I never experienced this, unless maybe you're talking about some simple explanations from primary school that are expounded upon in later years. Children also require discipline and structure to their lives, I'm not sure what alternative free-range child rearing you're suggesting.
Also the "6 / 2 (1+2)" trick math question in one of your videos is a pet peeve of mine - it doesn't make sense when you read it because it's the mathematical equivalent of a run-on sentence, not because the rules of math are wrong. It is written ambiguously, probably by a nigger. If written properly, it would either be expressed as "6/(2(1+2))", or "(6/2)(1+2)". Stop sharing this dipshit mathtrap. It does not make you clever, and in fact reveals your mathematical illiteracy.
Someone didn't watch the videos. Of all the information and history presented you take a single data point used as an example of how a math question posed to a group of people results in different outcomes?
And an example of objectively wrong things taught that the teachers knew was wrong:
"If you are subtracting two numbers the bigger number is always first because you cannot subtract a bigger number from a smaller number." (They would actively give problems like [Preform subtraction with these two numbers: 10 14.]
A grade or a few later. "Ok did they tell you all you can't subtract a bigger number from a smaller number, well that is just wrong. Here is what negative numbers are." Then in the same grade. "No you can't multipy or divide fractions or decimals. If you want to divide you have to convert it into a fraction first and then multiply, or convert it into a decimal and then divide.
A grade or a few later. "Ok did they tell you you have to convert over fractions and decimals? Well that is just wrong."
Other examples they said was impossible/completely truebut later said that they were wrong: dividing by negatives, having letters in mathematical equations, all matter attracts all other matter in the universe only the distance between them determines the strength of the pull + all gravity is in the center of the object in the shape of the object, blowing on wounds makes them heal better, there is a 100% right way to spell things and all other spellings you find are just wrong, Pemdas ofc, every sentence in your paper MUST have a direct quote source, if you don't write in MLA you will be fired from your job, Cursive is so important that if your signature is not in cursive it is not legally binding and you will never be able to buy a house or pay taxes, slavery was a uniquely American economic system and founded purely out of malice towards black people by Europeans, drinking milk makes you grow taller, the female genitals are an internal system thus you(females) must be more concerned about STDs as they can be fatal, while boys your genitals are an external system thus have less to worry about so you need to take responsibility for the danger you pose to girls as a non-issue for you can have fatal consequences to a girl, the civil war was fought solely to free the slaves, you can't write summaries of what is being said you have to copy exactly what the teacher says word for word in your notes and your grade will depend on how close it is to what she actually said, etc. etc. Outside of learning to read(which was discouraged by my teachers because I wanted to read goosebumps books rather than sit at my desk and do nothing) elementary through Jr. High taught me nearly nothing that I use in my daily life or wasn't contradicted later in High School or College.
I advocate the traditional method. Ideally the family would teach their own kids until higher education, but it they must be taught at a young age then only taught broad things like teamwork, cooperation, non-intuitive solutions, problem solving, and language. We went 20,000 years without the Prussian-American Education model, we can go on without it too. But higher education I advocate for Symposium style free lectures by intellectual masters and people can freely come and listen if there is room or become disciples/students.