Growing up really does suck

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YHWH's Strongest Soldier said:
@skykiii Come back to this thread when you actually grow up, OP. All your posts make you seem like a whiny faggot.

Also, imagine peaking as a toddler. That's fucking grim, OP.
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I do love people like yourself who see someone who has actual human thoughts and feelings and isn't afraid of expressing them, and how it must make you dickhurt and jealous because you have to always pretend to be this badass dudebro who shields himself behind ten layers of detached irony lest you be crushed by.... I didn't psychoanalyze that far.

What I do know is that whenever people have this kind of over-the-top angry reaction to a thread that isn't even remotely edgelord or attempting to get a rise out of people but is mostly just one guy being sadbrained, it means I said something that made you uncomfortable, like maybe I hit too close to the truth and you know it.
 
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People with small, weak minds have no choice but to think about other things than sex and drug addiction before becoming an adult and having what little prefrontal cortex there is smothered. Next thing you know they're gooning to envy from fullmetal alchemist while pissing solid rocks from drinking 3 cans of monster daily
 
skykiii said:
I do love people like yourself who see someone who has actual human thoughts and feelings and isn't afraid of expressing them, and how it must make you dickhurt and jealous because you have to always pretend to be this badass dudebro who shields himself behind ten layers of detached irony lest you be crushed by.... I didn't psychoanalyze that far.

What I do know is that whenever people have this kind of over-the-top angry reaction to a thread that isn't even remotely edgelord or attempting to get a rise out of people but is mostly just one guy being sadbrained, it means I said something that made you uncomfortable, like maybe I hit too close to the truth and you know it.
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I called you a faggot because you seem immature enough to be bothered by it. In all seriousness, being called a faggot should not make you cry about your feelings not being respected.
 
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I hated being a kid, I was aware pretty early of how nobody takes me seriously or really listens to me because I'm a kid. I'm glad that's over.

My dad put enough cynicism in me to not expect happiness from a job, it's just how I feed myself and keep a roof over my head, and I'm happy to treat it that way. I'll never become a CEO with this attitude but I don't give a shit, my work-life balance is heavily shifted towards life, and I think I'm happier than many of my peers for this reason.

I also prioritised romantic relationships quite early, I always wanted to find a person I can spend my life with and always be confident she will listen and help me stay happy, and likewise I for her. It took a couple of failed relationships but each one made me realise something significant about relationships that I didn't realise previously, you need a couple of failed ones for this reason, lest you end up like Anisa's husband.

You need to come to your own realisations and opinions for each facet of adult life, an outlook that suits you and allows you to be happy and enrich the lives of those close to you. What exactly that outlook is is different to everyone. I've told you mine, but there's no guarantee it would be good for you.

Nobody is going to give you that light bulb moment or fix your life for you, it has to come from yourself and your own experiences. Be honest with yourself and take a constructive approach (no "boohoo woe is me" self pitying), be the boss of your own life and turn it in to the life you want, as best you can. The longer you spend lamenting your life, the more it starts to seem like you have no intention of making it better. Don't be surprised when other posters start getting frustrated and calling you faggot after a while.
 
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If you're stubborn enough and clever enough, you can tell the authority figures you have as an adult to politely go fuck themselves, on the other hand you can tell the people who used to tell you what to do as a kid to outright go fuck themselves. Believe me, being able to say "No" to people who aren't used to it with them being able to do nothing but pout is mentally liberating.
 
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The Secret Sauce said:
>doesn't fulfill the biological imperative
>becomes progressively miserable as he ages
Many such cases!
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This is literally a repeat of something someone said on either page one or two.

Okay, but what happens if someone fulfills this "biological imperative" and nothing gets better? Which I'm given to understand happens way more often than not, despite what the manosphere says. Heck I've had friends who do get married and have kids and now they're way worse off than me.
 
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skykiii said:
This is literally a repeat of something someone said on either page one or two.

Okay, but what happens if someone fulfills this "biological imperative" and nothing gets better? Which I'm given to understand happens way more often than not, despite what the manosphere says. Heck I've had friends who do get married and have kids and now they're way worse off than me.
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As someone who is unhappy in life and yearns to be a child again, your opinions about living a happy life are irrelevant.
 
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The Secret Sauce said:
As someone who is unhappy in life and yearns to be a child again, your opinions about living a happy life are irrelevant.
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Love that I had an actual direct question that you chose to avoid answering. Something tells me you're aware your argument has a lot of bullshit but are unwilling to confront it.

To repeat, the question was "what happens if I fulfill this 'biological imperative' but it doesn't change anything?"

(Also I didn't present opinions. I presented reasoning and examples)
 
skykiii said:
Love that I had an actual direct question that you chose to avoid answering. Something tells me you're aware your argument has a lot of bullshit but are unwilling to confront it.
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Yeah, why would I answer your retarded questions? What's going to happen if I don't? I didn't come here to be your life coach, you mopey faggot. Nor did I come here to engage in some gay ass debate where we put forth "arguments" and screech about logical fallacies or whatever you reddit niggers do. I came here to laugh at a sad manchild fantasizing about being an actual child.
 
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What's going to happen if I don't?
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It greatly reduces the credibility of everything you say, for one thing.

I mean, that you sound like you're just parroting some manosphere bullshit and trying hard to convince yourself that getting laid automatically fixes all life's problems, and now you're trying to weasel out of a discussion you invited, already makes me think you're just a dog-brained tard.

My guess is you'll never fulfill the "biological imperative" because you repel women.
 
skykiii said:
It greatly reduces the credibility of everything you say, for one thing.

I mean, that you sound like you're just parroting some manosphere bullshit and trying hard to convince yourself that getting laid automatically fixes all life's problems, and now you're trying to weasel out of a discussion you invited, already makes me think you're just a dog-brained tard.

My guess is you'll never fulfill the "biological imperative" because you repel women.
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Oh FUCK, I'd better start citing my sources and going point-for-point with you in this serious debate. I can't bear the thought of losing credibility in this dead Autistic Thunderdome thread!!
Getting laid doesn't fix all of life's problems. Finding a quality woman to bear your children will certainly help. It's gonna be damned hard for you to do so if you're actively fantasizing about being a child, though. Good luck!
 
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The Secret Sauce said:
Oh FUCK, I'd better start citing my sources and going point-for-point with you in this serious debate. I can't bear the thought of losing credibility in this dead Autistic Thunderdome thread!!
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A thread that you chose to revive, and then you started trying to back out like a little bitch the minute you got confronted.

Try being less of a bitch nigger next time.

The Secret Sauce said:
Getting laid doesn't fix all of life's problems. Finding a quality woman to bear your children will certainly help.
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How about you come back and report results once you've actually done it yourself?
 
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I'm not super nostalgic for my childhood but I do sometimes wonder what my younger self would think of my current self, career, and life choices. At the end of the day it doesn't really matter since you can't change the past and you can't go back to how things used to be. Instead you have to find happiness and live in the moment, even if things suck right now you can still impact and change your future.
 
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