💰 Grifter "Mad at the Internet" - a/k/a My Psychotherapy Sessions

[I'm a Silly]

That post I was replying to implied just walking up to someone and saying "wanna fuck" is the best chance at having sex. Did you somehow miss the earlier bit about how men shouldn't have hobbies or some shit? You know, interests people meet each other in and sometimes spark relationships due to? you can't get to know and then possibly develop relationships with people if you live in a fucking bubble that's nothing but hookups and work.

Wrongo.

Who knew talking about consent would cause such a massive shit stir among men? Maybe that's why I only make friends anymore with men who are already in relationships and have little time for hobbies, the incapable ones are unbearable.
All you gotta do when you're hooking up is ask some variation of "Wanna fuck?" And if you're trying to make out with her and she's not into it, you just come up with a reason to leave. It's pretty obvious if they're NOT into it, if you're not a retard.
Holy fuck, imagine being less socially apt than Chris-chan.

There's the quote. They mention hooking up and I provided you the much needed context for how that is to be taken:

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No.
If you already are on good terms with someone you know socially, then subsequently have a romantic assignation, that is hooking up.
Hooking up is not approaching strangers like in some gay bath house situation.
The idea of saying 'wanna fuck' to someone you're already used to intimately isn't actually weird depending on the sense of humor you share. Honestly, it seems like the kind of candor an old married couple would have.
Conversely, saying the same thing to a stranger should rightly get you kicked in the goolies.
No one is entitled to anyone else's time, attention, or body [parts] -- working within the common courtesy and respect it requires to acknowledge that will go a long way.

 

[Inquisitor_BadAss]

Mad at the Internet: An autistic guide on how you can prevent consent accidents.

 

[paperwork]

frothing with incel rage

the consent thing and @Null 's disbelief at the chat's reaction to it was really eye-opening - y'all are a mess. I can't believe someone unironically said that consent ruins the vibe. it sounds like some Reddit dweeb's first day on Earth. holy shit. are young adults really that incapable of communicating these days? if so sex is the last thing you pod people should be doing.

do us all a favor, buy a Real Doll®, the risk of people like that accidentally having and having to raise kids is domestic terrorism.

what the fuck.

 

[Very_sad_man]

@Null Card has a message for you in his latest video

 

[DeutschfagAufAbwegen]

Why did this thread turn into incel dating/ hookup advice and debate thread? Did I miss something major on the last show?

 

[Legalize Asbestos]

Since we're all talking about sex today I will just add my novel comment, which is that it was indeed jarring to hear Josh say what use to be a radfem talking point from the days of Mattress Girl. It's not an outrageous stance for an aspie to have - but he talked about it in an ahistorical way.

There was a time 2007-2015ish, when the word rape was being stretched worse than goatse and ranged from 'she regretted it the next day' to 'he had a bad aura while standing next to me' levels of frivolous accusation. A lot of male university students gave up on having a sex life on campus, because they'd rather complete their degree then get sucked into the Believe All Women vortex. (Edit: I should add, this was the general origin of MGTOW and the initial appeal of guys like Molyneux.)

It culminated in this weird arms race of 'what qualifies as consent, really' rhetoric, where women would say 'you must do X' and men would do it, and women would move the goalposts and say 'actually, you must also do Y'. etc. Eventually hitting its zenith in the saddest video you've ever seen:

 

[Ace888Ace]

I'm honestly more shocked that people are shocked that the MATI viewerbase consists mostly of severely autistic, poorly socialised retards. Like, is that really so surprising? I thought we were all broadly aware of the fact that, as a whole, we're subnormal. Otherwise, we wouldn't be here. This isn't a place normal people go.

I suppose it's not helped by the fact that this place is an echo chamber. That's not intended as an insult. All communities are echo chambers of some description, because when you get used to an environment, it kind of rewrites your idea of "normal".

 

[The Lawgiver]

Why did this thread turn into incel dating/ hookup advice and debate thread? Did I miss something major on the last show?

what caused it was covering saberspark getting into trouble for having a "consent accident" or some shit with a fan. he has a thread, by the way.

You think he made this face after sex?
apparently THIS is the accuser.

 

[northstar747]

I can't believe someone unironically said that consent ruins the vibe. it sounds like some Reddit dweeb's first day on Earth. holy shit. are young adults really that incapable of communicating these days? if so sex is the last thing you pod people should be doing.

I m gonna make an honest comment here.

Can you please relate your experience with this issue?

Cause I was a rather messed up youth, and litterally had women sending "signals" that I just tuned out.

So are you

1. man/women

have you

2. had intercourse?

3. did you verbally express consent?

If so how did you do it?

 

[Schpoots]

All this relationship spam is reality punishing null for not talking about congress planning to cut the patriot act

 

[paperwork]

"signals" that I just tuned out.

were you on your phone or playing video games? because there's your problem.

in answer to your questions; man, yes, I rubbed my scent on a tree like a proper chimpanzee until a suitable mate prostrated herself before me and we both grunted.

 

[Detective Carey]

I feel like the whole consent topic is the sort of deep nuanced conversation you should have with someone once you've hung out with/dated for a while and gotten (at least what you think) is a good handle on their personality and compatibility before you jump that shark.

Even if you're not trying to be long term and are just in it for casual, I'd argue that basic level of KYC (as it were) isn't really a pie in the sky sort of ideal, it's basic common sense.

Otherwise you're just fucking absolute strangers and complaining about the random outcome afterwards (failing to take personal responsibility and reaching for that victim status brass ring), and that's an excellent way to get stabbed in a filthy alley or contract all sorts of vile ailments.

For example. I just met my new letter carrier last week: and we didn't immediately start making out that minute. We exchanged pleasantries, felt each other out (verbally you sickos), got to know each other, if at least just a little bit. We're taking it easy, and so should you.

