Debate User @Vingle on why the Chads don't want to push his shit in - lol gaycel

[Cringe newfag]

@Vingle
I had a thought, and now I'm to curious not to ask:
So what exactly does "have to be racist" mean?

There is a lot of variation amongst black people. There are people from stable African countries with healthy cultures, like Namibia or whatever. But even with Black communities with completely collapsed and toxic cultures, like the African American inner city culture, you still have individuals who despise their upbringing and manage to claw themselves out of it. People that get accused of "Acting White"

So even I, as a somewhat racist person, would still not automatically judge every black person on sight.

Would that be enough for you to disqualify a guy as dick sucking material? If he was generally racist, but would feel uncomfortable judging someone before getting to know them just in case? Or are you ok with both Soft and Hard racists.

Because I think it'd be pretty difficult to get around that. Even the most racist people tend to be on the Soft end when it comes to real life, because giving people the benefit of the doubt and being generous at first is pretty much human instinct.

Also, that all applies to being Transphobic too. So the same question there.

 

[frap]

The word racist, like transphobic, has lost all meaning. I feel like they used to mean something more than basic internal human response to something outside your ‘tribe’ so to speak (which needn’t even be all identical people, just the kind of people you grew up with or whatever). When I was a kid, to be racist meant something violent or truly oppressive, like no access to jobs or housing or education based purely on skin colour. Now I have no idea what it means.

 

[Ewan McGregor]

I'm pleased that this thread remains utterly fascinating.

I'm kinda sympathetic to @Vingle even if most of the time he doesn't make sense to me or I just don't agree.

It doesn't help that some of the white knights over here are giving truly awful advice and cheap psychoanalysis.

However, I stand by everything I've said myself. I think he's overdosed on the Internet and his own negative thoughts.

 

[Vingle]

I had a thought, and now I'm to curious not to ask:
So what exactly does "have to be racist" mean?

I'm not really sure myself, as I truly get terrified if I walk alone and meet on a nigger. As in a true flight response with the heart beating faster.
I refuse to listen to nigger music, if I have the choice.
I do realise I'm a more extreme case, so I won't get mad at a future husband for talking to a nigger. It becomes more problematic if he indulge in the culture though. As many white people nowadays acts more and more like niggers, because the culture poison their brains.

I'm pleased that this thread remains utterly fascinating.

I like to please, so that's a good thing.

I'm kinda sympathetic to @Vingle even if most of the time he doesn't make sense to me or I just don't agree.

This is major thing, I think. And it is that I lost foothold on being social after high school. And my parents being retards that didn't teach me how to be social. As in they just expect me to go out and magically get friends, when I lived in bumfuck nowhere. (Before moving to Oslo alone)
So I try to be aware of my shortcomings.

It doesn't help that some of the white knights over here are giving truly awful advice and cheap psychoanalysis.

Eh, I don't take it for granted to actually get something decent out of it. We need to remember this thread only exist because a janny, that's already doxed with a face pic and looks hideous. Wanted to merge my posts out of the LGB thread and call me a fag.
I may be a homosexual, but at least I'm not ugly.

I think he's overdosed on the Internet and his own negative thoughts.

It's why I go to the gym for 3-4 hours at a time. To get a pause from it, but I need rest from working out too.

 

[draggs]

Faggots are so promiscuous you gotta be really repulsive to not get laid if you're a faggot

 

[Ewan McGregor]

Faggots are so promiscuous you gotta be really repulsive to not get laid if you're a faggot

I don't think so.

You can be physically repulsive and still get laid, that guy who wanted to shag Chris Chan was somewhat successful on Grindr.

I think OP is just signaling something he's not aware of.

 

[Nauseated Courgi]

I don't think so.

You can be physically repulsive and still get laid, that guy who wanted to shag Chris Chan was somewhat successful on Grindr.

I think OP is just signaling something he's not aware of.

Exactly. Gay guys are horny as fuck. Looks shouldn't matter for the most part if you're only looking for a quickie.

Clearly there's something @Vingle isn't telling us. Y'know besides the obvious.

 

[Ewan McGregor]

Exactly. Gay guys are horny as fuck. Looks shouldn't matter for the most part if you're only looking for a quickie.

Clearly there's something @Vingle isn't telling us. Y'know besides the obvious.

I can picture a blond cute boy with an unnatural babyface devoid of any sort of wrinkles whatsoever. He is not just an average white boy, he does actually stand out. Looking at you with a thousand yard stare, with the eyelids partly covering the iris but a noticeably large amount of white eyeball below. Looking at you emotionless with bright, electric blue eyes from its little grindr pic.

And then he texts you.

"Hey"

And nothing else.

 

[Vingle]

I think OP is just signaling something he's not aware of.

Clearly there's something @Vingle isn't telling us.

Sure, I've heard that people don't like me because of my "vibe". But what that means, or how I'm supposed to fix it. I don't know anything about because nobody tells me what the actual problem is.

I can picture a blond cute boy with an unnatural babyface devoid of any sort of wrinkles whatsoever. He is not just an average white boy, he does actually stand out. Looking at you with a thousand yard stare, with the eyelids partly covering the iris but a noticeably large amount of white eyeball below. Looking at you emotionless with bright, electric blue eyes from its little grindr pic.

And then he texts you.

"Hey"

And nothing else.

Have I chatted with you on Grindr?!

 

[Ewan McGregor]

But what that means, or how I'm supposed to fix it

I don't think you can really "fix it".

You could look at things like your non verbal communication and the sort, train yourself to act and behave more "normal", but I have the feeling you refuse to do that.

You will always be awkward, and you will always feel awkward.

I'd say that if you managed to get a hold of your quite negative mindset and get rid of some quite disturbing patterns of thought you'd be able to change your aura to a brighter one. You'd still come across as an awkward man, but the awkwardness might be endearing.

