I was watching some spooky videos tonight to reach my recommended daily nutritional value of entertaining sensationalist trash, and mixed in amongst the videos of doors opening by themselves and CCTV footage of something that was probably a bug, was a video of a little girl telling her mom that the mother's Grandma was there and "says hi". The video even had the chef's touch of the little girl using a nickname for the mom only the grandma could have known...imagine that, now it must be real. We have all heard these kinds of dumb stories, mostly told by some millennial female redditor. But it got me thinking
There really are quite a few of these stories, and I always believe that where there is a rumor there is at least some kernel of truth no matter how small (or large) it ends up being. I don't believe in ghosts because you can't prove a ghost, and I've never seen one. Even if I had, I say again...you can't prove a ghost. But what if there is a reason a lot of people haven't seen or experienced visits from our deceased relatives? What if the reason most of us don't experience these kinds of things, but many other people do, is because our relatives absolutely do not care about us nearly enough to visit. Or they have before, and really did not like what they saw so they never came back. Maybe they think we are losers. Maybe we never mattered that much to them to begin with.