I disagree. It can probably depend where you live and where you are online though. I personally have dealt with a lot of trannies on and offline. I used to be really accepting of them. It was how my mom raised me. She had tranny friends and while I thought they were a bit strange, I accepted them without question. Same with ones I met online. Until only a few years ago when I started thinking about the whole thing more critically along with things getting out of hand with the SJW crap. My mom's friends that I was once fine with started to seem more and more off to me. The ones online started making me really uncomfortable with constant whining about cis women that eventually turned violent. Along with the fact that most trans women just feel so compelled to make awkward sexual comments constantly.
There was one that I was room mates with for a little while. It was a real experience but she wasn't much different from many others I'd interacted with. She was in her late 30's, had been out and on hormones for about 20 years, passed really well. She went for the "blonde bimbo slut" stereotype. Again with the constant sexual shit. Always making comments about "her pussy" (she was pre-op, mind you, and she'd even do this in public). But then also talking about how big her dick was. Loved going into graphic stories about her sexual encounters. She'd frequently come up behind me and press her giant fake tits into my back and make creepy comments. If you were dating anyone, you wanted to keep them away from her. Because she'd definitely start hitting on them. She, like many other trans women I'd been around, had no qualms with seeking out and fucking married/involved men. I suppose it's a validation thing. All that and she was really, really bitchy toward natural women. Always slinging insults. This is all just a small taste of what she was like. Bitch was fucking insane.
That coupled with the increasing hostility and sensitivity from other trannies was the last straw for me. I had a friend bitch me out and label me as a transphobe because I said the word tranny in reference to an MtF that worked for tips in drag shows (it's really common for MtFs to do drag shows). I didn't mean it any kind of way and it was what I'd seen others call themselves and even heard my mom use it affectionately. I didn't even know at the time it was derogatory at all. It didn't matter how supportive I'd been, how much I'd listened to them whine about how unfair it was not having periods, helping them practice their voice, comforting them when potential dates shot them down, dealing with bitching about how awful cis people were and being expected to not have any issues with that, none of it. I used a no no word and was now an evil transphobic piece of shit.
After that I stepped back and realized it was all horseshit and I was sick of walking on eggshells around these people while they felt comfortable being shitty to real women. It's all gotten so out of hand. Guys with a 5 o clock shadow can slap on a dress and go in women's bathrooms and locker rooms as long as they say they're a woman. They can join women's sports teams and ruin it for everyone else. And you better not have anything to say about it. They can say any shitty thing they want to about women but god help you if you make any comments about their fake tits or lack of a real vagina. They can be creepy and sexually aggressive but you better not rebuff them because then you're just a transphobic bigot.
It's all so tiring. It's like a black hole that will just drain everything you have and it's never enough. As you can tell, I have a lot of feelings about this topic lol.