there's no magic bullet for this sort of thing. just put yourself in social situations that involve women. as an asspie you likely have some catch-up work to do on developing your social skills, especially at the tender age of 22, so just socializing in general will help a lot with building the charisma you need to attract the type of person you want. also, my brother, you need to take this next piece of advice very seriously: do not assume that a relationship is the best cure, or even a valid cure, for your loneliness. even a good relationship is often as much give as it is take, and a bad woman can exploit your loneliness to drag you down into a very miserable place. many women are expert emotional manipulators, it comes to them subconsciously, it's not a bug or a failing on their part, that's just how people are in general and women tend to develop emotional intelligence much more easily than men. that means that any emotional weakness you have is a potential downfall that can be used against you. that's not to say you shouldn't give it a shot, you should always try shit, especially when you're young. mistakes are how you learn. but be aware of the risks. personally, after barely surviving several extremely bad relationships, I find that I get more companionship out of my male friends than I ever did from any of the women I almost ruined my life for.
