Manosphere Fonduman / mooooo - (he shits up our loveshy threads)

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WanderingVagabond said:
Don't bother we're never going to get the answers we need.



Okay normally I hate laziness as much as the next person, I'm currently sharing space (can't wait to fucking move out) with a slob of a drunk who I used to call stepfather, but if EH has her "don't feel like myself" days or have mild depression where she may want to be 'lazy'. I'd suggest you whip yourself into shape by doing what you just mentioned.

If there's one thing I fucking hate is people capable of doing simple shit and having the nerve to ask someone to do it for him/her. I've had to deal with this shit for 7 years now and this response of yours, pissed me the fuck off!
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Try not to let him get to you, dude. He really wound me up the other day, but it isn't really worth it.

Although, I say that, yet I'm still here.
 
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Atsimuel said:
Ok, I'm putting on my serious hat for a moment. The things you've really highlighted makes it sound like you're only really with her because she's, I don't know, gettable? There's probably a better way I could describe that, but it's the best I can come up with.
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This.

Putting on my own serious hat for a moment, if you can't tell us why you *love* her, @mooooo -- instead of just justifications for being with her, you should do some serious thinking: (1) Are you capable of love? and (2) If so, do you love Enginehead?

If you know what love feels like, and you don't feel it for Enginehead, end it now. Read my earlier advice on relationships and start rebuilding your life. Better now than after you've wasted five years of both of your lives slowly degenerating into a fatter version of @Holden .
 
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Ass Manager 3000 said:
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Your probably beginning to wonder why I haven't stopped asking you this simple question. Its because nearly everything you've wrote in this thread reads like a bigot wrote it. What i'm trying to determine is whats motivating it. Is it Ignorance, hatred or fear (or both/all of them)?

So answer my question please. Would you kindly.
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Given his experiences with his family, I'm going to say pain.

Not that that makes it alright - similiar shit happened to me, but I understood that disengaging from a marriage or relationship takes time and effort even once you've decided to leave. And I didn't let it colour my view of women.
 
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Atsimuel said:
Given his experiences with his family, I'm going to say pain.

Not that that makes it alright - similiar shit happened to me, but I understood that disengaging from a marriage or relationship takes time and effort even once you've decided to leave. And I didn't let it colour my view of women.
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You're probably right, but i can't help but feel something else is there too. His behavior suggests hatred from he way he talks about women in the abstract....
 
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Saney said:
You have a point. We could probably do without the insults directed at Enginehead.
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Agreed, as aforementioned, Enginehead is a nice woman but she isn't on this forum(hopefully she comes and tell her side, story, beliefs, etc) and doesn't deserve the slander. From what I read about her life in LS forum, she doesn't need this slander. I know we make fun of oddballs, but let's not bring people who don't deserve into this.

Given his experiences with his family, I'm going to say pain.

Not that that makes it alright - similiar shit happened to me, but I understood that disengaging from a marriage or relationship takes time and effort even once you've decided to leave. And I didn't let it colour my view of women.
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EDIT: Most of the LS forum members had bad experiences involving family. This stuff doesn't go away even with therapy. It's always going to be a part of you. I feel that the only reason why some of the LS forum members frown upon therapy is the whole 'you never been in my shoes' or 'experienced the trauma'. If you don't have anyone relatable or won't shame you because of prior experience, it's fucking hard to get away from.

Thankfully there's this site called blahtherapy.com where you can vent your frustrations and sadness anonymously. There will be some tough love, but it's cheaper than a shrink. FYI, these aren't professionals on this site. While you may not get the same experience as a trained professional, it's good to blow off some steam with this site.
 
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WanderingVagabond said:
Agreed, as aforementioned, Enginehead is a nice woman but she isn't on this forum(hopefully she comes and tell her side, story, beliefs, etc) and doesn't deserve the slander. From what I read about her life in LS forum, she doesn't need this slander. I know we make fun of oddballs, but let's not bring people who don't deserve into this.
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This. Just because Fonduman is a pathetic lolcow doesn't make his spouse the same.
 
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Billy_Sama said:
@mooooo, even though people already asked similar questions, did you get a wife for love or just to have one to make yourself feel better as an accomplishment, like your personal trophy or in your case, degree wife. You seem to interested in talk about her as your wife than a person you love.
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Yep, there we go, I knew there'd be a better way of putting it.

This.
 
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Ass Manager 3000 said:
You're right. Its his choice in the end.

Yet hatred is self perpetuating in the right environment. I doubt little of his thinking isn't poised by it anymore.
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Hatred can be a fantastic motivator for positive change in the right circumstances. Not here though, obvs.
 
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Saney said:
You have a point. We could probably do without the insults directed at Enginehead.
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You're absolutely right. And if you're reading this, Enginehead, mea culpa for my earlier jibe at you.

Ironically, I think this attitude is a bit of subconscious victim-blaming on our part -- we see @mooooo 's relationship emboldening his hubris/stupidity and get angry at her for "enabling" it, when she's the one who gets hurt the most.

In all honesty though, EH, if you're reading this, please do come on. We're sincerely curious to get the other half of this drama. Do you love @mooooo ? Does that matter to you? Do you personally identify as LS as well (from the forums it seems ambiguous)?

Enquiring minds want to know.
 
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Billy_Sama said:
With Fonduman's reasoning and views on abuse, making his wife feel better is berating her and nagging her to do more housework.
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Mans forcing her to join loveshy forums

Oh and @mooooo (Adam) we aren't nice or think we are good guys. You haven't gotten pizzas yet because you'd enjoy that too much fatty
 
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mooooo said:
We've always had a kind of implicit programming in our biology that females are valuable and we should cater to them.
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What kind of "implicit programming"? Curious mind wants to know.

And how would our "implicit programming in our biology that we should cater to females" square with this?

https://kiwifarms.net/attachments/enjoy-rape-png.18817/
 
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