avoid being a female lalafell because people are degenerates, avoid being a female miqote because people are perverts, and avoid being a female au ra because people are perverts
There is no race choice that will not in some fashion attract weird shit. Yes, even the most milquetoast midlander hyur choice will get something. Gird your loins for autism if you enter large XIV communities for there is no escape.
Get my subs up to a point where I make enough gil to buy whatever bullshit I need.
I can guarantee you that as a Fiddie first time MMO player the only thing I've ever gotten to my character is a few compliments due to literally buying the FFX summoner outfit since my character was already basically Yuna. I posted my plate a bit earlier.
At least my own personal experience has been 99% kind comments. Even a few people just giving free stuff to me when I was just a sprout. There's always weird asses in MMOs but I think XIV has just had the misfortune of being the one with the most draw for coomers and special eds.
Having a quiet place away from all the faggotry.
In the game defense the faggot shit can be avoided and it aint in your face unless you decide for some godforsaken reason to join a faggy fc or you decide to hang around Limsa(although it has a pretty view) despite the complain that you may see here, you can play the MSQ and never stumble on a tranny, although be warned; Mentors are 90% useless(the have golden crowns next to their name, we call em BK crowns) so youre better off with randoms for advice.
This was also my experience. Mentors are pointless. The MSQ is pathetically easy and the game hand holds you through everything. If you're depressed, you might enjoy the ego boosting role play where every NPC treats you like Mommy's favorite, even the villains.
Before the housing became lottery based I would scope out houses and move around a lot. One time I saw a roe sitting outside a medium lot so I swooped in, bought the house from under them, and ran away. Now I stick to Ishgard because I like snow and the color grey
Even Limsa isn't too bad on my server. I am there quite often but only once read something that could be considered as lewd. The euro-servers overall don't seem too bad for the degenerate shit. I really think that that is mainly US.
Housing areas? Low, especially if you stick to your apartments.
It's generally very low overall unless you go to areas where the retards congregate, and even then it'll likely be in the way of unwanted private messages.
This only really happens on Balmung.
Any server with an RPC presence, the Quicksand and Limsa Lower Decks in general are wretched hives of scum and degeneracy. This is not solely limited to Balmung.
