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Hehe that's okay. This is where I will differ from you guys because I think surgery is a worthy pursuit depending on if you are really bothered by how you look and if you have realistic expectations.

My quality of life is much better now, it's been well worth the money. My confidence improved dramatically and more women are interested in me.

What would your reasons be for thinking that it's not worth it?
You sound wack as fuck saying all of this. Never make it on the block, bruv
 
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LOL well yeah it does sound autistic but to be fair it's the names of the bones. It's pretty much always going to sound strange saying things like "maxilla" and "hyoid" outside of a medical setting.

I don't need the hyoid surgery myself, but I have had stuff done. I finished with surgery over a year ago and I like my face now. Before surgery I was very depressed about how my face looked and it affected my confidence and quality of life as a result. I didn't feel like I was just ugly, I felt that I was deformed to the point where people would notice and stare. Through school I got a few comments about certain features. This didn't happen often, I think maybe five times in my school life, but each time it really hit home and stuck with me and I can still clearly remember each incident. Since I fixed what I still believe were huge deformities I've just been working on my physique.

I roll with a similar crowd in my day to day life. Not internet geeks like I am, but people who are a bit vain, with some of them having had surgery too or at least considering it. If you look at England you will see that the culture of vanity there is becoming extremely common. It might even be the majority of young people in England depending on which area you visit. Look at Essex as an example. Watch this trend spread through the rest of the world.
Power level before, we all have dysphoria or dysphmorphia in relation to the way we look. I'm not Alogging, but I hope you are seeing a therapist just because even though you are happy now you could run into a bump in the road and looks don't last forever. I hope everything goes well for you.
 
Power level before, we all have dysphoria or dysphmorphia in relation to the way we look. I'm not Alogging, but I hope you are seeing a therapist just because even though you are happy now you could run into a bump in the road and looks don't last forever. I hope everything goes well for you.

Thank you. I do sometimes wonder if I feel worse about my appearance because it's me, and wonder what I'd think if I was someone else and passed myself on the street. There are some pictures I have with friends which have surprised me because I thought I was the ugliest by far or that I looked like an alien beside them, but then I post the picture online without saying which one I am and get rated the highest of the group.

I have spent time thinking about what I will do about aging. I think once your looks run out you kind of have to be married or you just spend the rest of your days having a boring, lonely life. When I see married couples with children it seems like they have great lives even in old age, but the same time, I really hate the thought of a lifelong relationship. I also don't think I'm the type of person anybody would want to spend their lives with.
 
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Power level before, we all have dysphoria or dysphoria in relation to the way we look. I'm not Alogging, but I hope you are seeing a therapist just because even though you are happy now you could run into a bump in the road and looks don't last forever. I hope everything goes well for you.
Thank you. I do sometimes wonder if I feel worse about my appearance because it's me, and wonder what I'd think if I was someone else and passed myself on the street. There are some pictures I have with friends which have surprised me because I thought I was the ugliest by far or that I looked like an alien beside them, but then I post the picture online without saying which one I am and get rated the highest of the group.

I have spent time thinking about what I will do about aging. I think once your looks run out you kind of have to be married or you just spend the rest of your days having a boring, lonely life. When I see married couples with children it seems like they have great lives even in old age, but the same time, I really hate the thought of a lifelong relationship. I also don't think I'm the type of person anybody would want to spend their lives with.
That's very sad, but yes, even if you were in another body that was 100 percent perfect in reference to how attractive it was, you'd probably still feel the same way. It's very difficult to accept yourself in today's culture, you have ugly to average women escaping their boring lives to be blow up dolls, e.g., Kim Kardashian, you have men escaping their boring lives to get attention e.g., Bruce/Caitlyn Jenner, all of this sends a terrible message to even people who don't have low self-esteem issues.
As far as aging goes, if you're a heterosexual male, you're very lucky, women like attractive men, but being average to a middle aged is not a deal breaker. Just be thankful you did not go on to be full cow by getting a second penis and three pecks, or worse, you could have gone on to look something like Justin Jedlica.
 
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They are now complaining about their parents trying to avoid them becoming druggies in middle school
http://lookism.net/Thread-Where-doe...hat-average-men-dont-have-sex-It-needs-to-die
complaining about normies
Been a while since I looked at these mongs, good to see nothing's changed, they're still using bullshit made up ratings systems and buzzwords to explain away their lack of high quality puss. It's almost refreshing in its familiarity.
 
Thank you. I do sometimes wonder if I feel worse about my appearance because it's me, and wonder what I'd think if I was someone else and passed myself on the street. There are some pictures I have with friends which have surprised me because I thought I was the ugliest by far or that I looked like an alien beside them, but then I post the picture online without saying which one I am and get rated the highest of the group.

