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Hey, no matter how dark things get, there's always hope... for us, because you should kill yourself.
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- Oct 1, 2014
No, because you're a whiny, selfish asshole who doesn't give a shit about anybody but yourself.
Grow the fuck up, dude. You're all "ME ME ME ME ME ME ME ME ME" and it's fucking tiresome. That's why girls don't like you. You're not "emotionally cold." You're a prick.
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- Oct 28, 2014
The fuck did I just say?
Cut yourself or cut out, my guy, but you gotta do one or the other. The bit is tired as fuck, and you're boring. Entertain us or piss off.
Actually I think that's the problem, that they do. She said I'm "nice" at the end, in other words, a fucking pushover loser she has no respect for. This is the problem when I start to get feelings for someone, I act like a fucking pussy and get rejected.
During the date she asked me what sort of girls I go for whether I usually go for really pretty girls. It's an obvious trap so I said that I go for girls with sweet personalities, and she was like "awww that's so cute", meaning she stopped viewing me as a cool guy and viewed me as some pathetic man instead. I probably should have been smoother about it and described her, whatever, hindsight is 20/20, especially when at the time you have alcohol in your blood.
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- Oct 1, 2014
The way you wrote this makes it sound like she
Also fun fact: you did not ever come off as a "cool guy" to anybody in the first place.
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No, no they don't. You idiot. You utter, absolute moron. You fucking numb-nuts motherfucker. You complete and utter dickbag.
You only think that because you only go after equally shallow girls or girls who don't know better. You assume that they do, and on that supposition, you go after girls that reaffirm your flawed hypothesis, and then wonder why, oh why, you have this empty feeling in your life that you attribute to being "emotionally cold." It's because you're a hollow shell of a man living a lie and you know how unhappy you are but you're too fucking self-pitying to realize that you're the fucking problem. That's why you don't feel anything. You don't allow yourself to feel because you're so guarded that when you do let your guard down, you show that you're a clingy, whiny, entitled little bitchboy that repels pussy like aluminum foil on a countertop.
So stop making excuses for a lifestyle that's clearly not fulfilling for you and change the one thing you actually can change: yourself.
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He's one of those dudes that thinks nobody can read his personality when in reality he makes it painfully obvious what an uninteresting asshole he is.
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- Jan 13, 2016
Dude, you're not pathetic because she called you cute, you're pathetic because you're yourself.
People who feel sorry for themselves are pathetic.
No, no they don't. You idiot. You utter, absolute moron. You fucking numb-nuts motherfucker. You complete and utter dickbag.
You only think that because you only go after equally shallow girls or girls who don't know better. You assume that they do, and on that supposition, you go after girls that reaffirm your flawed hypothesis, and then wonder why, oh why, you have this empty feeling in your life that you attribute to being "emotionally cold." It's because you're a hollow shell of a man living a lie and you know how unhappy you are but you're too fucking self-pitying to realize that you're the fucking problem. That's why you don't feel anything. You don't allow yourself to feel because you're so guarded that when you do let your guard down, you show that you're a clingy, whiny, entitled little bitchboy that repels pussy like aluminum foil on a countertop.
So stop making excuses for a lifestyle that's clearly not fulfilling for you and change the one thing you actually can change: yourself.
Yeah well I do feel like I'm getting to a point in my life where I want some sort of affection. It could be because I'm getting older and this is what naturally happens, or it could be because my best mate is getting hitched and I feel like I'm missing out on the happiness that he has, or a combination of several factors. I don't feel like I specifically "need" it, it's more like I'm open to the idea.
Probably I am changing in a way, because I find myself thinking more about the idea of love recently when before I never did.
If I was sober or if somebody told me just before the date that I need to seem less attached, I easily could have forced myself to remain more aloof. Being clingy is a product of having no other options. Because there are no other women I'm talking to who I'd consider dating, and because it's been over 5 years since I last had feelings for a woman, it felt like my final shot at this, so it fueled this feeling of attachment (plus ofc I just plain had feelings for her). It's easy to act like you don't really care over text, but when she's sitting in front of you smiling with her beautiful eyes and hair and lips, it's much harder to suppress the feelings. I mean the girl was easily billboard tier she was objectively stunning.
