Off-Topic Losing people to transgenderism support thread - Support group for trans widows and other people who lost loved ones to troonism

[Paper Machete]

yep found out why

he's a fucking chaser apparently

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I mean it was sort of obvious from the description. Still, we all hold out hope when it's someone we know. RIP.

 

[Anonitolia]

I mean it was sort of obvious from the description. Still, we all hold out hope when it's someone we know. RIP.

yeah, idk, I was hoping he just didn't want to let his friends down and was sticking around to keep them company. Fuck me for being optimistic I guess

 

[Kiislova]

My little brother has moved from his tranny dungeon (the spare room at my parent’s house)

Time to gather all the degeneracy receipts for your parents enjoyment now...

he's a fucking chaser apparently

Easy sex pickings for people that don't mind the crazy (and the smell)

 

[Velociraptor]

I used to be friends with these two guys around 5 years ago, and they both started playing FFXIV around the same time.
Within 6 months, they both trooned out and became so annoying that I cut them off.
Nowadays I just laugh because of how absurd it is. "Man plays XIV once, then transitions" sounds like a fucking meme but it actually happened. That's why I always say that XIV is the tranny game, and not something like F:NV.

 

[Barry Williams]

Weird update, but I just saw the person from this post at the grocery store yesterday evening when I was getting off of work.

Hey, guess who's trying to weasel their way back into my life?

As I left work on Friday and got home I noticed that I had a new voicemail that had been left only 10 or so minutes prior. This was weird because I'd had my phone on me for the entirety of the day and especially as I was driving home, but I didn't hear it ring. I didn't recognize the number right away either, but I did notice that the area code was elsewhere in the state where I'd previously worked. The voicemail was very long, too. Over two minutes. I hit play and as soon as I heard the person start talking I knew who it was. It was this fucking insane pooner. Her number is blocked in my phone so I guess it just goes straight to voicemail for her, but still notifies me when a voicemail is left.

She spun me this story about how she was kicked out of the house that belonged to the aforementioned teacher because the teacher was "controlling" and "abusive" and all the usual BPD woe is me words and I knew right away something just did not match up. This teacher is old as fuck, she has to be at least 90 years old by now. That is not an exaggeration, I mentioned earlier that when I had her as a teacher back in grade school she was already really elderly looking. There is no fucking way she is able to pose any sort of physical threat to anyone else, even someone who's absolutely destroyed their body through years of shooting up the wrong hormones.

I called this person's mother, since I had her contact information from being friends with her on social media. Determined to figure out what the hell was going on, her mom was surprised to hear from me and also that I'd gotten a call from her daughter. Because on Thursday, the day before she called me, she was spotted loitering around the suburb where her mother and her mother's family lived. Police were called, the pooner was booked for criminal trespassing (the only kind of passing trannies can do apparently) and violation of a restraining order -- I mentioned in my previous post that someone got an RO issued and I guess here's the clarification that it was her mom getting the RO on her. The RO was done because the pooner physically attacked her mom, and when I spoke to her mom on the phone she suggested that the reason the teacher "got physical" with her was because it was done out of self-defense. So she's crazy and physically violent, like all retard pooners shooting up with T.

I live maybe an hour away from her mom, and the teacher she was staying with is about another hour or so away from there. She has no car, but she's able to get around somehow. I assume she is scamming Uber or rideshare apps or something. She knows where I live too, and if she was content to show up and wander around the part of town where her mom lives despite being forbidden by law to do so then I was concerned she'd show up around where I live too. As soon as I got off the phone I called the non-emergency line for the local police department and gave them a brief rundown ahead of time in the event that if anything did go south I could just call them back and say "yeah I've already had you document this, that person is now on my property please send someone over". I called everyone else in the area who also knows this person and warned them about what was going on, though they hadn't yet heard from her themselves.

I haven't seen her around all weekend. She left me another voicemail this morning, much shorter, claiming she was supposedly being held at a hospital (no idea where) and was desperate for handouts and a place to stay "just so I can get on my feet" -- the usual deadbeat scumbag scammer bullshit. I'm just ignoring her for now but part of me is worried I will have to get the authorities involved somehow.

