Thanks, a lot of people on this forum have been super supportive. So I'll say it here so anyone can read this.
He's seriously not offending me. Not me personally anyway. No more than anyone else. I'm really fine and dandy. After I was raped I had (and still have) an amazing support group. I do talks at schools and stuff too and that's probably why I can so freely talk to this creepyasshat holden. I've dealt with a lot of little asshats in my days of talking at schools. Many Highschoolers aren't nice people, lol. BUT I digress. Him saying "hope you enjoyed the rape" was just him trying (and failing) to be hurtful because I think I was able to show him that not every single woman wants/likes/adores rape.
I talk to this fucktard because, to me, it's research. I will likely bring his point of views into my next talk and say that women AND men can be raped, but some people don't think so. I will probably even add that no one is entitled to rape, and that if people are telling you No, it's not because they mean yes. They mean no and if you are getting a lot of Nos, you need to look for the fault in yourself, not others. Of course, I will likely disclaimer that with something like "you aren't too fat to be loved, you aren't too ugly to be loved" and "love should be about your personality; so make sure your personality isn't a shit one like this here Holden".
But again, I super digress. Thanks for all the support you guys and
@Holden seriously, how's your folks? I'm not asking about the sex question or the abuse. I'm asking about them in the now. They doing ok? Have you talked to them recently? Will you spend the holidays with them or do you not celebrate?