Shugo
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- Feb 4, 2015
Alison is the one who pushed him into doing that at first, and the reason why he tried to become a coach is, in his own words, because of how hard it was for him at first and he wished he had someone to coach him so he wanted to offer people what he didn't have
For anyone that missed Jake's defense of polyamory, the rough outline is, Jake and Alison were dating, Ali was right out of an engagement (likely from cheating on her fiance), Ali cheated on Jake, they "talked about it" and he finally accepted polyamory for "both of them."
To me, this sounds like Jake was cheated on by Ali, and being desperate for the best girl he's had in his life, he decides to accept her cheating as long as she tells Jake about it.
It reminds me of that one column by a literal cuckold who sleeps alone at night in his house with his children, and his wife slips into bed at 2AM, whispering into her husbands ear all about how her lover ravaged her earlier that night. As long as you tell your partner about it, cheating is just labeled polyamory and you accept it because you're desperate for this person not to leave you.
Here's the quote:
Relationships before - serially monogamous but cheated. Enter Alison, fresh out of her engagement. She also cheated. We talked about it. Decided at some point e'd probably want to fuck other people and left it at that. Talked about it every so often until actually pulling the trigger.
Is my life easier/happier? I'm happy she's in my life, she's actually a very cool person (good luck getting Farms to beleive so). Definitely not easy though, BPD is a bitch.
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