Message To All Of The TFL'ers
Kent introduces himself and says he's got to say something, that something is this : So you can know and understand I'm not the type of guy to ask for advice or be giving advice, but the reason I said a sub of mine, asked in PM I'll read it " Hey Kent I'm a major TFLer I hope you can help" He wants advice. I'm not a TFLer anymore.
He's going through True Forced Loneliness that's TFL. I don't give advice, that's not me. I'll try to help, I'm Kent Try. All I can do is try. All I can say is try. Kent pauses to drink, it's hard cider it's hard cider not beer, cider. Like I was saying, you gotta, try. All you can do all anyone can do in this life. In dating and stuff, just try. If you want a woman that bad put yourself out there.
I wanted a woman and at time I was being rejected over and over. I thought about giving up. I'm Kent Try. I try. I try hard Anything I want I try. It's not just my name. Not just me. Just try. Put yourself out there. If you want a woman gotta try and talk to woman, go to a place where you can meet women. Places I list are not the perfect places but it's a place. Like the mall, Library, baseball game met women there sporting events books stores malls.
There are women there just talk to them. Just be you, all you can be is you. Need to be someone you aren't that's fake and phony. Be trying. All I did was just try just try. I just put myself out there man. I really I saw someone I liked so I walked up to her. I said what was on my mind (well this story changed, again) I asked for her # to see if I wanted to know her. She gave me her number. She did it. Because, she just did it. You might, I put it this way, you may get 10 no but one yes. Ten to twenty no's to a yes. Someone will like you for you. I think it. I thought I was going to be alone but I told myself I gotta keep trying someone will like me for me.
I tried and tried, what helped me was having a job. Job I work at has women I see a lot. It helped me out. For you if you don't have a job and are unemployed I suggest get a job. Where women are at. If you do talk to the women at work, just talk to them. If things go well ask for her number to get to know her. Don't beat around the bush, just do it like Nike. Just do it.
Just try, all you can do in in this life I try, I try hard at everything in life. I found someone. You gotta try. All you can do is try. All you can do. You know ? Talk to women if women reject you, then their loss. Move on. Just move on if rejected. Someone will say yes to you. No one met everyone, someone will say yes and give you time of day. Someone will date you.
Someone out there will want to have sex with you. Spent time with you and that stuff, a woman will do that. You just gotta find her, she's out there. She is out there keep looking and trying. I don't know how many times I gotta keep saying it. Gotta keep trying, gotta keep trying. You know? I can't give advice to people mostly people give it to me. You asked so that's why I'm doing this.
I'm trying to help you best way I can. In any event though, I'm just just try you have to try don't give up or quit. John Cena says this. You want a woman that bad want a woman that bad you want a relationship and sex that bad. You gotta try, all you can do is try. Just try. They call me Kent Try because I try. I try hard at what I want. Goes to all the TFLer it's not directed to just you.
I'm not the kinda guy to give advice, I'm not. you gotta try. It's for all people who are dealing with TFL. It doesn't hurt to try. If you get rejected you gotta say at least I tried I had the balls to tell a woman how I felt, give yourself credit you tried. I mean sitting around and talking about not getting women and that stuff. That won't do good. You gotta go out and take action. Go out and do it. Go talk to women ask for their #.
There's where I went all those TFLers not sure if you consider me a TFLer anymore. I just tried, all I can do I tried. How I got a woman I tried, just tried. It's what I did. That's how to fix it. To all you TFLers just try. Just try and you'll fix it. You gotta try if you are fat skinny tall or short a woman has to. She has to. One woman will. One woman will who will give you time of day one woman will. It's how to fix it, just try. Just try.
That's it. But um, thank you. Thank you for asking me that. Sending your PM I won't put your name out there, Im' not the kinda guy to give advice take my word. I'm not that guy I'm last guy to ask for advice (preach) you did ask, so try. I tried to give advice I tried. I'm Kent Try. I try. It's all I can do is try. It doesn't hurt to try.
But um, anyways, all I gotta say man. To all the guys, just try just sitting around not talking to women won't get you one. Ask women questions thats how to get them. I try not to, you know? Let's put it this way, I try not to well lets this think postitive not negative, I used to be a TFLer and struggle and look at me, I found someone. (mother fuka you went on one date and that's a maybe.) I spent years talking down and calling myself bad names every name in the book. I tried, I try. I did that.
I really wanted a woman that bad and I tried. I was really sick of being suffering TFL I was so tired of TFL. Being left out and not having a girl. Now I have kissed a girl. I'm good. I have my depression it didn't fix my problems I feel better about myself. Another thing, yea try to go to events go to sports events if you like sports. Talk to people. You might meet people do what you like to do. Find events you might meet a woman and talk to her and she might like same things.
You were at same event you feel me? Same event together. Gotta try. Don't just sit around gotta go out and try to talk to women got to. You got to. All I got to say my battery is dying in the cam corder. That's my advice to TFLers just try. Just try if you want a woman if you get rejected. KEEP TRYING keep trying proves you aren't a quitter and don't give up. Keep trying. All I got to say.
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Kent knows women now
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Fuck me his use of the word try has driven me to a point I want to hurt myself. Honestly we know he repeats a lot but this is just beat a dead horse. It's painful.
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@HickoryDickory said Kent is now saying what we've told the kid for years. Sadly with Kent being immature he's not aware there is no club for yes I've kissed a girl. He's also not aware sure, that's something in common he has with a large majority of the adult male population, that's where his common experiences end. He's no one different the only thing that changes he got over his phobia he felt he has some scarlet V on his forehead.
I'm glad he's seeing he caused his issues the most. It's not easy to look in the mirror and do this. How deep it really sunk in we won't know. What does worry me how attached he is to this girl. He broke out of TFL he got his date ok, now he said he's past rejection, so... on to the next one, a girl who wants the same stuff you do. Either this girl is not into you for you or her mental health is so bad she's sadly not going to make anyone a good mate. Kent acts like he's full of confidence and self aware now, so do it. Drop the dead weight. you can cut ties cleanly heck you don't even have to worry about giving her the coat she left at your place back.
Kent didn't seem drunk in the video but he rarely drinks, I wonder how much that effected the seriously painful over use of "try" I'll put it this way, next time I hear that word out loud I'll probably strike a co worker. Lastly I wonder if it was a troll or not asking Kent for advice.