- Joined
- May 8, 2015
I think the normal-as-fuck state of being dissatisfied with your own body combined with wanting to opt out of being a woman (because being a woman is really hard but it's also not very special) has combined into a desire to be something else. So, yeah, I think it's a valid concern.
Best case scenario, it's a phase and she'll come out the other side of it with a renewed sense of self having a more solid grasp on gender and gender roles, and how she fits into them.
Worst case scenario, she keeps doing this shit and isolating all her non-SJW friends until she becomes a complete crazy person.
Yeah, honestly I just think she's insecure about her gender and what's expected of her. I'll try not to powerlevel much about her over here, but I feel like she always felt like the "ugly" one in groups of other females (whether it be with her two other sisters or with her small group of friends). But at the same time, she put little to no effort into her appearance. I get that make up isn't for everyone and that's totally fine but at times she has even a hard time getting her most basic hygiene standards met. She's not unattractive in the very least. I was talking about it to my other friend yesterday and she mentioned that she always wants to cosplay as male characters instead of female characters. I kinda interpret this as her usually relating to male characters more than female characters because of her believing herself to be an "ugly duckling tomboy" and feeling like there is no female character in any form of media that she likes that truly represents her. She can also sometimes be kinda misogynistic towards certain female characters as well.
She also told me while she is gonna have a different persona at work from now on, I can still refer to her by her real first name (which is very feminine sounding) and female pronouns. So as long as she doesn't bring up that she's ~*genderfluid every five seconds, then I think it's not gonna be so bad, for now. It still kinda sucks though because I always felt like she was smarter than this. She used to make fun of this bullshit and now she's apart of it. It's not only the fact that she's now intertwined in Tumblr's crazy cult, but she's become such a shut in the last few years or so. We used to do everything together, and now it's a major accomplishment if I convince her to go out drinking for me for more than a hour. She doesn't even have any goals or dreams and she's only 23. I don't want to loose someone who's been like a sister to me to this craziness.
Oh how I long for the days where she just came out a furry to me.