 

[Idiot Sandwich the 3rd]

Friend group started talking again, he joined in. Its been months since we talked.
So of course, the usual questions you ask to someone emerge.
A friend asked him how he was doing? What has he done in this time we haven't seen each other.
I for real was not mentally prepared to hear what he said.
He said he's happy, he is now living with his "non binary" but still female girlfriend (this is not missgendering her, she is actually just a girl that looks, acts and behaves like any other woman, but thats only nonbinary because she said so)
Which whatever, he's happy, good for him j guess. But he worded this in a very specific way. He literally said "I'm now living with the girl I was stalking"
This guy just gets worse every single time we speak to him

Spoiler: big a-log sperg but necessary imo

Ok, this will be my final update of him because I will no longer talk or interact with him.
It turns out this guy was a groomer, but not any kind of degenerate, he asked minors to cut themselves, holy fucking shit.
Not surprised at all, not even one bit, but confirming this just disturbed me in ways that really fucked me up.
He got exposed and aperently this fucker did a DFE and we know nothing of him. I just blocked him from everything and warned as much people as I could. I no longer have interest in knowing anything about this guy, I hope he fucking kills himself or gets killed.

About his girlfriend, I think they're still together, I dont know if his girlfriend knows but if she knows and she endorses him I hope she dies too.

(EDIT)
Just to clarify, I will not be exposing him here because that would put me at risk of power leveling, but I will tell you that hes been reported to the local authorities where he lives and many of the people that interacted with him have been warned about this. I pray for the police to put him in jail, if not I hope he dies as soon as possible

Sorry for A-logging. This is just really fucked up. I never felt more disgusted. You never hate troons enough

 

[Le'garde]

I don't know if this is the right place to post this but:

My irl friend of 11 years pooned out 3-ish years ago and i'm honestly thinking of dropping her. (She literally became the stereotypical pooner too with the name, appearance, mannerisms, etc.. Lol.) At first I accepted her identity but she has genuinely deteriorated into one of those weird, miserable, unbearable, self-deprecating trannies and i'm not sure what to think or do?

Most of the times in the past she has been a good friend, and I try to be a good friend to her back, but nowadays it's been exhausting and frustrating. All she talks about now is about her dysphoria, suicide, and just anything related to gender. I try to be supportive as I can, even though it's not really genuine because I hate trannies. I just don't want her to 41% herself tbh. For the past few months she's been in and out of MULTIPLE mental facilities and attending very long therapy sessions as well, but none of it seems to be working and it's looking like a lost cause here.

I'm not sure whether or not to cut ties with her because if I do i'll feel like an absolute selfish asshole but i'm also so sick and tired of the venting and trauma dumping on me, I just don't want to hear it anymore. Most of her problems are her own fault too and never acknowledges that. I think it'll benefit me if I just drop her but i just feel really bad, it's just so depressing because we've been friends for so long. I'm not too sure what to say to her anymore because I basically have to walk on eggshells 24/7, but I really hope she gets better soon. It's just so annoying and tiring for me, but i don't want to make her situation worse. Wtf do i even do?

I've also read some posts on this thread and damn. This shit is sad. I hope all of you guys are doing well.

 

[taxisguy]

I lost my sister to trans/pooner man it just sad because before she was just punk girl and them when she was 19 she started becoming a "men" and them she got surgeries to cut off her breast and her voice got deep and now I don't know that person no more it just make me sad cause we had so many great memories. And when I check her Instagram page she doing this weird puppy shit and it like who the fuck are you. Anyway i pray for her every day it strange world where living in folk.

 

[Bill's Due]

God, the fact there's pages upon pages in this thread of seeing our loved ones and longtime friends troon/pooning out is beyond fucking depressing. This is the kinda shit where if you read it nonstop will make you want to ACTUALLY jump off a bridge.

