Probably a good idea, though the number of places you can do that is somewhat limited and bars are usually about the same as dating sites. Really though it's a volume game as it's a matter of finding the small handful of people that have similar enough goals and ideology to make the relationship work long term, then working it out from there. That pool of people can be depressingly small though.
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That's because online dating is largely women looking to gain some stability and settle down. They'll be late 20s to mid 30s, likely with a kid in tow yet will have rather high expectations for a potential partner. The reasons why are better left to another thread. I wish you luck in finding a good date, maybe you'll find yourself a unicorn.
I'm just surprised that so few women who are well adjusted want to settle down, or maybe there's a bunch but they've probably just found a partner already, though you'd think women would be more future oriented but a lot seem like they're looking for hook ups on dating sites. There are still a couple that do seem reasonable so maybe there will be some luck there.
I think you've got a good idea on it. Plenty do look to the future, plan for it, and look for a partner. Might've already found one, have a prospective one, or what have you. May not have a lot of overlap with the people doing online dating. Sadly I haven't ever seen Online dating work out well at all. It was a mess early in its existence and its only gotten worse.
I've known a couple people for who it worked out and I remember a long time ago using it and it wasn't too bad, though back then you could send a message and the other person would just get the message so it was easier to communicate and get to know them better. Today it's all about matching and they don't see the message unless other things happen, and you have likes that you can't see unless you pay some absurd amount which doesn't even make sense as if you saw those people and didn't like them organically why would you pay to see people who like you but you don't like back? Just seems like the whole process has become very abrasive to the user and made it much more of a grind.
Meanwhile they don't get that men on dating sites are more or less just looking for a slam pig, not a mate.
Clay Puppington body pillow? Guess some people really want to perform Immoral Oral on a drunken closet-case clay man.
They love birdseed. Seems like every day, I'm throwing stuff and yelling at squirrels to keep them out of my bird feeders.
Used to have a birdfeeder, I remember the struggle. Have you tried mixing capsacian into the seeds? The spice will deter the squirrels, but birds not being mammals are largely unaffected by it. That was pretty much the only thing that finally got them to stop destroying all my birdfeeders.
I put cayenne pepper on and around the pole they someone manage to climb, but it didn't really work. They still would climb it and get to the seeds. Maybe I'll try what you said.
If you've got a plan for the future and you're staying focused, you're doing better than a lot of people out there. Do you do any recreational job interviews? Good positions are hard to find and they get snapped up fast, so if you want to move up you have to be willing to keep throwing your line out even if you're got a steady job already.
