I am relieved to know that they hadn't planned on meeting with Misty. When I first heard about the 'chance meeting', I was dreading finding out that Richard's adopted family was looking to get to know her.
@FamilyGuy22 - I am sorry for how I reacted toward you.
It's just that in the past I have dealt with people pretending to be someone they really aren't so much that I just don't know who is the real deal and who isn't anymore.
And I really am sorry to everyone on here for the way I acted in the past and how I have acted these past few days.
I agree with FamilyGuy and everyone on here to be cautious around Aurora and telling her anything about Richard or about anything else.
I was a fool for not listening to you all about not contacting Aurora. I should have known better...I just wanted to let my nieces and nephew know that I care about them.
I made some poor choices and regret those but being in contact with Tricia and Cody has helped not only me but them as well.
They now know that Tricia does still have some bio family that still love and care for her, no matter what y'all may think.
I know that many of you are mad at me for responding to some of Misty's videos but in most of those videos I am fairly positive and upbeat, not letting her mental instability get to me.
Recently I have noticed that she has switched gears from going after her neighbor to targeting me and our "atrocious family".
But when she said she spent most of her time running around because of what she had to deal with at home, that was mainly because of her attitude and her "higher than thou" personality.
To see that she is also now wrangling our grandparents into all this makes me want to seethe.
Grandpa loved Misty as much as he loved me and Grandma and Aunt Terry mainly took care of her almost every day into the evening because of Mom.
Not only did Mom work in Public Affairs but according to our Aunt, Mom wasn't ready to have kids when she had Misty.
I hate to say this but according to our Aunt, Mom didn't want to have Misty. She had her because it was what Dad wanted.
So she pawned Misty off whenever she could on Aunt Terry and Grandma.
Fast forward seven years later when I was born, Mom WAS ready for kids and doted and loved on me the way she never did with Misty.
Imagine how that must look like to a seven year old, watching the new baby get all the attention that you never got.
I know I've gone over this in the past but wanted to remind y'all of what our mother was like while we grew up.
And that seemed to have rubbed off on Misty as well.
As for who our Korean Sister was, Chi was a young girl (I think about two or three...I think she was a year older than Misty actually) that Dad met while he was serving in the army on Korea.
I was told while I was growing up that he adopted her and on the day he was supposed to bring her home a truck hit her when she was running across the road to meet Dad.
As I got older though and did some research into the whole adoption process, I started to suspect that Chi was not going to be our "adopted" sister...she was actually our HALF SISTER.
I remember going through the Korean photo albums Dad had when I was about 11 or 12 and Dad had pictures of various Korean women in short shorts and crop tops (as was the fashion back then for some...ahem...ladies of the night...back then...).
I asked Dad who the women were and he never gave me a straight answer until I was about 15 when he told me that while soldiers serve overseas, sometimes they get lonely....
Ah ha! It finally click when I turned twenty and was working on my family tree. I looked through the photo album again then remembered what Dad had told me.
Lightbulb flash!
Dad had apparently had sexual relations with one of those women and she became pregnant with Chi! So Chi was our half sister and not adopted!
So there you go. That was the Korean sister Misty was talking about.