If I'd met her in real life sooner before I got so attached it might have worked out even, or at least I wouldn't be this hurt by it. But whatever, it's not like I'm sitting around doing nothing. I spent this week feeling sad, but I'm talking to other women and trying to meet another who I feel as strongly about, and I'll start hitting up the clubs again from this weekend. I don't think it's necessarily true when people say you can't meet a decent girl at a club or at a bar.
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Christ, this dude is clueless. He only fall in love with 'billboard' girls and asks why nobody likes him.
He suffers from crippling anxiety and only proper function if he fills his ass with drugs. He thinks that liking someone for their personality is weakness and that women only want jerks that treat them like show-prizes.
He want a model tier girl and I bet $1000 that he looks like a diseased donkey ass raped by demons.
If only he backed off the computer and started to improve for real...
He suffers from crippling anxiety and only proper function if he fills his ass with drugs. He thinks that liking someone for their personality is weakness and that women only want jerks that treat them like show-prizes.
He want a model tier girl and I bet $1000 that he looks like a diseased donkey ass raped by demons.
If only he backed off the computer and started to improve for real...
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- Oct 1, 2014
Imagine being so autistic that you unironically say things like "billboard tier" and "smash" and have no idea why women don't like you.
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He appears to be another one of those dudes who uses 'urban dictionary' slangs and thinks they're hot shit because of that.
All I could see when reading his pathetic attempts at posting is a anxious and little sad man using dumb teenager slangs while trying desperately to be 'cool and manly and modern'
He's only an ugly neckbeard who discovered Planet Fitness and thinks this will be his salvation with women.
Seriously, Chris have more charisma than him.
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I am a girl who has a lot of girl friends and most of the problems that come up with guys/boyfriends is that they don't express their feelings or come off as cold and insensitive. What are you talking about?
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He seems like the type to think he is special and deserving, and a placid, ass kissing Victoria's Secret model is going to fall from the heavens and land on his diseased groin. BTW if you do a shitload of Ecstacy you will start to face crushing, crushing depression. This guy already has a boatload of self-afflicted issues, so what's one more, I guess.
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Yeah I guess.
I think I am doing the right thing though. I'm meeting new women, exploring new possibilities. You know sooner or later there will be a girl I feel butterflies for. If there's not, it's not the end of the world. It's not like I have an issue attracting women now, it was just one failed date with a girl I happened to be head over heels for. I'm not some faggot moping about and going MGTOW.
I get what she's saying, but first off I never felt that the women I've been interested in dating were shallow bitches at all. I only chase total bitches for sex, I don't get feelings for them. The other stuff I'm not sure. I think I can seem eager because I'm always after girls I'm immediately intensely infatuated with so I'm always the more interested party. I kept it in check with this girl, even at the start of the date, but once the drinks were flowing and she was referring to me as "a guy" and hinting at relationship stuff I was so happy I completely let go. I know if I could date the girl again I'd never make the same mistakes, but it's done now, it's spilled milk, and I just got to try to take the positives from this. One of those being the simple fact that a girl like her was even interested in me for months and willing to date me in the first place.
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No, you definitely should.
This goes against everything you've told us. You say you go after women, but they turn out to be total bitches. However, your actions and rhetoric here has shown that you have a toxic personality and that people pick up on that.
Yeah, what did you say... oh, that's right, that you would have been "more aloof." Aloof isn't a good thing to be you moron.
Being slightly aloof is good, but then again I only mean it as in "don't seem too keen," obviously you have to show some interest. Women hate desperation or guys who are overeager.
There are no issues to solve by the way I just wanted to share a story with you. I could have a girlfriend if I wasn't as picky. It's not really conscious pickiness eiher just very few women give me that warm and fuzzy feeling. This time it didn't work out but that's okay. She thought I was a niceguy chump who was desperate for her. She's probably as disappointed as I am, after chatting for months she probably thought she was about to get a boyfriend, and I ruined it for us both.
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- Oct 28, 2014
You are a chump.
But you know what might help you feel better?
Cutting yourself and posting pictures on the internet.
You should do that.