Exceptional Haydurs Thread - Content and discussion of individuals on various platforms hating on our gorls

[RandallBoggs]

You're also pretty much spot on except for this part. It really varies between individuals. Sometimes you see people who are opportunistic bingers and take/plan for whatever moment they can engage in behaviors. For instance, if a child is keeping their eating disorder a secret from their guardians and hoard up binge food so they can engage in a binge and/or bp session once the guardians are away. That takes premeditated planning, even if you're in a lucid state. Although people with untreated eating disorders hardly ever are bc the urges to engage in behaviors are always there. It heavily depends on why a person engages in behaviors in the first place (i.e. a form of self harm, coping, boredom, the sensations, the tastes, etc) to figure out how and when they go about showing symptoms of the disorder.

You're right, I didn't really take that into consideration. My line of thought was more related to independent adults with ED who live alone or with people who know about their condition.

But you and OP are both right to suggest that it's still weird that Amber feels the need to plan her binges. She's not hiding her behavior from anyone in that house, especially because the food she binges on is blatantly displayed in the kitchen. But it may also be that she may wait until she's home alone to engage in them. And since she doesn't drive and can't walk over to the Dollar Tree, she has to hoard the food that she believes she'll want once she has the opportunity to engage in behavior without anyone walking in on her.

Amber waiting to be home alone could be true, but at the same time so much of her behavior just makes it seem like she has no shame when it comes to her binges. For one, her mukbang videos. People with binge eating disorders are ashamed of it, and there's no way in the world they'd film themselves binging for the public to see (obviously not everyone but I'm willing to bet it's 99%). As well as the fact that she goes out to eat so often. She could just order delivery or even go to a restaurant and order food for takeaway then go back home, but nearly every single day she goes out to sit at restaurants and eat thousands of calories knowing probably every other person in that restaurant is judging her. I don't think any person with an eating disorder could actually handle this, and "the temptation of food surpasses the potential embarrassment" isn't a good excuse in my opinion because of the simple fact of how easy it is to get junk food delivered to your house and eaten in solitude, like I mentioned.
Again I could totally believe that she only binges when she's home alone and maybe she worded things badly and it came out sounding like she has an agenda for every binge (I wouldn't be surprised, we all know Amber isn't exactly a maestro with words) but the overall context of everything she does just makes me so suspicious.

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[THOTto]

Amber doesn’t binge, she overeats or gorges whatever you prefer. Calling it a binge gives legitimacy to her claims of being a victim and having an eating disorder instead of disordered eating. The old criteria involved eating 1.5-3x+ of an average days worth of food in one sitting. So if she eats 10k a day (which isn’t a stretch) that would mean she’d have to do 15k-30k all at once.

The new standards are entirely shame based and as eating disorders feed (Lmao) on secrets the probability of someone confessing to a real binge is slim at best. It’s also best to remember a very small percentage of the population actually has BED and while there is some Overlap chances are anyone toting BED while claiming to be better then Amber or Chantal probably doesn’t have it.

 

[Twinkie]

I agree and re: "shame based" we also have to remember that there's a difference between confessing what she eats to a doctor or mental health professional and confessing to her youtube audience that she has been lying to for over six years. The fact that she lies to her audience means fuckall in terms of whether or not she has an eating disorder because she lies about everything in her videos and always has.

Also how much of this "binge eating" is really "shame based" when 90% of the calories are eaten in public in restaurants and the rest is binge food she proudly zipped around walmart flinging into the cart of her scooty puff. Just because she doesn't want her youtube audience seeing doesn't mean she's actually ashamed that she's doing it.

 

[saralovesjuicyfruit]

I interpret the “planned binge” phrasing to mean basically that she was in the mood to pig out and went out and bought big bags of chips, candy, etc with the intention of eating it all in one night, rather than buying normal groceries with the intention of making it last but then exercising zero self control and pigging out anyway (which I assume she would categorize as an “unplanned binge”).