 

[paperwork]

Even if you're not trying to be long term and are just in it for casual, I'd argue that basic level of KYC (as it were) isn't really a pie in the sky sort of ideal, it's basic common sense.

that's what I'm having so much trouble parsing, it's so alien to me as a human being that people can't communicate on that basic level. like how do you buy groceries? how do you navigate the DMV?

wtf.

I'm imagining one of these lizard people at Subway like "JAM MEAT IN BREAD! SALT IT!".

 

[Detective Carey]

that's what I'm having so much trouble parsing, it's so alien to me as a human being that people can't communicate on that basic level. like how do you buy groceries? how do you navigate the DMV?

wtf.

I'm imagining one of these lizard people at Subway like "JAM MEAT IN BREAD! SALT IT!".

So when are we fucking? You clearly liked my post, don't toy with my emotions. I see you dancing in that PFP.

 

[paperwork]

So when are we fucking? You clearly liked my post, don't toy with my emotions. I see you dancing in that PFP.

I'm already in, just waiting for the "friends" handshake.

 

[northstar747]

were you on your phone or playing video games? because there's your problem.

in answer to your questions; man, yes, I rubbed my scent on a tree like a proper chimpanzee until a suitable mate prostrated herself before me and grunted.

dude that was in the great before time, cell phone were pricey and everyone had AOL. but my point is/was no expresses interest or communicates consent verbally.

But why are dodging the questions. Why? I m asking in good faith.

look here s an easy one.

1. I am male

2. I have had intercourse

3. Do I verbally express consent? no.

I dont wanna turn this into "dear kiwi farms I never thought it would happen to me posting"

But fuck it.

Here s two example.

Spoiler

Met a girl in my college japanese class, we are hanging out at night on campus, and in a moment of slience I just go up to her and kiss her.

She then brings me back to her dorm room and we do things. The going back to her room is where she took and lead.

*side note I assumed because we were doing things that we were dating, she later clarified that we were not dating because I wasnt good enough to be her bf.....I took that pretty hard*

example 2.

hanging out with this lady I met in japan (no she wasnt japanese) she nice and helpful and has me over at her place I m sleeping in the living room while she had her own bed room, but she s just sitting in the living room with me talking and talking and talking, and I just say "come here" and she turns off the light and lays next to be on futon and I just hold her, honestly its a rather nice memory I have of that night. she tried to escalate things but because I m a faggot who likes to cuddle and sheet. But the next night it happens, and there is no fucking conversation about consent.

But the morning after is the "what are we talk" which was phrased as "what do I tell my friends we are?" and she later told me that if I rejected the relationship in that moment, it would be a shamful one night stand and she would have taken me back to my place and never spoke to me again.

 

[paperwork]

But fuck it.

ok it sounds like you're taking this a lot more seriously than I am so I'll simmer down but "consent" is complicated - verbal consent is not authoritative, I've known girls that say yes when their eyes say no and the other way around, every person is different and every interaction is different and even an interaction with the same person day to day can change, especially with young women.

I'm just not sure what you expect from me. there's been times when I have expressly and enthusiastically given verbal consent, there's times when I haven't, there's times when I have but wasn't sure, there's been times when I've gotten it right and another time wrong with the same partner. the important part is that you don't hang all your hopes on one encounter and that when an encounter doesn't go the way you were hoping or expecting that you're human enough to roll with it, learn from it and grow as a person. every encounter - good, bad, dry, wet - changes you, the worst thing you can do is be stubborn to that change and resist it.

if you don't mind me asking, ballpark figure, how old are you?

anyway, thanks for coming to my TED Talk.

 

[Detective Carey]

That's just life every now and then man. Sometimes dudes wanna bang chicks and bounce, and vice versa albeit if it bit less common. It's rough and honestly a bit scary to open up to someone and go there, but if you don't take that leap: you run the risk of being stuck in this stupid instant gratification cycle popular culture foists upon us.

I say just put it all out there on the line when you get close enough to feel comfortable taking that shot. Instead of rolling with it/giving into the heat of the moment and figuring out what happens later, just tell em yo can we talk real quick? I'm into X but not into Y.

There's way too much implied and assumed mind reading going on when it comes to relationships IMO, and people end up stuck in these cycles of making wild ass assumptions about each other, instead of ever just talking it out because wow that's awkward.

I'm not saying to sit them down and do a cringe dual body cam situation where you both capture each other's consent before anything untoward occurs, just talk first. Have ya even talked to this person you're trying to seduce?

Not only can you sort the wheat from the chaff in regards to your own personal preferences, it's a good screen for fucking psychos looking to harm/take advantage of you. If they can't have a simple conversation about hey are we serious or not or hey I like X but will not bend on Y, I mean that's your fucking red flag already ain't it?

 

[LiquidKid]

Regarding galaxy gas, whippets, Rekieta:
https://youtube.com/watch?v=YwrBWDeGfywTHE seminal video for dudes replacing the oxygen in their lungs with anything else

Air-duster In A McDonald's Parking Lot.mp4
Jump to the 3:00 mark to skip the guys talking inside the McDonalds

Okay. I have an insane vocal range and can easy get my voice from as high as Smorky to as deep as this dude in Galaxy gas in a single sentence without taking a breath. Now I wonder how many people in voice calls with me have assumed I was doing this stuff.

 

[northstar747]

ok it sounds like you're taking this a lot more seriously than I am so I'll simmer down but "consent" is complicated

Thats why nulls chat was talking about vibe, but null was right about saber spark, but get verbal consent wouldnt slove his problem because at the end of the day she s a teenager not knowing what she wants and confused about why she s into him

if you don't mind me asking, ballpark figure, how old are you

Oh I m Gen X born to watch the world burn in nuclear fire and came of age during 1990s