There's no need to help them because they're almost certainly doomed to fall.
Radical islamism is a relatively recent concept (60-70 years IIRC), but IMO it "tainted" the Middle East by painting it in a retrograde light and is slowly gaining ground, not with their ideology, but because they claim that the West is responsible for all their troubles. Considering a lot of the current conflicts their can be traced to the Cold War...
Currently,
- A lot of countries that have at best a decent level of life, at worst are shitholes due to harsh conditions and conflict.
- A few "topdogs" that got here due to a lot of help from a superpower due to strategic importance (Israel) or petrodollars (Emirates, Saudi Arabia).
I don't include Turkey in the mix because they're the "wild card" and play on all sides of the game, what with being NATO and at the same time supposedly dealing with ISIS to get their stolen oil.
Once oil runs dry, all bets are off. The US has the whole region as buddies save for Syria, but as soon as oil is taken out, they will take their ball home and act as if they never knew anyone around these parts save for Israel due to their military power and their nuclear capacity. You don't leave a guy with nukes alone.
This will rile up more extremists who will target then the closest money supply : the oil nations. Sure, they will fight back, but without US support and prefering death over asking the local powerhouse (Israel) for help, they will at best turn into ruthless theocracies, at worst fall down unless Russia or China decides to help them in exchange for some sweet money. My money's more on Russia, China still doesn't dare do more than saber rattling out of fear of getting NATO involved.
Qatar got clever by starting to put their money in something else than oil in order to not be SOL when the wells will run dry, but they are seen as sellouts to the greedy Occidentals.
An Arab Enlightenment to shove away their current Dark Ages and become a powerful civilization (because yes, they were quite ahead in terms of culture and science in the Middle Ages) is possible, but in the current state of things, only by wiping the slate clean.