I'll bet Bibi still falls to his knees on occasion, thanking God that he's free of that toxic behemoth..
You ever wonder what it would be like for an obese person if, just for an hour, you magically lifted all the excess weight off their bodies all at once, like removing 200-250lbs of sandbags from them that they’d been carrying for years? How light would they feel? Would they be dizzy from how fast and easily they can move? How much
breathing comes naturally now? Would they be overjoyed they could now run and jump and twirl? Would they feel practically superhuman from the difference, like they could almost fly?
I bet Bibi feels like that a lot lately. Someone lifted 400+ lbs of sandbags off him and now he can finally breathe.
"One of everything with everything on it. And a diet soda. gotta keep my girlish figure." --rocko's modern life
Chantal walks into a restaurant and says “I’ll have what I’m having.” Whatever it is, bring two of it.
It’s a common deathfat delusion that a better life is just around the corner, that one day something will click in their brain and all of their problems will be gone.
The reality is that most people will never lose weight, just as most drunks will never go sober or most losers won’t suddenly wake up and turn into overachieving workaholics. The odds of permanent weight loss are terrible. The vast majority of people regain all of the weight relatively quickly. Many gain more than what they weighed before their weight loss.
There are many reasons for this. Besides the most obvious ones, I think a big issue is that weight loss just doesn’t live up to their expectations. People like Chantal expect big things to happen after they lose weight. They think the haters will shit themselves from jealousy, that men will throw themselves at their feet, that all of their problems will be gone. It’s not gonna happen. You’ll be just another normal person. The average thin person isn’t attractive or successful or even happy. There is no reason why an ex-fatty would be those things solely because they managed to shed some lard. All of their mental issues and insecurities will still be there. They’ll still be lazy and just as stupid. All that changes is their body composition.
Physically, weight loss won’t be a magic pill. Sure, it’s easier to be active with less lard to carry around, but it won’t suddenly make you fit. You have to work your ass off for that just like everyone else. Many of the health issues caused by obesity can’t really be fixed. Weight loss is more about stopping the damage instead of fixing it.
At the end of the mythical weight loss journey, you’re just gonna be the same person you were before, just as unpopular, awkward, and dumb. All that’s gonna change is that you’ll have lose skin instead of fat. And you still won’t be able to run a marathon or probably even a 5K. You’ll embark on a fitness journey, a s plastic surgery journey. At the end of them all, you’ll just be another regular Joe and the world won’t give a single shit about you or your journeys.
You’ll go back to eating your existential pain away and gain everything back.
Yeah, the key lies in asking an obese person, “why do you want to lose weight?”
If the answer is “to be skinnier and more attractive, to fit into X size dress finally, to get more dates...and uh I guess be healthier or whatever,” they will likely fail to either lose or keep the weight off.
If the answer is, “because my current lifestyle is unsustainable, it’s killing me, I feel tired and in pain a lot and I want to live a healthier, more active life and live longer,” they will have a far better chance of taking the weight off and keeping it off, because they’re planning to make a change to their
life, not just their dress/suit size.
It’s like asking an alcoholic why they want to get sober. If they answer “because my life is a wreck and I’m killing myself and I need to change,” that’s a good indicator of potential success. Not guarantees, but potential.
If they answer “because I need to pass a sobriety test to get this job,” well fuck. They aren’t staying sober a minute longer than they have to be.
That’s what the diet industry is like. People try to get sober for a month, doing mad things like drinking no liquids at all, or only drinking celery juice, or drinking alcohol-free vodka-flavoured substitutes....or they do sober up proper, but then expect to go back to drinking themselves under the table every night and still stay sober.
Then they conclude that getting sober just doesn’t work and some people were just naturally meant to be alcoholics.