I think Lucas attributes his incel status to other men, not women, who he doesn't credit with agency.
He seems to think that if he can find the right combination of words, like casting a spell, Zoomer poonaner is assured.
One of my pet theories about Lucas is that his Love Quest is motivated, at least in part, by his desire to compete with other men. Zoomer Baes aren't just wombs to defile and assholes to torture; they are a way to keep score.
Consider: 1) his oft stated intent of stealing someone's girlfriend, 2) his obsession with cock blockery, 3) his belief that other men know where all the girls are at, and don't share, 4) his hostility to other men, be they graybeards or flatbills, 5) his insistence that girls he talk to not talk to, or about, other men, and 6) his delusions that women with their boyfriends make sex eyes at him in public.
Lucas wants an asymmetrical competition for fee-male attention. "Your" girl is fair game, but you must not talk to "his." And he has stated before that he wants all of the girls.
We know Lucas was a fat, awkward doofus as a young man, pampered by his mother and wildly unpopular with his peers. He was frequently picked on, because he's Lucas. He must've always been at the bottom of any social hierarchy. He's always been status conscious, and now he's an actual, factual hobo without a HS degree, a job, an education, or a gf. He must feel like a failure, and seems to think that a Zoomer Bae would redeem him...in the eyes of other men.
