Every thing is terrible - Change my mind

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This may or may not be a controversial subject based on your perspective. I'm interested in seeing what everybody thinks about this.

I've been around the block for 33 years. I've been around people from various backgrounds with relationships that ranged in various forms. All of them ended in tragedy and I never lifted a single finger to cause any of this.

I have tried to maintain but nobody cared about any of my efforts or even believed me. They just did what they did for themselves.

Through these 33 years of getting burned. I have relieved that every living being on this planet Earth is terrible.

Why? Because nobody has any empathy, sympathy, emotion or otherwise. Every living single thing just cares about themselves.

They care and claim to be your friend when you say things they like or give them money or lie to their face saying their work is good. But when they decide that you're not good enough for them anymore. They will lie to you face, they will use everything against you and they won't feel a thing about it.

People use anything and everything to manipulate people. Their sexuality, their gender, their reputation, their skin color and their power to curry people in their favor and then they gaslight the living shit out of you because they can.

Nobody cares about each other. Everybody has a codependent relationship with each other that they break when the other is no longer useful.

Nothing matters to anybody. There is no such thing as reality. Only bullshit.

Everybody does shit to benefit themselves. They believe in things cause they care more about power than people. They may claim they care but they don't. They just wrap themselves in echo chambers and surround themself with people who will not question them or even doubt them.

It doesn't matter who you are, what you are, what you believe in. It's all the same. Every place is the same as well.

There is no such thing as a good person. There is only self interest and stabbing people in the back. Nobody really cares about anything that they say, they just use what they say to advance their own self interests.

Nothing will change, everything always remains the same and it's not just you. It is every living thing on this planet Earth.

In my opinion, Earth would be better if every single living thing was dead.

Hobbies are bullshit, I don't trust anybody and what they say anymore. They lie out their teeth when they say stuff and they don't care at all.

Am I wrong? Change my mind like I said in the subtitle.
 
Well, you can chop your cock off while asking everybody to call you Lilith and then join r/antinatalism whenever you want.

Do you wanna do anything about it, or just be a sad sack of shit for the next 40-50 years? If you're really 33 it sounds like you must've peaked in your mental and emotional development during highschool or maybe even earlier. Have you considered growing up?
 
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Make changes to your life or you'll be stuck in perpetual sorrow. Stop blaming literally everything except the changes you need to make, and find something that makes you happy regardless of the people around you. Maybe even get a therapist or something. Also, if this whole thing is you not trusting people or not wanting to listen to them or hear what they say, why are you asking for complete strangers opinions on this? why are you asking them to change your mind if you think genuinely everyone's better off dead? You sound more upset that YOU don't have a codependent relationship than anything else.

Do some self reflection and come back to this post to see your own growth (or lack of it and make change accordingly.)
Stop relying on the voices and opinions of other people unless you're doing something nasty or harmful. Don't even pay attention to them. Focus on YOUR life.
 
All of them ended in tragedy and I never lifted a single finger to cause any of this.
I literally do not believe you. If you run into an asshole in the morning, you ran into an asshole. If you run into assholes all day, you're the asshole.

You sound like an absolute miserable person to be around, and that's in your own post, which presumably paints you in the most charitable way possible, I doubt your interactions with others are so cheery.

Hobbies are bullshit,
What the fuck even is this. I play guitar as a hobby, do you think I'm lying? Do I not actually enjoy it?

“Whoever is devoid of the capacity of wonder, whoever remains unmoved, whoever cannot contemplate or know the deep shudder of the soul in enchantment, might just as well be dead for he has already closed his eyes upon life.”
 
Yeah idk traditionally people who really didn't do much wrong in their relationships believe they did tons of stuff wrong, and the people who did a whole lot wrong think they did nothing wrong.

If anyone's ever like "I did nothing wrong, I did everything correct." I'm immediately suspicious that they're a dumb and insufferable individual.

Did you have a little disagreement with someone on a warhammer 40k discord or something?
 