 

[THOTto]

I agree and re: "shame based" we also have to remember that there's a difference between confessing what she eats to a doctor or mental health professional and confessing to her youtube audience that she has been lying to for over six years. The fact that she lies to her audience means fuckall in terms of whether or not she has an eating disorder because she lies about everything in her videos and always has.

Also how much of this "binge eating" is really "shame based" when 90% of the calories are eaten in public in restaurants and the rest is binge food she proudly zipped around walmart flinging into the cart of her scooty puff. Just because she doesn't want her youtube audience seeing doesn't mean she's actually ashamed that she's doing it.

By shame based I mean that it provides a negative psychological impact on the actual sufferers of BED far after eating and may push them into dangerous behaviors such as purging, over exercising, yo-yo and fad diets and heavy restriction or fasting. Someone may have BED but not regularly partake in these actions (disqualifying them from Bulimia or EDNOS) but they’ll feel like an out of control monster, hate themselves, have severe body dysmorphic episodes etc. ED sufferers tend to be perfectionists as well and very hard on their appearance day to day.

Our lady of lard doesn’t fall into this, you’re exactly right. The only overlap is the manipulation facts (People with ED’s are notoriously good at this-) and disordered eating. Guilt and Shame along with body Dysmorphia are the base of any eating disorder. If someone lacks those while over eating food addiction is a much more likely bet. Particularly if they’re defensive when confronted and try to use BED or some other Dx like PCOS as an excuse for their eating habits. But sadly for them food addiction is just that- an addiction, you don’t get drug disorder, gambling disorder or alcohol disorder.

 

[Strawberry Pocky]

Another small point that I have always felt sets Hamber, other lolcows like Cuntal and LiesByJen (and now also this whole herd of Facebook Bitches and LePlebbit Huns too) is the frequency of their so-called "Binges" -which sometimes don't Psychologists also use the term "Behaviours" as well, as binging can be individual/subjective, and also for its recent removal from the Criteria that Bl/Thotto already mentioned?-

Call it a Behaviour or a Binge tho, either way...the tiny lil point I wanted to contribute was that true and honest sufferers of Eating Disorders, BED or Bulimia or Binging-subtype Anorectics, when the have an honest to god binge, they don't binge all day and night long every single day of their lives. Binges are most overwhelmingly commonly rare and infrequent, something like once every week or two to once a month...with some experiencing a TRUE binge maybe less often then that. And (except for BED) they will always try to purge or componsate in some way....which these lolcows NEVER do.

Gorging, feasting, pigging out, stuffing yourself, constantly overeating all day long, for damn near every single day of your life? Amber? Chantal? Basically all of these 290 and 360 pound fatty cunts wasting their lives in ALR Discords? That ain't binging honey.

 

[bev]

Call it a Behaviour or a Binge tho, either way...the tiny lil point I wanted to contribute was that true and honest sufferers of Eating Disorders, BED or Bulimia or Binging-subtype Anorectics, when the have an honest to god binge, they don't binge all day and night long every single day of their lives. Binges are most overwhelmingly commonly rare and infrequent, something like once every week or two to once a month...with some experiencing a TRUE binge maybe less often then that. And (except for BED) they will always try to purge or componsate in some way....which these lolcows NEVER do.

You have good points, but for the sake of accuracy, binges can be fairly frequent and last for several hours at a time. I'm not sure where you got that information, but it's definitely an inaccurate generalization of ED behaviors.

 

[THOTto]

Call it a Behaviour or a Binge tho, either way...the tiny lil point I wanted to contribute was that true and honest sufferers of Eating Disorders, BED or Bulimia or Binging-subtype Anorectics, when the have an honest to god binge, they don't binge all day and night long every single day of their lives. Binges are most overwhelmingly commonly rare and infrequent, something like once every week or two to once a month...with some experiencing a TRUE binge maybe less often then that. And (except for BED) they will always try to purge or componsate in some way....which these lolcows NEVER do.

