IliterateNerd77
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Before any spreging femcels get their panties in a wad
When people say "feminism created incels" or blame it for why dating is difficult for men, they aren't saying that "women having voting rights or equality makes dating impossible", that's a strawman used to poison the well. What they really and specifically, meant is that "feminists and other leftists, fearmongering about sexual harassment, classifying 'asking out a woman in person' as creepy and misogynistic, giving bad cope dating advice for men, and defending women who overreact, making false accusations against men-take this for example-and have insane delusional dating standards, have created or greatly contributed to the incel problem".
A lot of these leftists, feminists especially, seem to have forgotten how heterosexual relationships begin and work. Most if not all the time, these relationships begin when the man makes the first move and the woman accepts him. Now we live in a world-thanks to rabid schizo feminists-where young men are too afraid of getting accused of sexual harassment to approach a woman, and young women are afraid of men in general being anywhere physically near them, let alone approached, only to then wonder why they don't have a boyfriend. Many of these women, know that in order for a relationship to begin, the man has to make the first move. Which is impossible, again thanks to feminist movement defending women making false accusations and encouraging misandrist schizophrenia.
Many of the leftists who do push the "asking out/approaching women is creepy and sexist" narrative, have tried and failed to provide a substitute for what has always worked:
The biggest problem with demonizing the old fashioned tactic of dating as "misogynistic": asking out a girl in person, has been the most effective tactic for men. Even the fathers of these delusional misandrist femcels have asked out (made the first move on) their mothers, in order to become a thing let alone, for these femcels to even be born.
Furthermore, the body positivity and fat acceptence movement has also contributed to this, by encourging obese women to have unrealistically high dating standards, like being entitled to a perfect men with a muscular physique and million dollar salary under the guise of female empowerment, while demonzing physically fit men for wanting a phyisically fit woman, tell them to "lower their standards", while saying the oppositie to women.
As well as pushing the cope advice of "looks don't matter" and greatly overestimating personality, that does nothing for men, except set them up to become incels when reality slams into them like a frieght train, after getting rejected by a 8/10 woman they though they had a chance with, cause "muh good personality". It can be said, that feminism has also set up women to become femcels, but in a different way.
When people say "feminism created incels" or blame it for why dating is difficult for men, they aren't saying that "women having voting rights or equality makes dating impossible", that's a strawman used to poison the well. What they really and specifically, meant is that "feminists and other leftists, fearmongering about sexual harassment, classifying 'asking out a woman in person' as creepy and misogynistic, giving bad cope dating advice for men, and defending women who overreact, making false accusations against men-take this for example-and have insane delusional dating standards, have created or greatly contributed to the incel problem".
A lot of these leftists, feminists especially, seem to have forgotten how heterosexual relationships begin and work. Most if not all the time, these relationships begin when the man makes the first move and the woman accepts him. Now we live in a world-thanks to rabid schizo feminists-where young men are too afraid of getting accused of sexual harassment to approach a woman, and young women are afraid of men in general being anywhere physically near them, let alone approached, only to then wonder why they don't have a boyfriend. Many of these women, know that in order for a relationship to begin, the man has to make the first move. Which is impossible, again thanks to feminist movement defending women making false accusations and encouraging misandrist schizophrenia.
Many of the leftists who do push the "asking out/approaching women is creepy and sexist" narrative, have tried and failed to provide a substitute for what has always worked:
- Feminists have attempted to push for women to ask out men instead of the other way around and that flopped-turns out women are more horrified of asking out than men.
- Many leftists and breadtubers have pushed for online dating to be a complete substitute for IRL dating, which is stupid given dating apps suck, especially for men.
- Befriending women first or getting in the friendzone, is niceguy/simp behavior that is guaranteed to fail. Waiting for a woman to show interest, confess, or admit, would be waste of time and effort. Nothing wrong with ghosting or stop interracting with a woman who hasn't shown interest or has told you "she's not interested" or "I think we should just be friends", even though leftists have also been demonizing that as well.
- Expecting men to somehow, know if a woman is interested in a relationship with them, which would require the ability for men to read a woman's mind.
The biggest problem with demonizing the old fashioned tactic of dating as "misogynistic": asking out a girl in person, has been the most effective tactic for men. Even the fathers of these delusional misandrist femcels have asked out (made the first move on) their mothers, in order to become a thing let alone, for these femcels to even be born.
Furthermore, the body positivity and fat acceptence movement has also contributed to this, by encourging obese women to have unrealistically high dating standards, like being entitled to a perfect men with a muscular physique and million dollar salary under the guise of female empowerment, while demonzing physically fit men for wanting a phyisically fit woman, tell them to "lower their standards", while saying the oppositie to women.
As well as pushing the cope advice of "looks don't matter" and greatly overestimating personality, that does nothing for men, except set them up to become incels when reality slams into them like a frieght train, after getting rejected by a 8/10 woman they though they had a chance with, cause "muh good personality". It can be said, that feminism has also set up women to become femcels, but in a different way.