Make changes to your life or you'll be stuck in perpetual sorrow(...)
I literally do not believe you. If you run into an asshole in the morning, you ran into an asshole. If you run into assholes all day, you're the asshole(...)

(insert OP's gay sperging about hobbies being fake and gay)

(...)I play guitar as a hobby, do you think I'm lying? Do I not actually enjoy it?
Yeah idk traditionally people who really didn't do much wrong in their relationships believe they did tons of stuff wrong, and the people who did a whole lot wrong think they did nothing wrong(...)
The only logical conclusion to these types of people is that they enjoy being miserable. Is this a different expression or variation of the modern tranny-type brain-virus?
 
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This may or may not be a controversial subject based on your perspective. I'm interested in seeing what everybody thinks about this.

I've been around the block for 33 years. I've been around people from various backgrounds with relationships that ranged in various forms. All of them ended in tragedy and I never lifted a single finger to cause any of this.

I have tried to maintain but nobody cared about any of my efforts or even believed me. They just did what they did for themselves.

Through these 33 years of getting burned. I have relieved that every living being on this planet Earth is terrible.

Why? Because nobody has any empathy, sympathy, emotion or otherwise. Every living single thing just cares about themselves.

They care and claim to be your friend when you say things they like or give them money or lie to their face saying their work is good. But when they decide that you're not good enough for them anymore. They will lie to you face, they will use everything against you and they won't feel a thing about it.

People use anything and everything to manipulate people. Their sexuality, their gender, their reputation, their skin color and their power to curry people in their favor and then they gaslight the living shit out of you because they can.

Nobody cares about each other. Everybody has a codependent relationship with each other that they break when the other is no longer useful.

Nothing matters to anybody. There is no such thing as reality. Only bullshit.

Everybody does shit to benefit themselves. They believe in things cause they care more about power than people. They may claim they care but they don't. They just wrap themselves in echo chambers and surround themself with people who will not question them or even doubt them.

It doesn't matter who you are, what you are, what you believe in. It's all the same. Every place is the same as well.

There is no such thing as a good person. There is only self interest and stabbing people in the back. Nobody really cares about anything that they say, they just use what they say to advance their own self interests.

Nothing will change, everything always remains the same and it's not just you. It is every living thing on this planet Earth.

In my opinion, Earth would be better if every single living thing was dead.

Hobbies are bullshit, I don't trust anybody and what they say anymore. They lie out their teeth when they say stuff and they don't care at all.

Am I wrong? Change my mind like I said in the subtitle.

in the time you took to make this post you could've created a bomb instead in a mysterious shack deep in the thickets of some forest near an isolated town with a post office
 
The only logical conclusion to these types of people is that they enjoy being miserable. Is this a different expression or variation of the modern tranny-type brain-virus?
"You are all the things that are wrong with you."

My brother got me to watch most of the show Bojack Horseman, and I didn't love it, however, I really loved this scene where one of his friends finally tore into him for his decision to constantly wallow in misery without changing (narratively its a bit of a fucking trainwreck, but I like the scene in a vacuum).

We would rather be ruined than changed
We would rather die in our dread
Than climb the cross of the moment
And let our illusions die.

~ W.H. Auden
 
In my opinion, Earth would be better if every single living thing was dead
So what did the trees, animals, fungi, plants, and rocks do to you? I can understand you not liking humans but why punish other living things. That sounds like some selfish faggotry.
Am I wrong? Change my mind like I said in the subtitle.
Yes you are, but I will not. The only person who change your mind is you. You seem to conflate life with humans and culture. I would try to change your perspective, but it sounds like you need to find yourself and what matters to you. Find (actually) virtues and go from there.
 
The only logical conclusion to these types of people is that they enjoy being miserable. Is this a different expression or variation of the modern tranny-type brain-virus?
If you don't change, you can't grow. If you can't grow, you don't change. The simple answer to their misery is to change until you're not miserable anymore. Saying that you're trying to change but hit the wall and need advice going forward is way more respectable than "EVERYTHING ON EARTH SHOULD DIE BECAUSE PARASOCIAL RELATIONSHIPS"
 
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