Gorging, feasting, pigging out, stuffing yourself, constantly overeating all day long, for damn near every single day of your life? Amber? Chantal? Basically all of these 290 and 360 pound fatty cunts wasting their lives in ALR Discords? That ain't binging honey.

Yes and no. BED criteria is at 2-6 days per week. But there isn’t a consistent pattern. You won’t always have a true and honest binge 3 days a week or 6 days a week. From my research experience 1-3 days a week is fairly common for bulimics, their binge habits CAN last a full day if they repeatedly purging. It’s not unheard of for them to go to a buffet and spend 4-6 hours eating, going to the bathroom to puke and coming back and eating more. BED sufferers may attempt purging but if it isn’t a consistent compulsion (ie ever binge or 2 times a week iirc) it’s still considered BED or borderline EDNOS but that’s a whole other conversation.

Ultimately eating disorders are as unique as the sufferers, it’s less rigid then what you’re trying to say.

You have good points, but for the sake of accuracy, binges can be fairly frequent and last for several hours at a time. I'm not sure where you got that information, but it's definitely an inaccurate generalization of ED behaviors.

Exactly, it also depends on the types of food being consumed, the size of the stomach and how much it can stretch. There are a lot of differing factors. But a good rule of thumb is anyone who flaunts, seems proud of having an eating disorder or god forbid wants one* probably doesn’t have one but may experience disordered eating. ED’s are distressing and upsetting, they ruin lives and have the highest mortality rate of any mental illness.

*does not apply to some of the proana group, the lich Queen, etc, this is just a rough guideline while viewing these orbiting sows. Also sorry for the typos guys

 

[xoxo_gossipgorl]

I need the classic Eric Cooke “NO ONE CARES” insert

 

[Moonpie]

Crater-faced Alex is back and is attempting to seem overly animated while still clearly drugged up.

He irks the hell out of me.
Can't stand his voice.

He cracks me up

 

[Rabbit Bones]

This post isn't the issue...

...but this response is. Such a weird fucking flex. Also, almost every single one of this chicks FB photos are nasty looking food. It's shocking that she claims to have made it all in culinary school.

lol no one gives a shit that this chicks fat ass rolled around Walmart on the cart. I know the carts are meant for sick/old people, but at my last retail job... we all called them fat carts. These cunts love to blame Big Al for the weirdest shit

What a skinny queen.

 

[DefCon Dumb]

He's smart enough to keep his videos short & punchy. He's fantastic at choosing pertinent stills to go with his narration & has enough education to call on a wide array of cultural references - old & modern & from all types of culture & arts. He's got a formula he usually sticks to, unless it just doesn't work that day & he easily amends what he's doing. He's masterful at using her own words & stills to highlight her ongoing idiocy. So far, he's escaped diving into the swamp as so many reactors do.

 

[RandallBoggs]

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There arent any words to describe how absolutely baffled I am right now. What the fuck? What does that supposed to mean? I'm so fucking dumbfounded

 

[Moonpie]

This post isn't the issue...
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...but this response is. Such a weird fucking flex. Also, almost every single one of this chicks FB photos are nasty looking food. It's shocking that she claims to have made it all in culinary school.
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lol no one gives a shit that this chicks fat ass rolled around Walmart on the cart. I know the carts are meant for sick/old people, but at my last retail job... we all called them fat carts. These cunts love to blame Big Al for the weirdest shit
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What a skinny queen.
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All these flexin girls are ugly as hell.
They are no better than Albert.

 

[Strawberry Pocky]

You have good points, but for the sake of accuracy, binges can be fairly frequent and last for several hours at a time. I'm not sure where you got that information, but it's definitely an inaccurate generalization of ED behaviors.

