Debate User @Vingle on why the Chads don't want to push his shit in - lol gaycel

[Neurotypical Mantis]

Working out now, i answer later. Not going to actually put my face here. But I’m somewhat unsure what an halal thread would have. I’m more of a sadcow if anything.

my vote is schizocow

 

[Amiga Shelley02]

So, you got raped? Is that what you're saying?

Yes, and it's too painful to do it even years after the fact. I don't want to destroy my bum hole even further.

I initially thought you were trolling, but after reading this I now get it. If that's true, I'm sorry. Know that it wasn't your fault. Have you seen a therapist? It might help with the trauma-related issues. These issues are preventing you from getting healthy romantic relationships.

183cm and 78 kg is average in Norway. If you're just now bulking, it means that you still don't have much muscle, so my guess is that it's mostly fat and water. That would make you skinnyfat, which just isn't attractive for someone in the late 20's.

If you're just looking for hookups in the gay scene, face isn't important, but it will be if you're looking for long-term relationships, so keep up with the skincare alongside the gym.

Are you still on Grindr? That's for hookups only. You won't find a long-term relationship there. A good Grindr profile doesn't need a bio, it needs hot shirtless pics. You don't even need to show your face.

I know you are tired of people telling you this, but you will need to lower your standards. A racist transphobic handsome gay white man who doesn't do anal is too specific of a profile. Pick three desired characteristics max.

The exact place where you live is also important. I don't think you'll find many gay people if you're not in or close to Oslo, Bergen or Stavanger.

Before all of that though, we need to address the elephant in the room: what counts as white to you? You say you are racist, but a true racist would consider people from Eastern Europe, specially Russia, as uncivilized barbarous warmongers and violent psycho criminals. Hungary is another country a lot of racists look down upon, because of their non-Indo-European language. Yet, you seem to be very interested in guys from those areas and even call men from Western Europe "effeminate". You also self-identify as involuntary celibate, but gets angry when called an incel (which is the same as involuntary celibate) and admits to having had a threesome in the past. I think you adopted an edgy persona as a defense mechanism to deal with the rape trauma. You need to let go of this edgy persona. It's fine if you have a sexual preference for one race or ethnicity, but when that gets to the point of you calling yourself a racist, it will show off and scare away potential partners, even if you don't openly talk about it. As I said before, go see a therapist. That's the most important step right now.

 

[Vingle]

I'm sorry.

If saying sorry helped, there wouldn't be as much suffering in the world.

Know that it wasn't your fault. Have you seen a therapist? It might help with the trauma-related issues. These issues are preventing you from getting healthy romantic relationships.

No, because I still feel it's the loneliness that triggers me. Going to a therapist to learn to cope is gay as fuck. It doesn't do shit about the problem itself.
And yes, I have been sexually assaulted several other times by fags. One case did I report, and guess what. The police didn't do shit, even though guy have been reported several times before for the same thing.
And while yes, I can't do anything about anyone being predators. But I did meet up with him, and already from the beginning I thought he was pretty sketch.
It's like blaming girls for dressing like whores out on town. They can't do anything with predators assaulting them, but they can decrease the risk of getting raped by not dressing like a whore

I'm just going to lean back and watch, but when fags get shot down. I'm happy, because they (most likely) deserve it.

183cm and 78 kg is average in Norway. If you're just now bulking, it means that you still don't have much muscle,so my guess is that it's mostly fat and water. That would make you skinnyfat, which just isn't attractive for someone in the late 20's.

I need to explain this a little more.
I did weight 72 kg for a long time, but one day I noticed it went to 67 kg. Which it haven't been in years. So I panicked and here I am.
Since this is recent weight gain, it would be natural that some of it is fat. I don't have plans to stop exercising, so the fat would eventually be used to make more muscles.
To be fair, I don''t even look fat now. More normal instead of skinny. Anyway, the strongest tend to have some extra fat anyway. It's not like you can't see they're working out.

If you're just looking for hookups in the gay scene, face isn't important,

Many do like my body, even those with fit bodies themselves. But when it comes to my face, most GTFO then. Not into hookups anyway, it just makes me wanting something I can't get even more. Like, they just want it to be a one-time thing.

Are you still on Grindr? That's for hookups only.

I'm banned from Tinder (because of a bodypic 2 years ago. and they refuse to even consider to unban me)
Every app seems to have the same trash on it, so what's the point in having another app? And I don't go out on town, even though I must admit it would be easier to get someone there.