I have spent time thinking about what I will do about aging. I think once your looks run out you kind of have to be married or you just spend the rest of your days having a boring, lonely life. When I see married couples with children it seems like they have great lives even in old age, but the same time, I really hate the thought of a lifelong relationship. I also don't think I'm the type of person anybody would want to spend their lives with.

Sorry if it has already been said, but what you need to realise is that in the case of men, looks are icing on the cake. Best they can get you is an odd shag. If you have good looks but no personality to back them up, women will see through your bs rather quickly and dump your pretty ass. Or you will end up in a relationship with an unstable, insecure girl who will wreck your life because they're the type that goes primarily for a guy's looks.

I can see, however, why lookism wankers obsess over looks. They are much easier to improve than fixing their broken characters.
 
Sorry if it has already been said, but what you need to realise is that in the case of men, looks are icing on the cake. Best they can get you is an odd shag. If you have good looks but no personality to back them up, women will see through your bs rather quickly and dump your pretty ass. Or you will end up in a relationship with an unstable, insecure girl who will wreck your life because they're the type that goes primarily for a guy's looks.

I can see, however, why lookism wankers obsess over looks. They are much easier to improve than fixing their broken characters.
I think that they consider their personality traits to be entirely fixed and as a result they can't do anything about them. It is a common belief and believed to be one of the most destructive beliefs by psychologists. I think they also lack theory of mind and thus don't understand that not everyone considers looks as important as they do (also why they think gay porn stars are the most attractive men to women)
 
Sorry if it has already been said, but what you need to realise is that in the case of men, looks are icing on the cake. Best they can get you is an odd shag. If you have good looks but no personality to back them up, women will see through your bs rather quickly and dump your pretty ass. Or you will end up in a relationship with an unstable, insecure girl who will wreck your life because they're the type that goes primarily for a guy's looks.

I'm not really looking for a relationship. Apart from the loner lifestyle and the meaningless of life I foresee in later life, relationships aren't important to me, so a girl would have to accept me as I am if I was to consider dating her. If a girl likes me for traits that I don't really possess then it's fake and I wouldn't want her as a girlfriend anyway. If that means I am single forever then I don't really care, though I might have to deal with the consequences when I'm older and there's nothing more to do in life.

A few women have been interested in dating me but I think it was probably fake and based on my appearance, even though my looks aren't that special. I just look mildly decent, but leagues away from being a "hunk". In social circle situations I am thinking of, it was girls who barely ever spoke to me and didn't even know me really, and with strangers it was girls who were looking over at me before I even spoke to them. Just superficial. Rarely, women who I was friends with and spoke to a fair bit, and they were leagues above me so it was probably more than my appearance then.

Personality is needed to pick up women for one night stands too though. If you're weird they leave. They would actually have to be drooling over you in lust to let you get away with being really weird.
 
Oh no, someone might have to work on being less freakish to other human beings for other people to want to hang around them! Clearly the right idea is to avoid work at all costs and make sure you never have a relationship with a human being as long as you live. Anything but having to do something you might find difficult for a little while.
 
So you don't want a relationship and actively turn down attempts to have one. Kudos?

Haha yeah, well I didn't feel it with any girl who's been interested in me so far. Not for a relationship anyway.

I don't think I will find a girl who is right for me. I did once with a girl who was quite introverted like I am, but in this case she wasn't feeling it with me, and to be honest, as time went on, I kind of realized that even though we were similar in some ways, once I got to know her better I saw we were also very different in others. I don't think we would've got on very well.

Deep down I feel like it's not something I want anyway. I've toyed with it before with nice enough girls, but I grew tired of it quickly.

Oh no, someone might have to work on being less freakish to other human beings for other people to want to hang around them! Clearly the right idea is to avoid work at all costs and make sure you never have a relationship with a human being as long as you live. Anything but having to do something you might find difficult for a little while.

The wrong idea is changing who you are at your core in order to get into a relationship. If you really, really love playing Magic the Gathering, then you should play Magic the Gathering. Otherwise you will just get in a fake relationship anyway and you'll never live life in a way that makes you feel happiest. Just for the record before I get trolled to shit, I don't play Magic the Gathering... But there are a lot of people who like nerdy shit and it's wrong for them to suddenly pretend they are someone else. If you just want sex, you can blag it a bit lmao, but for an actual relationship, you can't put up a facade forever and you especially won't be happy in life that way.

There are some traits which are changeable, and aren't really related to who you are as a person. For example, a lot of times things like social anxiety are psychological issues and aren't the same thing as being introverted. Also things like being MGTOW or a crazed feminist, those aren't who you are as a person, those are accessories, usually caused by psychological issues too.
 
... looks ok but I still can't help but giggle. Bum chin.
 
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