Yes and no. BED criteria is at 2-6 days per week. But there isn’t a consistent pattern. You won’t always have a true and honest binge 3 days a week or 6 days a week. From my research experience 1-3 days a week is fairly common for bulimics, their binge habits CAN last a full day if they repeatedly purging. It’s not unheard of for them to go to a buffet and spend 4-6 hours eating, going to the bathroom to puke and coming back and eating more. BED sufferers may attempt purging but if it isn’t a consistent compulsion (ie ever binge or 2 times a week iirc) it’s still considered BED or borderline EDNOS but that’s a whole other conversation.

Ultimately eating disorders are as unique as the sufferers, it’s less rigid then what you’re trying to say.


Exactly, it also depends on the types of food being consumed, the size of the stomach and how much it can stretch. There are a lot of differing factors. But a good rule of thumb is anyone who flaunts, seems proud of having an eating disorder or god forbid wants one* probably doesn’t have one but may experience disordered eating. ED’s are distressing and upsetting, they ruin lives and have the highest mortality rate of any mental illness.

*does not apply to some of the proana group, the lich Queen, etc, this is just a rough guideline while viewing these orbiting sows. Also sorry for the typos guys

I apologize - I should have made myself more clear.
You guys are definitely right, and I wasn't trying to suggest that ONLY rare and infrequent binges are legitimate/real. Simply that they can be, and I was just trying to bring up that frequency of binge eting behavior plays a part in Eating Disordered individuals and their psychosis as well, thats all. Absolutely binges can still be 2 or 6 or 9 times a week, or thrice a day (and purged all three times, etc)

All I was trying to say is tht the constant, never-ending gorging and overeating and dumbass snacking that Hamber and her Facebook brood of marecows all lazily and hedonisticly indulge in every single day and night of their lives is not what real ED Binging is.
I'm not so super great at the ol' wording and 'splaining myself tho. lol

 

[Moonpie]

In honor of Hamber's hip hop dance days.

 

[Dank Souls]

I know it's a Livestream and nobody wants to watch all this faggotry, but around the 11:30 mark he gets excited about lots of people "joining" his channel for MEMBERSHIP. These dumb broads are actually willing to pay monthly to get those extra perks from Beetus Drake's YT (whatever that may be). The delusion is real with these fucking walnuts.

 

[a bootiful jung woman]

He is master of the fat angle. Show us your gut, Michael.

 

[RandallBoggs]

I cant for the life of me understand why anyone would donate to these streams. And these women dont just donate a dollar, most of them donate more than 10 or 20 at a time. There have been more than one occasion when someone donated upwards to a 100. And even still, he gets a new donation every 3 minutes or so.
Fucking gaming streamers, people who are actually talented and entertaining and who's job is to stream, dont get donations like that. This isnt Michael's job, and all this fat fuck does is react to another fat fuck, and one of the easiest people to react to at that. Like really? This is the type of content you throw your hard earned money at? I mean obviously it's your money you're free to spend it on whatever you want, but I'm also free to judge you.
What's hilarious is that all these women make fun of Amber for wasting her money on journals and makeup. You're doing the exact same shit, honey.

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[krazy orange cat]

I cant for the life of me understand why anyone would donate to these streams. And these women dont just donate a dollar, most of them donate more than 10 or 20 at a time. There have been more than one occasion when someone donated upwards to a 100. And even still, he gets a new donation every 3 minutes or so.
Fucking gaming streamers, people who are actually talented and entertaining and who's job is to stream, dont get donations like that. This isnt Michael's job, and all this fat fuck does is react to another fat fuck, and one of the easiest people to react to at that. Like really? This is the type of content you throw your hard earned money at? I mean obviously it's your money you're free to spend it on whatever you want, but I'm also free to judge you.
What's hilarious is that all these women make fun of Amber for wasting her money on journals and makeup. You're doing the exact same shit, honey.

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I wonder how many of his donations result in chargeback requests? He's having his donations go through streamlabs and they have an entire article talking about how donations often result in chargebacks. I can see these women donating so that he reads their message, then disputing the charge.