I know you are tired of people telling you this, but you will need to lower your standards. A racist transphobic handsome gay white man who doesn't do anal is too specific of a profile. Pick three desired characteristics max.

Already said I would see a doctor about the anal thing. I would say a future husband is plenty motivation.

The exact place where you live is also important. I don't think you'll find many gay people if you're not in or close to Oslo, Bergen or Stavanger.

I live in Oslo, this is a big breakthrough.

Before all of that though, we need to address the elephant in the room: what counts as white to you? You say you are racist, but a true racist would consider people from Eastern Europe, specially Russia,

The true definition of a racist is treating someone different because of their colour. Hungary and Russia is a pretty white people.

even call men from Western Europe "effeminate".

We have went so far, in a bad way. From our origins of being vikings.

You also self-identify as involuntary celibate

Not really, I'm pretty voluntary celibate. I just had one incel today on Grindr, rage on me. Because. Lol, ugly.

but gets angry when called an incel

Pretty normal to get angry when accused of something you aren't. Would you be happy if I falsify accused you of murder?

admits to having had a threesome in the past.

It's a part of being young and stupid, to do dumb stuff. I'm not doing it anymore because I've grown up.

you calling yourself a racist, it will show off and scare away potential partners

I hate niggers and they're the root of most evil in the world. If all niggers vanished overnight, there would be A LOT less criminality.

go see a therapist. That's the most important step right now.

Heard this before from fags pissed off because they can't gaslight me.
Maybe you are the one that should see a therapist? What makes you think your worldview is the correct one? Even though a lot of people agree on something, doesn't mean they're right. This is basic psychology, people do follow the herd-mentality.

 

[JamusActimus]

A black guy raped you?

 

[Vingle]

A black guy raped you?

No, but he was a fag. Almost as bad.

 

[SouthernBitchBob]

I initially thought you were trolling, but after reading this I now get it. If that's true, I'm sorry. Know that it wasn't your fault. Have you seen a therapist? It might help with the trauma-related issues. These issues are preventing you from getting healthy romantic relationships.

To be compleeeeetely fair, dating is the huge downside to having youthful features. Yeah it's great knowing that if you take care of yourself you're going to look good into your 40s and so on. But if you look like a teenager in your 20s, your dating life is almost guaranteed to blow. You enter the dating pool knowing full well that most of the guys interested in you enjoy the fact that you look barely legal (yuck). I've met people who have gone to therapy with this problem. The only fix is time. When you hit your 30s and look like you're in your 20s, your dating pool finally opens up to relatively normal people. It sucks. There isn't really a "solution" other than "look older".

 

[Amiga Shelley02]

At this point, it would be better if you were a troll, because you have revealed yourself to be nothing more than a bunch of contradictions:

1) Claimed to be the most handsome gay trophy husband in Oslo, now you admit to being an ugly skinnyfat aging twink.

2) Claimed to be an incel, then denied the claim and changed it to volcel.

3) Act like the king of the edgelords, but then you complain you are lonely.

4) After complaining of loneliness, celebrated a shooting against gay people, which, if successful, would reduce the number of possible partners and increase your chances of remaining lonely for the rest of your life.

5) Believe that being a fag is bad and call things you don't like gay, despite being a fag yourself.

6) Admire the vikings, who would have you killed solely for being gay

7) Claim to be a racist, but you love romano-slavo-turko-mongol-uralic rapebabies.

Do you still wonder why guys don't want to do it with you? You're an adult approaching 30 who has the immaturity and low self-awareness of an edgy teenager that can't control his anger issues. In plain English, you're a manchild angry at the world for "failing you", except that the only people who have actually failed you were other white Norwegian fags just like you, so you can't hurt them without hurting yourself. So, you became an involuntary masochist who self punishes by not getting the proper help you need. I noticed you took time to reply to the entirety of my fairly long previous post, with the sole exception of the part where I said you became this edgy persona to deal with the rape trauma. Can't argue with that, can you?

I agree with @Neurotypical Mantis here

my vote is schizocow

Don't you understand a simple concept like guys not wanting to stick their dick in crazy?

