ColtWalker1847]

I can tell you right now, even if you find your perfect virgin trad girl, it won't change that. Being in a relationship, even with a girl like that, is not some kind of mommy replacement and never will be. You will still need to be an actual adult and take responsibility for yourself.

There is no "if". It's a nevergonnahappen and we all know it. What is she getting out of the deal? Some basketcase loser she has to take care of for the rest of her life? Who takes care of her? Who supports her? What good young woman with a bunch of stuff going for her would sign up for that?

Imagine the roles reversed and you are a 16 year old boy and she was a weird 32 year old terminally online broke catpiss lady who had the hots for you. You wouldn't want anything to do with her. It's the same thing for the exact same reasons.

These incels are such creepy narcissists, man. Empathize with someone other than yourself and it all snaps into focus.

 

[RurkerHivemind]

Ok, and then what happened? Do you still talk to her? Does she still live nearby? Give me a quick rundown of the last 3 years between then and now.

I lost contact out of nowhere. Her number no longer worked when I decided to call her.

 

[Fraiser crane]

She wanted to apologize saying how I was overreacting to her treating me like a fuck boi when I really was head over heels over her in spite of the red flags and flaws.

So this is all your fault

I lost contact out of nowhere. Her number no longer worked when I decided to call her.

It's called being blocked you date rapist

 

[Knight of the Rope]

That's the thing. There are no ways unless if I get into an opposites attract relationship with someone. Common interests works more with friends than lovers. A man only has to know how to talk enough to charm a woman and not have to necessarily be interested in a woman's interests.

See, this is the sort of shit that I was talking about earlier. It sounds like you're basing human experience on what you've seen in anime and TV shows.

 

[RurkerHivemind]

And this, right here, is why no one will fuck you. You can’t even pretend to care about what exists outside the vagina.

What I am saying all the virtue you spout about is nonsense because women get into shitty relationships and often.

So-called "nice guys" aren't even that different but they don't know how to game the system. You don't need to break your back to charm a woman.

 

[lolnah]

I lost contact out of nowhere. Her number no longer worked when I decided to call her.

We have a winner, finally. Bro, she ran from you hard. I'm starting to think that everyone else here is right and you're completely irredeemable so when you do neck yourself be sure to livestream it for us

 

[Shig O'nella]

A man only has to know how to talk enough to charm a woman and not have to necessarily be interested in a woman's interests.

The fuck you on about, boy? That is so far wrong it's not even stupid anymore, just pathetic.

 

[Broken Pussy]

What I am saying all the virtue you spout about is nonsense because women get into shitty relationships and often.

So-called "nice guys" aren't even that different but they don't know how to game the system. You don't need to break your back to charm a woman.

The only person spouting about virtue is you. Again. Inability to recognize sarcasm.

If women get into shitty relationships so often, then what’s stopping them from getting into a relationship with you?

 

[Smolrolls]

They actually said I was not a pedophile since I never wanted to harm my 16-year-old co-worker or even have her know of my baggage or get that close.

That and she said I have issues with even basic physical contact like hugs. Her boyfriend even questioned me being a nonce due to having an aversion to physical contact even before having sex with Alex.

This sounds like your a digging a bigger hole for yourself. Rather than her knowing your baggage, maybe confide in a friend, write in a journal in a quiet room on a quiet night, it'll get your thoughts together, start forming some plans for a better future. Go outside like what other kiwis have said.

Don't go courting girls until after 21, as it is the consensus legal age to court a girl when she's mature mental and hopefully get her emotions more controlled. Less likely for her to not regret her decision dating you, and bail on you if someone more suitable comes along her way.

 

[RurkerHivemind]

There is no "if". It's a nevergonnahappen and we all know it. What is she getting out of the deal? Some basketcase loser she has to take care of for the rest of her life? Who takes care of her? Who supports her? What good young woman with a bunch of stuff going for her would sign up for that?

Imagine the roles reversed and you are a 16 year old boy and she was a weird 32 year old terminally online broke catpiss lady who had the hots for you. You wouldn't want anything to do with her. It's the same thing for the exact same reasons.

These incels are such creepy narcissists, man. Empathize with someone other than yourself and it all snaps into focus.

Again,we have the many cases of women punching way over their weight class and pay grade as far as their dating market goes and would not even ever give guys like me a second glance no matter what

They ride the cock carousel till they turn 30 and realize they either need to lower their standards or be future cat ladies.

Being a good man is not necessarily a requirement for a good relationship in the minds of most women these days.

 

[JamusActimus]

Her boyfriend even questioned me being a nonce due to having an aversion to physical contact even before having sex with Alex.

Are you in Fl?
Alex what?
Maybe I know her
Edit: You took that b8 m8?

 

[Broken Pussy]

Being a good man is not necessarily a requirement for a good relationship in the minds of most women these days.

How do you know what’s in the minds of women? You don’t feel the need to speak to them about their interests.

 

[Grub]

What I am saying all the virtue you spout about is nonsense because women get into shitty relationships and often.
So-called "nice guys" aren't even that different but they don't know how to game the system. You don't need to break your back to charm a woman.

Yeah people make mistakes. That's life. Plenty of men are in equally shitty relationships because they make poor choices also.

It's probably a waste of time, but literally, treating women as people and acting like a normal human being towards them is the number one thing you can do if you want to come across as any way desirable to them. There's no system and no game. That's retarded. They're fucking people dude.