Like this is a graveyard of people who killed themselves (figuratively) by abandoning who they actually are to try to satisfy those neurons in their brain telling them if they just trooned/pooned out everything would be better. I know, 41% joke and all, but lemme use my figure of speech here. Like you know that as long as society continues to be the way it is, there will be no way to bring these sick people back. Society has ENABLED them to do this - it only will take some sort of self-awareness or realization to bring them back and I don't think I've seen a single troon or pooner de-transition and realize their ways were self destructive.

 

[luci]

Alright, finally somewhere I can talk about this. It's going to be long, and with lots of pl. Sorry in advance. I'm a leftist and have been in leftist places since I was a teen, so I know my fair share of troons. I'm even friends with some ; if you don't bother me, i'm not going to bother you. Unfortunately I've met 2 people that really cross the line for me. One of my exs, and my own sister.

Spoiler: My ex

Started going out with him when I was 14, he was my first real boyfriend, a year older than me. I was just a teen, and he rapidly started demanding really weird sexual favors from me, even tho I was inexperienced and very uncomfortable. He wanted me to dom him (I didn't even know what that really meant), asked me to stick things up in his ass, wanted me to give him weird feminine pet names, and a lot of other stuff I won't describe. Mind you, I was 14. Anyways, after a while, when I came over to his house, he started borrowing my skirts, and my tights. I've always been a very feminine, kinda goth girl, so he stole a bunch of fishnets from me and constantly asked me to do his makeup... To do sexual stuff afterwards. It was cringe, and I didn't understand it back them. I'd never had a boyfriend and just wanted to please him, so I obliged, but remembered feeling how weird it all was. It escalated to him stealing and putting on my panties, and that was it. Thankfully, he moved away and I cut him off. He was definitely obsessed with anime and weird hentai. He hadn't come out at that time, but out of curiosity after reading this thread, I checked his socials, and there you go, he's now a trans woman that goes by a shitty anime inspired name and is a true and honest lesbian. No surprise, but still, fucking creepy.

Spoiler: My sis

My sis has always been the ugly duckling, and never really liked herself. She never had any IRL friends so she spent most of her teen years online talking to strangers obviously older than her. Unsupervised internet access does that to you I guess. I remember seeing on her computer that she had given her phone number to one of her weird friends and telling on her to my parents, and they tried to cut her off from them, but she always found a way. We had been close as kids, but ever since becoming teens, had drifted apart because I couldn't stand her whiny attitude and her crying and throwing fits at any situation when she didn't get her way. Anyways, COVID happened and she became a total shut-in. Started hanging out online with tumblr artists and uwu nonbinary troons, who convinced her that her life was shitty and people didn't want to have sex with her (yes, she talked about this a lot) not because she never showered or brushed her greasy hair or talked about anything other than her shitty tumblr art, but because she was a boy.

So now she is a boy. A boy with huge tits who wears corsets and revealing stuff because gender isn't real anyways guys come on, who cares. She wears shitty makeup and dies her hair crazy colors but says that she's just a man who fucks with gender and she's oh so manish and brave and strong. But... She's a girl. There's nothing manly about her. Not her mannerisms, her interests, her tastes, a n y t h i n g. She doesn't understand when people misgender her even though she makes 0 efforts to pass (not even on hormones after 2 years of being "out"), she just doesn't shave her legs I guess. She has described being envious of my confidence, because I... go out ? She's so miserable she's even afraid to go out in public and speak to people, and she thinks being a "man" will solve that. My poor parents try their best to be supportive, but they have been so relieved since she moved out so they don't have to walk on eggshells anymore. Also the name she picked is butt ugly and my mom is pretty upset because she named her after a relative she loved. Sorry I'm petty, but I had no one to talk about this to. It may seem like I hate her, but I don't, and I miss the kids we used to be. Honestly i'll never forgive the internet lol. I wish I could help her, I've tried to talk to her, but she just cried. So yeah, I kinda gave up. I honestly don't see much of a future for her, but hey, she sells ugly trans stickers on etsy so maybe i'm wrong and she'll become a super famous ugly sticker artist.

Sorry for the long post. Feels good to get this off my chest.

 

[Maxwell Carter]

Sorry to hear that, @luci. It's so much worse when its a family member because deep down you still continue to love him/her but just... can't. It's really sad.