 

[Vingle]

To be compleeeeetely fair, dating is the huge downside to having youthful features. Yeah it's great knowing that if you take care of yourself you're going to look good into your 40s and so on. But if you look like a teenager in your 20s, your dating life is almost guaranteed to blow. You enter the dating pool knowing full well that most of the guys interested in you enjoy the fact that you look barely legal (yuck). I've met people who have gone to therapy with this problem. The only fix is time. When you hit your 30s and look like you're in your 20s, your dating pool finally opens up to relatively normal people. It sucks. There isn't really a "solution" other than "look older".

This is true, I have a babyface because I embalm my face in skincare. I'm fully aware that I look younger than my peers.
It's just that, you know that's the reason. But being human and having feelings that aren't rational 24/7, and especially when it feels like no one is understanding. It's just hard sometimes.

It can be kinda freaky for someone to have a smooth face without a single line, especially when men in general aren't that fond of slapping even moisturiser on.

At this point, it would be better if you were a troll, because you have revealed yourself to be nothing more than a bunch of contradictions:

Sounds like someone pissed in your corn flakes.

now you admit to being an ugly skinnyfat aging twink.

I haven't

2) Claimed to be an incel, then denied the claim and changed it to volcel.

I haven't

3) Act like the king of the edgelords, but then you complain you are lonely.

We edgelords get lonely too.

4) After complaining of loneliness, celebrated a shooting against gay people, which, if successful, would reduce the number of possible partners and increase your chances of remaining lonely for the rest of your life.

Not like I would even touch them. As those are indulging in the fag culture.

5) Believe that being a fag is bad and call things you don't like gay, despite being a fag yourself.

Guess I view myself as superior, along with the other gays that aren't retarded.

6) Admire the vikings, who would have you killed solely for being gay

What I wrote wasn't even an admiration.

7) Claim to be a racist, but you love romano-slavo-turko-mongol-uralic rapebabies.

Racism isn't the same as genocide.

Do you still wonder why guys don't want to do it with you? You're an adult approaching 30 who has the immaturity and low self-awareness of an edgy teenager that can't control his anger issues. In plain English, you're a manchild angry at the world for "failing you", except that the only people who have actually failed you were other white Norwegian fags just like you, so you can't hurt them without hurting yourself. So, you became an involuntary masochist who self punishes by not getting the proper help you need.

God, you’re such an insufferable fag. Stop projecting and gaslighting me.

I noticed you took time to reply to the entirety of my fairly long previous post

I felt I could be polite, since the other posts weren't. Now I regret being kind.

with the sole exception of the part where I said you became this edgy persona to deal with the rape trauma. Can't argue with that, can you?

I didn't feel the need to address the issue 2 times

Don't you understand a simple concept like guys not wanting to stick their dick in crazy?

I'm not the one going full tardrage over someone disagreeing.

 

[Sapphixys Shitty Panties]

Is it? I'm not the one getting mad?

I'm not an incel though, I'm involuntary celibate. Care to help me, instead of getting MATI on me?

 

[Ol' Slag]

Real talk.

You are fucking insufferable. It isn't the body, it isn't the ideals, it isn't the racism, it's the fucking idea that you seem to think you are owed this .00001 unicorn.

Lower your fucking standards and take a good long look in the mirror. You aren't the shit. You are someone with development issues and probably PTSD from being raped.

You got raped by another guy and haven't dealt with it and refuse to go to therapy.

If you decide to be a worthless fag and do something stupid, please don't quote the Farms in your manifesto.

 

[Cringe newfag]

(Can't Reply properly for some reason, sorry.)

And yes, I have been sexually assaulted several other times by fags. One case did I report, and guess what. The police didn't do shit, even though guy have been reported several times before for the same thing.
And while yes, I can't do anything about anyone being predators. But I did meet up with him, and already from the beginning I thought he was pretty sketch.
It's like blaming girls for dressing like whores out on town. They can't do anything with predators assaulting them, but they can decrease the risk of getting raped by not dressing like a whore

Do you think it's possible that anxiety over this might be causing self-sabotage?

Maybe on some level you are afraid or anxious, so your mind gives you reasons to back out of dates and not pursue contacts.

I feel like Grindr and other dating apps, and perhaps the whole dating scene, might not be for you if you're uncomfortably with the laissez faire danger of the gay community. You can always just look out for a guy the normal way, you know - by getting involved in as many places and activities as possible, and hope you find someone you like. Most normal people, gay or straight, end up meeting their partner that way. Not with apps.

 

[Vingle]

There's a difference between incel and being involuntary celibate. Incels are those on incel echo chambers.

