According to your own words, a married one!
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Ok, look. You're a nice person and everything, but if you seriously believe I am close to being married... It's just... How do you find the words?
Okay, I actually agree with you there. Modern medicine has significantly decreased infant and child mortality, not to mention women dying in childbirth. But it is still possible. Also, getting a child to reproductive age AND having them succeed at reproducing are two different things. Where will your male child be if you are not there to teach him what you think is the right way to get a woman? Where will your female child be without your influence to keep her from having premarital sex?
Where will they be? Happy, dirty, sickly little pigs. They'll be raised by scum and unlikely to be incel since they'll live in an environment that will be more in line with actual reality - with other awful people. My parents raised me as if it were 1985. That's the crucial issue. Not some question I asked my mother in late 2010 she doesn't even remember. They raised me to act like a decent human being at a time when these were starting to be hated.
I mean, really, Horse - if I wanted a child to take care of I'd mate with a woman who could take care of it alongside me. But I have never seen unicorns in croatia.
Here is an example of a Western man who seems to have some of your values, who is a provider through various means, and has had 20 children: Jim Bob Duggar. His wife is Michelle Duggar, and she considers it part of her wifely duty to keep reproducing Jim Bob's genes. Their TV show can probably be seen in snippets on YouTube; it airs on the channel TLC and is called
20 and Counting. Several of the oldest children, who had mates selected for them through an extremely rigorous courtship process supervised closely by Jim Bob himself, have gotten married or engaged so far. Now, he has a reality show about him precisely because he has the exception, but the forum members who have tried to ask you about the "Quiverfull" movement are asking about guys exactly like Jim Bob, who are providers with helpmate wives. The catch is that, in the US, this is tied closely to a very particular form of fundamentalist Protestant Christianity, which is how the guys convince their wives to have very large families: they believe they are making soldiers for God. However, this guy is not on welfare. He does now get most of his money from the TV show, but he has worked several different jobs before and even been elected to public office. He does provide for his kids. He keeps his daughters home so they don't have the temptation of premarital sex, and he supervises their selection of husbands. He is now a grandfather. And he is not alone. There is a whole movement of these guys, spread out across the US and not confined to small areas like the Amish or Hasidic populations you have mentioned. Even better, you don't have to be any particular ethnicity to join this group; you just have to convincingly say you agree with their religious values.
Here is a link to one of the books about this family.
What do you think? No beatings. No rapes. He is a provider, and not reliant on being attractive. His wife is totally in agreement with his values. He is extremely successful from an evolutionary standpoint. He is American, and there are many other American men just like him. Do you agree with his strategy? Do you consider him an example of a successful man who is resisting feminism and definitely not incel? If so, how will you be like him if you're not involved in the lives of your kids?
Well, first thing's first - I want a wife, not a cow. I don't want 5 kids. 2 would do. Regarding this guy Jim Bob person I'll ask franklin about him.
The point is- what does all this matter? I don't live in America and have no plans to ever even visit again. There's not a single group that resembles anything like that here, where most people are catholics just focused on belief and celebrating god? they never talk about morals or anything, just god. catholic girls here are in love with jesus. they don't really even need a boyfriend.
as for this Jim person's strategy, i think it is valid but i hope he leaves america soon with people who do this. it will be going down pretty quickly.
