is user @cyclonus fat and covered in doodoo and also possibly dying?

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What happened on mumsnet?

I lurk the feminists boards there, trying to ignore the man hating, just to see if they raise any legitimate issues. They talked about a common male mentality that might be be putting their daughters in danger. I wasn't sure if they were right but it concerned me so I raised it here. Big mistake. Don't post when you're not fully there.
First time literally not showing up. But it was severely bad before. I'm practically begging people to help me not coming.
I'm sorry to hear that, man. It's just as bad here in the states, from what I've gathered talking to people who work as providers. People who show up pull double duty because a bunch of chucklefucks decide they don't wanna do their job, and the companies are so short-staffed, they don't want to fire the people who selectively do their job.

The pay is shit, so the staff act shitty, and that ends up affecting the end user. I hear about it all the time and it's maddening.
 
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Well you look young for your age, look on the bright side, the avoidance of UV has been very positive for skin health ;)
Find a doctor you can call over the phone or at the very least email. There are professionals who can help you.
The whole of the Uk mental health infrastructure is in on its knees. Even people in serious crisis as in a threat to themselves or others are being stabilised and streeted. You can’t just call a doctor, it’s Friday night and everything’s shut. Your GP will open the lines for ten minutes at 8 am Monday, and you’ll probably get an appointment in three weeks and they don’t do acute mental health, they’d send you to A and E. shit is bad here, it’s probably the same in Ireland
A and E is the only option for acute mental care at the weekend and @Cyclonus please go there (get a cab) if you feel things breaking.
Otherwise , stand up, go take a shower. Clean clothes on.
Find the dullest most elderly thing you can on the telly and watch it
Try to sleep
Get emergency help if you find things going sideways.
 
Dude are you getting the whole nobody's going to help me thing yet? Anything you've suggest I've already tried. They are literally leaving me to die. You think that sounds crazy ask Otterly she talk me her family experienced the same thing.
I see, I'm sorry about that.
Though I highly doubt that there's no one who can help you. Even if the europoor public healthcare isn't, surely with that 93k you could afford a private doctor.
I'm going to have to bow out to watch youtube for a bit too overwhelmed. Back when calm.
Good, you need to calm down. I hope you can find help man.
 
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Not dude. Not a druggie. One thing going for me.
Good to hear. Honestly I've looked far worse in the mirror on bad days, but I do manage to shave. Hang in there. Get rest and start calling again to local places if you need help. It's just not possible for anyone on here to come directly I'm sure.
 
Not dude. Not a druggie. One thing going for me.
Why don't you give the name and/or number of the agency that employs the people who are supposed to be taking care of you to a kiwi you trust so they can call them? A lot of times when those places get outside people on their ass they get worried about being held accountable and will actually help more.
 
First time literally not showing up. But it was severely bad before. I'm practically begging people to help me not coming.
Gonna give you the benefit of the doubt that this is real, or you'd not have selfied publicly. (which was stupid btw, glad you redacted it.)

You are stronger then you imagine. I have a mother in an 'assisted living' home now. She was at the time of her massive sudden breakdown with vascular dementia completely hospitalized and not figured to be able to care for herself (or remember much of anything) in any capacity but with a massive adjustment to her meds (gp was literally killing her with the amount of insulin she was getting) and a little TLC and physical therapy she recovered 95% of her marbles and her mobility, though she is mostly wheelchair bound she was upgraded first to long-term care, and then to a standard 'assisted living' old folks home. Because she wanted it.

You can absolutely do it too. You have a much easier path then she had to take.

Once this immediate crisis is taken care of, press for (and persist for) a re-evaluation of your meds and your care level. Get the best meds but the least care that you can survive on, and start MAKING yourself live a bit ore and more each day. That also means getting the fuck off the Internet for any more then 2-3 hours a day. Turn towards yourself, not the lives of lolcows.

GL fam, and don't blow this off and say "I can't, my situation is hopless, I can't do it!" You can - if you want to.
 
Glad he didn't off himself. I saw the photo before he deleted it, and I have to say, I was expecting so much worse based on how he was talking in the previous thread. That's no deathfat level. Room isn't that terrible either, looks like a 15 minute clean up job. He can definitely recover from this and turn his life around, after he gets stabilized.

Also, I know everyone likes to shit on the American healthcare system (rightfully so) but the more I learn about other countries the more I'm grateful our healthcare isn't complete and total garbage (yet).
 
Lost in dreamworld dsydreing otherwise. Holodeck innerspace.
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He can definitely recover from this and turn his life around, after he gets stabilized.
He can clean his room, cut his hair and lose that fat but I think his brain is fucked beyond help.
 
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