You are fucking insufferable. It isn't the body, it isn't the ideals, it isn't the racism, it's the fucking idea that you seem to think you are owed this .00001 unicorn.

I'm not communicating this with just a hey.

Lower your fucking standards and take a good long look in the mirror. You aren't the shit. You are someone with development issues and probably PTSD from being raped.

You got raped by another guy and haven't dealt with it and refuse to go to therapy.

If I don't think it's a big deal, it isn't a big deal. I won't be gaslit into thinking it's worse than it is.

If you decide to be a worthless fag and do something stupid, please don't quote the Farms in your manifesto.

Criminality is for niggers, and I'm likely more of a true farmer than you.

Do you think it's possible that anxiety over this might be causing self-sabotage?

Maybe on some level you are afraid or anxious, so your mind gives you reasons to back out of dates and not pursue contacts.

Maybe, I feel like shitty doormen prevents me from going out on town. I don't bother getting kicked out of bars, when I'm fine and have done nothing wrong.

And if I didn't pursue contacts, I wouldn't even have a problem.

I feel like Grindr and other dating apps, and perhaps the whole dating scene, might not be for you if you're uncomfortably with the laissez faire danger of the gay community. You can always just look out for a guy the normal way, you know - by getting involved in as many places and activities as possible, and hope you find someone you like. Most normal people, gay or straight, end up meeting their partner that way. Not with apps.

Eh, I'm not really interested in anything. I don't think there's a course or anything for trolling, even though I seem to do a good job at pissing off people without even trying

 

[Cringe newfag]

Eh, I'm not really interested in anything. I don't think there's a course or anything for trolling, even though I seem to do a good job at pissing off people without even trying

If I may ask, how are you even getting the money to pay for the gym memberships and nights at the bar? Or....anything?

Does the unemployment stipend just last forever in Norway? Or are you on some sort of permanent support payment?

I guess you wouldn't have a car? That is generally important for more serious dating.

 

[Ol' Slag]

Criminality is for niggers, and I'm likely more of a true farmer than you.

Lol calm down newfag. You fit more in with wizards from how you talk.

You should really get some medical help, both therapeutic and medical. You got ass raped by another guy, he fucked up your shitter and you still have repressed anger about it.

 

[Vingle]

If I may ask, how are you even getting the money to pay for the gym memberships and nights at the bar? Or....anything?

Does the unemployment stipend just last forever in Norway? Or are you on some sort of permanent support payment?

I guess you wouldn't have a car? That is generally important for more serious dating.

Working from home.

No car, I live in Oslo. There is good public transport here, not that I use it.

 

[Sapphixys Shitty Panties]

There's a difference between incel and being involuntary celibate. Incels are those on incel echo chambers.

Incel is short for involuntary celibate, you fucking pathetic retard.

 

[Vingle]

Incel is short for involuntary celibate, you fucking pathetic retard.

I'm obviously voluntary celibate, when I get requests and I refuse them because "Lol, ugly".
Do you really think I don't write some stuff just to humour you?

 

[naaaaiiiiillllll!!!]

Hey fren, I haven't read this whole thread but I like your posts in the "autistic things you recently purchased" thread. As I said there a few months ago, I think you're a Versace Vampire, which is a type of vampire and why you can't find anybody. You NEED another vampire to complete you!

I wish I knew how and where to find another vampire for you mate, given your Versace tastes. In any case, I'm holding out hope for you my batty fren.

 

[Vingle]

Hey fren, I haven't read this whole thread but I like your posts in the "autistic things you recently purchased" thread. As I said there a few months ago, I think you're a Versace Vampire, which is a type of vampire and why you can't find anybody. You NEED another vampire to complete you!

I wish I knew how and where to find another vampire for you mate, given your Versace tastes. In any case, I'm holding out hope for you my batty fren.

Thank you fren, it's been a shitshow. A fun one nevertheless, it wouldn't have 9 pages then.
But yea, my tastes in about everything reeks of this overwhelming almost tacky-like sphere.

 

[draggs]

You're not really gay

If you were you'd know that fags can discern your shit personality from "hey" and your pfp on whatever fag hookup app you use

Swallow your pride and head to the nearest glory hole to swallow anonymous cock. You say you live in Oslo, you'll have no problem finding a multitude of bus stations, park bathrooms, etc., to get your mouf and butthole used by strangers at. If nothing else head to one of the dozens of mosques and tell the imam you are 12 and really big for your age, you'll get all the uncut Muslim cock you could ever want then