Off-Topic I'm Michael Sandell- Ask me almost anything about ADF

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Why does Phil feel like he needs to carry around 30 pounds of bondage gear?

Fuck if I know. I think something about how she ties herself up cuz she likes the stimuli.

Do you think ADF will ever find employment? Does ADF have any real-world skills?

Yes but her personality gets in the way. For example she could be a transit guide if she could be trusted to not scream at the straight white cis men who would get on her bus.

@tweaker the cat

Will you please ask Ahuyvia how she knew that the person who was kicked off the bus was cis? Thank you

She didn't and this is a thing she does that really bugs me.
 
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She didn't and this is a thing she does that really bugs me.

Okay, honestly now, what does she do that doesn't really bug you? Other than "my only friend ever," which a number of people here have offered to help remedy in a variety of ways, I'm not seeing what you're getting out of this friendship at all.
 
Not for her. For her mom. I know ahuviya is too far gone in your eyes but the way you talk about her mom bugs me.

What have people here said about Phil's mom that bugs you? When she's mentioned, it's usually along the lines of "Phil hit her before" and/or "That poor woman". Stuff sympathetic people would say.
 
Maybe. It's not impossible.

"Maybe" isn't a "yes". It means that you have significant doubts that ADF would go to your defense in a supposed time of need, yet you're not willing to commit to that truth due to your obvious emotional attachment.

Look, kid, you're being used. You've been used since day one, and the moment you stop being useful (which could be very, VERY soon) ADF will throw you under the bus. Same as John, same as his mother. You're not playing exactly to Phil's tune, and now you're expendable.

You can either accept that fact now or learn it the hard way when ADF throws you under the proverbial bus. We'd all prefer to see a crisis averted, but your fate is in your hands.
 
"Maybe" isn't a "yes". It means that you have significant doubts that ADF would go to your defense in a supposed time of need, yet you're not willing to commit to that truth due to your obvious emotional attachment.

Look, kid, you're being used. You've been used since day one, and the moment you stop being useful (which could be very, VERY soon) ADF will throw you under the bus. Same as John, same as his mother. You're not playing exactly to Phil's tune, and now you're expendable.

You can either accept that fact now or learn it the hard way when ADF throws you under the proverbial bus. We'd all prefer to see a crisis averted, but your fate is in your hands.

It kind of reminds me of Chloe/Rani's relationship.
 
Same as John, same as his mother.

Kory. Dusty. The lesbians she was living with during Occupy. Literally everyone else who has ever agreed to date her. And that's just who I know she has actively screwed over as payment for being nice and/or worrying about her. I get that she finds soft-hearted people to prey on, but (as far as she claimed at the time, anyway), Dusty literally (in the real meaning of the word literally, not like "literally murdered") saved Ahuviya's life and was repaid by a death threat. That is where caring about Ahuviya leads to. You either mindlessly bootlick every psychotic thing that comes out of her mouth, or she turns on you.

That. Is. Not. A. Friend.
 
Fuck if I know. I think something about how she ties herself up cuz she likes the stimuli.

This actually kinda makes sense, considering the autism diagnosis. It's taken to an absurd degree because when dosen't Phil take something to absurdity.

What saddens me is Phil is more and more looking to be a product of a lack of early intervention and support services. Especially in light of the letter from his mom discussing the difficulty she had in getting any help.

While I can't say with 100% certainty that early intervention and support services would have prevented Ahuviya...they very likely could've done some good.
 
Okay, real talk: your comment about "reverse racism" was not a reply to us accusing ADF of discriminating against white people. It was in response to someone bringing up ADF's pro-genocide stance. Why are you okay with that? Do you brush off genocides like Bosnia or Armenia with cute little quips about "reverse racism" because they involve white people?

Bringing up Mama ADF's (alleged) forgiveness is not a response to our concerns about ADF's violence. We don't have to forgive him. And considering that the only aspect of his identity that isn't a complete fabrication is his belief that men and non-transgendered people owe him something for their hypothetical violence, the fact that he is a male-presenting person who admits to violence is something that cannot be ignored.

If your stories are true then things like preventing you from going to a shelter while homeless also call ADF's character into question. But I don't understand your timeline here. A short time ago you were a 17-year old homeless kid engaged to ADF (but he never mentioned that despite obsessing over/stalking his other targets), then you got to the point where you are "staff" working with "autistic individuals from pre-school through age 24." Despite having an adult job, you are in some sort of living situation that sounds like a dorm. And here's the kicker: you sound like you're versed in SJ and have activist leanings, but from your very first post you're defending his Rachel Dolezal-style ethnicity hoax?

I'm not sure I buy the "oh I don't have friends" line either; ADF has plenty of people he calls friends, and if you're close enough that you were engaged, then you're saying they'll put up with ADF but not you?
 
Well yeah. She's the only friend I have IRL.

I think that's the saddest thing I've ever heard.

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