@Chiliarch
"Also, how do you expect them to address their sexuality exactly? What does religion have to do with this? Homosexuality is just one of the crosses people are called on to bear. Sure it sucks, but you do not get to choose your battles. I genuinely do not understand this thought that you have to either choose religion OR therapy to address your problems."
I am speculating based off the anecdotal observations of an outsider while also adding my perspectives as a gay, married, man. If you don't understand the concept of religious guilt or small town small talk religiously dense rural cities, I understand why you wouldn't understand. It is like conservatives/republicans/centrists/business owners and normal people wanting to be the "silent majority" during the Summer Of Love. Fear. You live in a house or community that says your feelings for the same gender is sinful and you'll burn in hell. Fear. What do you do when you're afraid and told that God is the answer? You turn to God or even the military; why not, you're already good at hiding your homosexuality why not join the military. Regardless of the psychological screening for priesthood, which essentially means nothing since it is clear that a worrying amount of psychologists openly attempting to groom children into transitioning. In addition to that, priesthood or not, we are just humans; imperfect beings.
"This somehow feels wrong but I cannot put my finger on it. I wonder, is the difference between pedophilia and homosexuality really so clear cut?"
You've lost me completely.