- Joined
- Mar 1, 2016
I actually had a pretty bad encounter this past Friday. I'm going to have to powerlevel a little here, since it's essential to what this tumblr girl said to me. I'm in college and have recently been diagnosed with a terminal autoimmune disease. I haven't been making it to class as much as I used to. My teachers are fine with this, as they know my situation, but legally they cannot explain to the class/classmates I've talked to why I have not been in class.
Thus, when I felt well enough to actually show up to class on Friday, I was bombarded with questions from one girl in particular. This girl was pretty typical--she dyed her hair weird colors, proposed that we kill all men multiple times in class (it's a sociology of gender class), and did her entire final project on Steven Universe where she claimed that the show broke down every gender role possible and had absolutely no flaws. She ran a tumblr blog and knew that I liked to write and also used tumblr to some extent. She was also all about body-positivity, but to an extreme. You know, like the typical 'everyone should be proud of their bodies no matter what [thing] they have!'
So, girl bombards me with questions as soon as I walk into class. I clearly look terrible and ill, because it's fucking logical that I do, so her immediate question is "ARE YOU SICK???" I answered yes and prepared to move on with my life, but this girl would not give up. She kept questioning and questioning until I finally told her that I'm severely sick with something that is affecting everything I do, and I asked her to please shut up about it because it's been hard for me to accept. Cue the reaction that nearly made me slap this girl in the face.
She immediately spewed the typical tumblr bullshit. Her exact words were "You should be proud of your diagnosis! There's nothing bad about being chronically ill! Don't put down others that are ill by saying that it's bad!" I'm just going to leave it at that, because it's pretty fucking obvious why I was fuming.
Thus, when I felt well enough to actually show up to class on Friday, I was bombarded with questions from one girl in particular. This girl was pretty typical--she dyed her hair weird colors, proposed that we kill all men multiple times in class (it's a sociology of gender class), and did her entire final project on Steven Universe where she claimed that the show broke down every gender role possible and had absolutely no flaws. She ran a tumblr blog and knew that I liked to write and also used tumblr to some extent. She was also all about body-positivity, but to an extreme. You know, like the typical 'everyone should be proud of their bodies no matter what [thing] they have!'
So, girl bombards me with questions as soon as I walk into class. I clearly look terrible and ill, because it's fucking logical that I do, so her immediate question is "ARE YOU SICK???" I answered yes and prepared to move on with my life, but this girl would not give up. She kept questioning and questioning until I finally told her that I'm severely sick with something that is affecting everything I do, and I asked her to please shut up about it because it's been hard for me to accept. Cue the reaction that nearly made me slap this girl in the face.
She immediately spewed the typical tumblr bullshit. Her exact words were "You should be proud of your diagnosis! There's nothing bad about being chronically ill! Don't put down others that are ill by saying that it's bad!" I'm just going to leave it at that, because it's pretty fucking obvious why I was fuming.