Ahh yes, I remember when I transitioned to male, I messaged so many friends messages like "Wow, I really thought when i went to the change room, I would see dicks and balls everywhere. Do guys usually walk around the change room with erections? Is it weird to look for the stiffy? What do I do if I pop wood while I'm in there - is it weird to ask someone to help me with my boner? What do I do if I'm in a bathroom full of 10 year old boys and someone pops his first boner? How do I explain it to him? Do I help him take care of it?" These are all perfectly normal questions to ask about your sex change.
i'm being facetious i'm still the gender i was born
I remember as a cis woman when I had anxiety as a teen about using a public changing room at school. All I could think was “how many titties will I get to see? Will everyone be going bottomless and I’ll see PUSSY, a word girls definitely use, or will I just get to see panties? I expect there will be lots of girls with their boobs hanging out and I will see said boobs. How should I bond with the other girls? Wait for them to get totally naked and then bend over and try to find a tampon string hanging out of their PUSSIES, then loudly point OUT that they have a tampon inserted into their PUSSIES and I’m looking at it because that’s a normal thing women do?”
Seems like only yesterday.
The funny thing is, for all his weak defences that he was “nervous about being attacked” or spotted or what the hell ever,
he never considers how he would look. If you’re nervous about changing rooms or bathrooms, it’s because you’re nervous about how YOU look to others. “Will there be a place I can change privately? Do I need my own locker padlock? Are there private showers available that I can use? Can I bring a bathrobe? Do they supply towels here?”
All he asks is how other women will be dressed in locker rooms and how naked they might get, not how he should dress or what he should cover up. He seems to not care at all about how he’s seen, only cares about WHAT he may get to see.
Similarly, in the bathroom-tampon scenarios, he asks if “other girls” ever change outside the stalls, what little girls do in there, etc. the focus is entirely on the actions of others, not himself. Even in his “what if a little girl asks me for a tampon” fucking absurd scenario (what little girl who has NEVER used a tampon before would ask for one from a stranger? She’d be much more likely to use a pad, if anything), he never even considers saying “sorry I don’t have one” and walking away. Because he’s not trying to avoid awkward situations like he claims, he’s trying to encourage them and then wanking to the idea of it.
His questions belie the fact that he doesn’t give a fuck how others will see him or “attack” him, he just wants to know what kind of goodies he can expect to see. He doesn’t sound the least self-conscious or anxious.