So you can think of that.

Or not. Richard Nixon was an extremely socially maladjusted man with a rather dark inner world and very awkward to people. He had zero charisma and never came across as someone honest or trustworthy.

And yet he managed to marry and be President of the United States, so there's that.

 

[Vingle]

I don't think you can really "fix it".

You could look at things like your non verbal communication and the sort, train yourself to act and behave more "normal", but I have the feeling you refuse to do that.

It mainly happens on internet now, as this is what I've heard years ago. So the body language has to be transferred through pics too.
And yea, the one incel that flipped on me the other day. I seem to attract many of those that aren't even near my level of attractiveness. It may be because I look juvenile and think I'm easy to exploit.

Don't really think it even can be reversed, as I have lived the majority of my life friendless and lonely. You are supposed to learn this when you’re a kid.

You will always be awkward, and you will always feel awkward.

Don't know if it's just being awkward, that's harmless and quite retarded to dump someone over. Of course it's going to be awkward on the first meeting.
I feel it's more about unintentionally sending signals that are read as "This person is dangerous".

I'd say that if you managed to get a hold of your quite negative mindset and get rid of some quite disturbing patterns of thought you'd be able to change your aura to a brighter one. You'd still come across as an awkward man, but the awkwardness might be endearing.
So you can think of that.

Was at a friends (acquitance rather) place yesterday. Haven't been to him in forever, since he's the type of fag I think is cringe. But he got some based takes, so whatever.
Anyway, the bus home was packed and I was really not happy about that and probably sent out vibes that I wished them to die. Because, how dare they make me unhappy.
Nuff said, not going anywhere if I don't have to in a long time.

Or not. Richard Nixon was an extremely socially maladjusted man with a rather dark inner world and very awkward to people. He had zero charisma and never came across as someone honest or trustworthy.

And yet he managed to marry and be President of the United States, so there's that.

I mean, I feel like the people who are bad with people do more good. Because, Murica is a third world country because they keep choosing incompetent extroverts.

 

[Ewan McGregor]

they keep choosing incompetent extroverts.

America is a country made of incompetent extroverts. Your country, on the other hand, is known as the place of people who would make good accountants but lame party-goers.

That you seem to consider your fellow Norwegians too extroverted is quite concerning.

 

[Catler]

Faggots are so promiscuous you gotta be really repulsive to not get laid if you're a faggot

A lot of them have absolutely zero standards though and are gross.

 

[draggs]

I don't think so.

You can be physically repulsive and still get laid, that guy who wanted to shag Chris Chan was somewhat successful on Grindr.

I think OP is just signaling something he's not aware of.

It doesnt necessarily have to be physically repulsive

 

[Neurotypical Mantis]

vingle acts like an ayyden to be fair

 

[Vingle]

America is a country made of incompetent extroverts. Your country, on the other hand, is known as the place of people who would make good accountants but lame party-goers.

That you seem to consider your fellow Norwegians too extroverted is quite concerning.

The most common thing I hear from Muricans moving to Norway. All seem to get fucking depressed from the lack of social stuff.

I do kinda want to go out on town, but I don't bother when the doorman is going to kick me out all the time

vingle acts like an ayyden to be fair

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people do this shit all the time though why is it not ok when i do it

This shit is why you got the pink triangle and not me.

Edit: Not everyone has T&H and can see the pic, so here

 

[Cringe newfag]

Haven't been to him in forever, since he's the type of fag I think is cringe

What about dykes. Do you hate being in the physical presence of lesbians too? Or is this all ONLY fags.

And what about Bisexuals, too. You say you are a Based Homophobe but you only ever complain about gay men, which makes it sound like you're just afraid of butt piracy, not truly ideologically commited to Homo Hate.

 

[Ewan McGregor]

I do kinda want to go out on town, but I don't bother when the doorman is going to kick me out all the time

Maybe you should reconsider your relationship with alcohol

 

[Vingle]

What about dykes. Do you hate being in the physical presence of lesbians too? Or is this all ONLY fags.

Haven't met one in years, according to what I know.

And what about Bisexuals, too.

I prefer them, tend to be less faggy.

You say you are a Based Homophobe

Not really, only that I just hate them.

Maybe you should reconsider your relationship with alcohol

No.
Other people complain about doormen being nazi about alcohol too. This is specific to Norway, and my "friend" often travels out of country just to have a good party.
I haven't drunk in a few months now. Because I'm too cheap to buy it myself, and I know there's no limit that is considered safe in terms of health risks. Of course, I only care about the premature ageing part, but I know since I drink this little. It will have minimal impact on me.

 

[Gravemind]

Vingle, you're one of the small handful of users I actually like on here, but reading this thread just has me like

Why are you actually the gayest faggot? You are too gay for even the gays. That right there is an accomplishment, and not one to be proud of.

Now, I've scrolled through maybe 5 pages worth of this shit (edit: I have now read the whole thread, disregard), but already I have a good enough sense for what your problems are, and you are certainly a special kind of retarded to have not picked up on the issue when people have explicitly told you what your problems are several times over by now.

You're narcissistic. But not even the attractive kind of narcissistic that tends to sucker people in. You have that entitled sense of narcissism that nobody likes, and your standards are stupidly high for the ballpark you're trying to pitch in.

Maybe try looking for someone less in the "Do they meet this checklist of my criteria?" mindset and moreso in the "Do I enjoy being around this person for the most part, even if I disagree with them on occasion?" mindset, because this is generally how relationships tend to work. What you're chasing after now is an idea of a person and you're putting on the blinders completely towards people themselves. You got too much of that "me, me, me" bullshit going on – like, exceptionally so.