 

[⋖ cørdion ⋗]

I'm not sure whether or not to cut ties with her because if I do i'll feel like an absolute selfish asshole but i'm also so sick and tired of the venting and trauma dumping on me,

You know what's selfish? Demanding things of people. Pronouns, trauma dumping, emotional blackmailing. I assume you're a chick cause jesus you folk have this weird tribal need to be lifelong mates with everyone you happened to befriend because uh... you grew up in their physical proximity.

I suffer the same mental illness of letting people back in, but every time I do it they prove to me why it's a bad idea: It falls absolutely flat the second I stop showing interest or they no longer have a need of something. I had a 'friend of 10 years' literally tell me "well nobody is online", granted he was aspie as fuck, it was too on the nose to suffer through.

What do you gain from this person? You're grooming a deceased cat because it used to be a cute kitten.

 

[Amber the Hedgehog]

I wish I could help her, I've tried to talk to her, but she just cried.

If you want to try again, and I'm not saying you should, maybe try treating her crying as a no big deal. Some women cry to manipulate and some women cry easily even when they don't want to, either way it can stop uncomfortable but necessary conversations. So go into the conversation expecting tears and if they happen ignore them and just continue. Tears can be a big deal but they don't have to be a big deal.

 

[luci]

If you want to try again, and I'm not saying you should, maybe try treating her crying as a no big deal. Some women cry to manipulate and some women cry easily even when they don't want to, either way it can stop uncomfortable but necessary conversations. So go into the conversation expecting tears and if they happen ignore them and just continue. Tears can be a big deal but they don't have to be a big deal.

That's good advice actually thanks. Her crying usually sets me off so I get too frustrated to continue the conversation, but it's my responsibility to try again. She's still my sister. It sucks to see this happening again. We live far away so don't see each other often, but I'll try to give her a call and see how it goes, and try to get my point across even if it upsets her. I'd rather see her upset and crying than dead in 5 years.

 

[Epikusername4]

guys i may be in danger of losing my brother he spends all day playing the sims and going on reddit/discord servers to find mods for the sims. he isn't that far gone yet but i fear the path he may go on, how do i nip this in the bud

 

[Thiletonomics]

guys i may be in danger of losing my brother he spends all day playing the sims and going on reddit/discord servers to find mods for the sims. he isn't that far gone yet but i fear the path he may go on, how do i nip this in the bud

If he's playing The Sims 4, then it's a high chance of trooning out, because of the blatant rainbow propaganda EA has pushed for in the game. The earlier games aren't as pandering, but the chance of troon out because of it is still there.

 

[Epikusername4]

If he's playing The Sims 4, then it's a high chance of trooning out, because of the blatant rainbow propaganda EA has pushed for in the game. The earlier games aren't as pandering, but the chance of troon out because of it is still there.

it is only the sims 2

 

[Coldsteel the Hedgehog]

it is only the sims 2

Does he have tranny mods for ts2? He might just be gay.

 

[FloydsFeedandSeed]

it is only the sims 2

Beats the newer ones, but he's still using Discord. I rarely use Discord now but it's insane how prevalent troons are in just about ANY Discord server. No matter how obscure. Here's one I'm in. A subreddit of less than 300 people for a very obscure game from about 2007. I clicked on about 15 random people on the members list and there's already two obvious trannies, one with this in the bio:

and another troon who mentioned they're in a poly relationship

 

[Epikusername4]

Does he have tranny mods for ts2? He might just be gay.

i dont know he wont tell me

Beats the newer ones, but he's still using Discord. I rarely use Discord now but it's insane how prevalent troons are in just about ANY Discord server. No matter how obscure. Here's one I'm in. A subreddit of less than 300 people for a very obscure game from about 2007. I clicked on about 15 random people on the members list and there's already two obvious trannies, one with this in the bio: View attachment 7102020 and another troon who mentioned they're in a poly relationship

i left all the discord servers i was in i got like 2 with friends from hs and some relatives for like gaming and sending memes but nothing else